ANANDI BECOME A SCHIZPHERENIC - Page 2

whatever u call her...to me her act looked disgusting...Shiv fell in love with her becoz she had guts to speak her mind...n she has done that always...specially with Shiv...i don't remember Anandi being so honest to anyone as she was with Shiv...nothing that happened in past with Anandi could justify her act. she is actually cheating Shiv n its purely disgusting as no one more than her knows how it feels if someone u love cheats on u...she once complained to Jagya that he cheated he...never discussed on what was in his mind with her...and now what is she doing?

Originally posted by: Missesha

Chumki, I agree.

Anandi's behaviour is out of her character. I am failing to sympathise with her.

How hard is it to speak her mind to Shiv? She need not sleep with him if she is not willing, but what is the pretence for? Is she not the person, who sings the lullaby of how honest one should be then why is she not being honest, with the only guy who is completely supportive of her?

And then why feel guilty, when you have knowingly committed the mistake? The next day's behaviour was even irritating. She jerks at his touch, something that she was quite comfortable with, before marriage.

Her past was something fatal that she did not have control over. Her future is something she can embrace, but all she does is to run away. This marriage didn't happen overnight, and it happened with all her consent, so why does she behave so helpless and trapped?

Originally posted by: monamie111

pls chill down guys...

@ chumki...i think she is thinking about what shiv said and what he wants form her all the time..she doe snot know how to tell him that she can not do it right now!! so she is scared...

and chill, CVs have habit of showing everything dramatically..so this time also they r overdoing it...that's all! 😳

yaar CVC'S KA yeh"overdoing" ka funda gale se nahi utar raha hai ab to... i understand everything what u r saying abt "touch"... but in real life does anybody get that scared on being touched by someone u know so closly and all his touch is related to lastfull feeling?...i have a doubt... then it,s a"serial" normal baat to dikha hi nahi sakte na😡...as u said they r "overdoing it😊

Anandi behavior totaly out of character .why she marry to him ? Just spoil life shiv.

I agree that cvs went a bit far by making anandi pretend to sleep in the library, in his arms, in the bed. Am upset by her behavior but I understand her fears. She felt she would hurt him by denying but in that process she hurt him even more and herself too. Wish she could have been the anandi who could share everything with shiv... Who couldn't hide even smallest of things. It was sad to see her protecting herself from a man who protected her dignity, gave her the respect she deserved an protected her life physically and emotionally. Anandi got carried away by her fears and shiv got carried away in the happiness of being married to a woman he loved . But still there was something special about today's AnSh scene ... It touchd me.

Originally posted by: shivanandi78

Anandi behavior totaly out of character .why she marry to him ? Just spoil life shiv.

CV s spread to wrong massage to socaity .

yes... cv's r try to prove those relative's right who said a divorcee naver forget her past which is wrong though it takes time but insaan waqt ke sath sath bhool jata hai as we all know time is the best healer.. i m unhappy coz anandi behavior is totally out of her charector as we all know..., hesitation understandable,,,, uneasyness with her first night understandable,,,,,,,,,,but affraid with his touch... simple OTT

Originally posted by: Suchi-Virmanian

no I know.. I was like lol what a conclusion

see... I know she is cringing.. cause she is thinking every touch he is making right now = sex.

So for her right now in her brain... touch = sex so she does not want that.

Before when Shiv picked her up during that rain sequence..she knew that , that touch was not = sex.

So its not really the touching, its what being implied .. thats making her behave that way.

She is really really feeling guilty about this. She does not know how to react. Usually SHiv used to put her mind to rest but this time ..its him. She does not want to disappoint him at the same time does not want to give in..so she is in a confused state not knowing how to react...

She even figured out that Shiv is totally upset ...or at least disappointed with her...or she thinks that way...

Lets see how the CVs unfold this. I hope shiv goes back to his normal mode and takes it one step at a time. He takes out time to romance with her... and then .. she will come to him ...

I have no doubts about that.

Waise bhi its been only 2 days since her marriage so .. with time yeah def.

i totally agree with suchi

Anandi is behaving in weird way. I am not able to understand her mental state. I can understand her fear, apprehension, need of space and tension. But pretending to be asleep in the study is just too much. It is not in tune with A's character. The Anandi I know, does not pretend. Giving hope to somebody and then turning your back is really bad. Withholding affection(without a reason) is also a kind of abuse.Right or wrong, Shiv had a wish. Right or wrong, Anandi doesnot agree to it. But it is wrong to be silent. It is wrong to keep the other person waiting in hope. Why she needs to talk to Sumi. Sumitra had already told her to share even the small things in her heart with Shiv. Did Anandi forget Sumi's words?

Originally posted by: mocking_bird

Anandi's behaviour would have been believable, had Shiv been a total stranger to her.

In that case, she would not have known what to expect and how to deal with it and hence the fear and the hesitation. But,here you are with a man with whom you have spent so many intimate moments before and specifically you have requested him to get married to you,and here you come up with such "touch-me-not" attitude after the marriage?

I cannot understand what she expects Shiv to be? A husband to showcase to the world or a husband in true sense of the word? If Shiv gets exasperated and starts ignoring her altogether I will not be surprised. She deserves it.