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Vidya

@Shinya

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

#51

Originally posted by: surabhi01
anandi ganga ko console hi to kur rahi thi dande to nahi maar rahi thi

It was nice to see your sense of humor for a change... 😕

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Tuttifrutti

@Tuttifrutti

Voyager

+ 2

Posted: 13 years ago

#52

Originally posted by: tistaa
Magicaleyes yesterday you told with big mouth that you are not Anandi basher and within 24 hrs you cotradict your own staement !!! BRAVO...yes we all are enjoying this kind of fights with popcorn and diet cock bcoz we all love to hurt each other feelings. Agree with me nah? right? @Tootyfruity Dude dont mind but it is your comments which sound like empty vessel noise more[/QUOTE...Why should I mind it tistaa..afterall you have the right to comment on it..
Unfortunately like me, there are many empty vessels who make noise and like me, try to learn the art of tolerating that noise rather than complaining...I have learnt that..never take it personal and to your heart..respect the difference..you will really enjoy..

But i respect you my friend..

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shalluuu

@shalluuu

Inactive

Posted: 13 years ago

#53

bal vivah k tag laga kar anadi hmesha hi bechari rhegi...creatives want her to cry and remember only one oncidence bal vivah...jisme usey aesa sasural mila jo adult marriage m nahi milta...husband k sukh nahi mila to baad m aesa husbad mila jo sb se zada caring h...

but she still consider herself to be bechari and victim due to her bal vivah...

Edited by shalluuu - 13 years ago

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Nandita / Tina

@5cents

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 13 years ago

#54

Originally posted by: Shinya

Good reply! I like it very much when members try to demonstrate their PoV with a scientific illustration, does not matter whether the illustration is relevant or not. But the fact that someone tried to show off his/her 'knowledge' is enough to understand him/her.

The question was not whether anandi's brain cells could relate her to Ganga's story or not. Yes, anandi could relate her own experience. She did not have a malfunctioning brain. No one raised that point.

However, our intelligence also tells us when to open our mouth and when to keep it shut.

But anandi and her likes always seem to like to brag about themselves. That reminds me of Albert Einstein's quote "Information is not knowledge. "

So true information is defo not knowledge but it helps one to become knowledgeable and we start to reason and become logical. Information becomes knowledge when it leads to a judgment and conclusion😳 So I concluded that since you were flabbergasted by her statement you did not understand where she was coming from hence the scientific analysis. 😃

Anandi is the Sarpanch so she has been consoling people of Jaitsar for a long time I guess.

So talking, preaching or sermonizing ( ( as some call it) has become her second nature. It is part of her daily job to console and help. That was just a spur of the moment statement and I feel it did not require a post nitpicking on that one liner. Everybody has different ways of consoling and reacting to a situation. It was a plain gesture to make Ganga comfortable that the girl standing next to you is also had a balvivah now please continue your story...it was as simple as that. How would Ganga know that she had a divorce and her whole nine yards so maybe at that point G saw...ok somebody has had a good balvivah here. Positiveness (my POV)

You are right we all react and speak up according to our intelligence and thought process. There is no right or wrong. Maybe Ajee's intelligence guided her to open her mouth and she did and G did not pass out hearing that simple statement of fact so I'm all cool.

My intelligence said that this simple statement did not require a thread dedicated to it. People react in different ways fine you were frustrated so you could have taken it out in the frustration thread.

JUST MY pov ...No need to start a thread to discuss a simple statement! 😃

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Tuttifrutti

@Tuttifrutti

Voyager

+ 2

Posted: 13 years ago

#55

I think that this sentence has a very powerful and logical meaning and interpretations to this big sentence are bound to create different thoughts in the minds...

Anandi spoke very slowly and especially now a days very less..so her every word needs a disection to the extent of histology or histopathology.😉

I do not want to say she posed her nose but she definitely tried to step in and put her story in Ganga s story..well she does not have only the right but also the authority to do that ..being sarpanch and as a wife of collector..no body can stop her afterall what she is doing, it is not harming or against anyone.

The only thing that worries, is her unpredcitable behaviour now a days especially before and after marriage...I am scared that she may say that she is not mentally prepare to do a thing for which she is advocating too much..She is not now a days having the same solid determinatrion as she used to have...I do not think I have to give any example..

And I myself do not know when she can loose her self confidence...

A driver who met with an accident and without fault caused a disaster, should only come back to the driver seat when one can gain confidence to drive ..other wise the fear or lack of confidence will drive again to disaster...

Edited by tootyfruity - 13 years ago

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smittu

@smittu

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#56

Originally posted by: tootyfruity
Anandi is like an empty vessel making noise everywhere...😉

Have u been seeing BV for a long time or suddenly jumped on the band-wagon...pls dont pass such empty statements...

A was jus trying to show empathy towards Ganga and even if some ppl think its silly bcoz A never went thru wat Ganga went thru but still give her the benefit of the doubt --- she is one of the most sacred characters on tele for me but we should also remember that she is a human being (although sometimes she behaves otherwise 😛)...but still, there is no need to pass uncalled -for , rude comments 😡...I am not going to list A's acheivemnts here but watever said n done , she is not an empty vessel and even if u want to think she is , she doesnt make any noise ...😡😡😡😡

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silama

@silama

Beginner

Posted: 13 years ago

#57

i agree with the fact u need not keep on telling that am a balika vadhu, that too when u r now married to an gentleman who cares for u.
More over every girl r women r for that matter old lady who is married in jaitser shud b a balika vadhu , since bal vivah was prevelant in the village before anandhi became the sarpanch.Yes the story was told with anandhi as protagonist doesn't mean all others were not balika vadhu's.This serial is to show the evils and short comiings of bal vivah and is not abt just anandhi's story.Also even dadisa was a balika vadhu and then a widow who had to take care of her son and son of her brother -in -law who was stalking her continuously and that too during a period when the going wud hav been still more tougher.
In this show only the women in the shekar family wudn't hav gone thru such illtreatments since the seniormost shekar is an army man and hope he wudn't hav accepted an bal vivah for his son.
Also ganga is undergoing treatment with a big bandage around her face, she wudn't b able to speak within this short duration of treatment and here every one is standing around her and talking to her without even thinking how much pain she wud be undergoing both physically and mentally.

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bips54321

@bips54321

Explorer

Posted: 13 years ago

#58

Jail me agar ek quadi dusre quadion ke paas continuously shikayat kre ki mujhe yaha accha khana nhi mil rha hai
aur uske bass bakion ka plate dekhkar yeh comment kre "kya tumhe bhi mere tarah accha khana nhi mil rha? Dekho mere taraf mai bhi tumhare tarah quadi hun"
Tab baki quadion ka kya reaction hoga?
I think the rest is self explanatory

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bips54321

@bips54321

Explorer

Posted: 13 years ago

#59

Originally posted by: Shinya

I was shocked when Anandi said to Ganga 'meri taraf dekho, mera bhi balvivah hua tha'. What was that ?

This woman Ganga is in severe pain, her infant is taken away from her, she is beaten up almost to death, she has no family member with whom she can share her pains, she has lost almost everything in the world and is lying in the hospital distraught... And anandi has the nerve to narrate her own story?

Is she implying that ganga's pains are the same that she had to go through? A woman who always had loving family members to take care of her and who now has got a second chance in life, without even understanding the gravity of Ganga's situation, is citing her own example ??... ridiculous!! It only showed anandi's lack of maturity, sadly.

And then she says, collector saab is very busy with his work ...🤣🤣Wonder what work..😆

Basant and dadisa felt guilty was understandable. The only one who spoke some sense was Shiv. At least he gave Ganga the much needed assurance that he will bring her son back to her. And I am sure he will keep his promise.