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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Samanalyse



Profound and poignant words there, Asha! 👏

That is why Prashant knows only how to find solutions outside of himself when the only true solution to his loneliness lies within. Introspection = zero.

I totally agree with you that at this point, Prashant is not ready to be even a friend to anyone because he cannot share in their happiness and be ungrudging about it. The moment someone else's happiness intrudes on his own, even a little bit, he goes against them. I guess this is what happened with Aarti too.

But I do see a long-term redemption for him where at first he tries getting Ansh and Aarti the wrong and short-cut way, as he is planning now, and then after all the drama resigns to the fact that if he wants to be a part of Ansh's life, he has to do it on Aarti and Yash's terms, not his own.


Agree with you Samana... this is going to happen in near future...He will realize that his battle is no longer against Aarti but also against Yash... Aarya is the stronger side so he has to agree with their terms.. Besides, Aarya has provide a secure and loving family to Ansh compared to P.
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Posted: 13 years ago
@Ria : Yeah I read it again 😆.. actually I missed the flashback bit all thanks to my cable connection .. so I assumed she was running towards Prashant when collided .. will catch the repeat ...
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Samanalyse

@Jyo: Great post. I agree about Prashant, and my opinion is that the trigger for him today was Yash crossing over into Prashant's memories of Aarti. The Aarti that Yash was saying he had a soul-connection with today, was not the Aarti that Prashant abandoned, but an Aarti that was his at the time. I think this made Prashant feel all territorial towards the situation... which eventually led to him wanting Aarti back in his life.

@Ria: Lovely symbolism for the flashback! I would add though that Aarti really wanted to go to the top of the cliff with Prashant, but he was lazy and wanted to drink tea. In short, he was never willing to put the necessary effort into their relationship the way Aarti was, if it was the slightest bit unpleasant, no matter how much she begged him to. Eventually, I guess he just got sick of her expecting more from him than his characteristic laziness. It is interesting because Yash and Arpita were stuck in one place, waiting for the moment to be captured while Aarti and Prashant were moving apart. I guess this shows that Yash and Arpita will always have that moment they were together, at the foot of the cliff, but that Yash was not meant to climb with her. It is Aarti who is sort of going in that direction behind him, as though leading him, in the picture. But Arpita, because she and Yash were in love and in sync, gets to be a part of the picture forever. Even though it is telling the story of Aarti and Yash's eventual meeting, she remains a dominant figure. Prashant, on the other hand, because of his laziness doesn't get to be in the story, showing that though Aarti was with him, she was alone even then.


I DITTO U Samana! Thats what I meant when i said that Yash's love for Arpita, and of course Arpita's love for Yash was strong, and so Yash reaches her, and stays with her...only they were not meant to be with each other ... Arpita was like a beautiful dream in Yash's life which gave him loads of happiness till it lasted and left him broken when it ended...until he found his reality- Aarti.

I also agree absolutely about what u said regarding Prashant and Aarti. Thats why I said that aarti was 100 % loyal to him and loved him. She put in her best efforts in that relationship, or may be what she thought was her best...whereas Prashant made almost zero effort. However, relationships do not work solely on efforts.esp one sided ones.after all love is more important. Hence Aarti chose to leave him with his tea instead of staying there with him. The attraction towards that cliff...towards that someone whom she was always looking for, may be even in Prashant...was stronger.
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: jyoti06

I think I was right in understanding Prashant ...

Prashant wanted to make Yash realise about his love because he thought thats the best way of his redemption and probably Aarti will start respecting him as a person again if she comes to know that he is the one who made Yash realise about his love , reason why he kept giving those tips to Yash to b the grt person in Aarti's eyes later 😉

Now today when Yash called up Prashant and told him that I realised my love for Aarti on my own and then sends him that kodailkanal honeymoon picture which nails the fact that Aarti and Yash r the real soulmates since they already met at a time when Yash was with Arrpita and Aarti was with Prashant , this makes Prshant highly insecure because he realises that Aarti and Yash r destined to b together one day and in this he has no real hand , so he later cannot really take the credit too ...

Prashant's illusion to become the grt man in Aarti's eyes breaks completely once he realises that destiny had already planned the union of Aarti and Yash and its not something Prashant is doing it .. He has no hand in Aarti-Yash's union ... This hurts his manly ego and he feels useless as a man , reason why in precap we see Prashant suddenly feeling his loneliness and wanting Aarti-Ansh back because now he knows there is no use to put this mask of a grt sacrificing man when in the end I m not even getting the credit for it as Yash-Aarti's soulmate connection ,that is the picture is taking away all the credit 😆😆...

In short Prashant wants Aarti-Ansh back not because he loves them but because he wants to satisfy his ego and prove to Yash that all your thinking about this picture and the soulmate connection is useless since look in the end Aarti-Ansh r coming back to me .. 😊...


Prashant is even sure that Yash will not forgive Aarti once he is told the truth about Aarti's divorcee status which again indicates that Prashant in his heart always assumed that Yash cannot b as great as me in love who is even ready to accept Aarti after her remarriage with someone else ,and so he is hoping that Yash should not forgive her , so that Prashant can hv that opportunity to show his greatness and accept both Aarti-Ansh saying I m still waiting for u both , so I deserve this one last change 😉😊... This is where I m sure Yash will give further shock to Prashant by forgiving Aarti and also supporting her fully once he is told the truth.. mayb in bedroom Yash will hold his grudges against Aarti for hiding the truth but in front of all he will always support her which will further frustrate Prashant 😉😆😆

Moral of the story is Prashant wanted himself to project as a better person than Yash in terms of understanding love and relationships but Yash in this competition is turning out to b the better and superior man for Aarti who even has a soulmate connection with Aarti 😛 .. And this is becoming difficult to digest for Prashant not because he is a evil person but I will say its completely human that a man who till now thought I was the first love of my wife , suddenly sees her soullmate connection was with someone else who is her present and future too , one tends to feel insecure and this insecurity will slowly give rise to the inside beast of a man and slowly we will see Prashant changing his colours

So somewhere the transformation of a positive Prashant to a selfish grey Prashant has started from this episode and the main cause for this transformation was that one single picture which puts a question mark on Prashant's existence in Aarti's life , which something as a man he is not able to digest .. He was sort of holding onto that past but now Yash by sending that picture has indirectly snatched away even that past from Prashant .. No wonder his inside beast is about to come out now 😊😊

I will say thats a brilliant piece of story telling by CVs where Prashant is not made overnight negative but a complete justification is given in the episode .. That one picture interconnecting all 4 in Kodaikanal is the reason why Prashant is now going to go the evil route since his existence has been questioned which no man can tolerate .. Mayb if Yash was given such a soulmate picture of Arpita with another guy in background , his reaction would hv been same like Prashant ... So a beautiful justification to why Prashant now will want to get Aarti and Ansh back and also now we know Yash is going to stand by Aarti's side since Prashant feels he will not 😃😃


great take Jyo.. 👏
once again P was defeated by one pic... nice job CV 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
Yash's realisation of love in first 5 minutes of the show was soo beautiful ...I loved the fact that Ishq wala love was used in the show as well and even though Yash was daydreaming , but still loved that bits of Yash-Aarti dancing ..really romantic and dreamyy ...

Apart from the dance , what caught my attention was Yash imagining Aarti in different forms 😛 .. like first she comes to him to take his body measurements for sweater which was more like a typical caring wifey that Yash sees in her .. he enjoys the way Aarti is touching all over his body taking measurements like a caring wifey 😳😳... Then he sees her teaching drawing to the kids where he spots red colour mark on her cheeks which was more of a passionate and desireful dream since his instant reaction was to wipe off that red colour from her cheeks , which was more of his inner desire that he starts to feel for his wife and its no more just limited to respect or caring 😉😛.. So he sees Aarti as a woman who is beautiful , caring , loving and extremely attractive as well 😳😳😳...

In the end the way Yash takes Aarti in his arms and starts dancing was the final realisation of his love .. He can finally celebrate and declare to all that he is in love 😳.. Even though it was all Yash's dream but the fact that he could see and feel Aarti everywhere with his open eyes , is the best possible way to show anyone's love realisation and this is all his own dream .. Theres no interference of any third party till here 😃...

Vidhi comes in the picture to tell her cliched "u r in love" dialogue only later once Yash already realised his love for Aarti on his own and so today Vidhi dint irritate me much 😃😃.. I guess its Vidhi's basic nature , so we cant help it 😆😆...


Also I will not say that Yash realised his love for Aarti only after Vidhi showed him the picture .. His main realisation came yesterday itself and then today in the start when he imagines Aarti everywhere and wonders what happened to him 😳..Its just that he was not able to define it as "Love" till he sees the photo given by Vidhi and his misconception that Arpita was his ultimate soulmate breaks completely when he sees Aarti in background and realises that whatever he is feeling for Aarti is nothing unusual but pure love since both were always destined to b together 😳😳...


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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Samanalyse

@Jyo: Great post. I agree about Prashant, and my opinion is that the trigger for him today was Yash crossing over into Prashant's memories of Aarti. The Aarti that Yash was saying he had a soul-connection with today, was not the Aarti that Prashant abandoned, but an Aarti that was his at the time. I think this made Prashant feel all territorial towards the situation... which eventually led to him wanting Aarti back in his life.



Yess .. I guess that picture made him remember the whole incident and suddenly he feels he never had any existence in Aarti's life .. it was always Yash and this makes him feel all unwanted and useless
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Posted: 13 years ago
@Jyo..beautiful take 👏..
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: jyoti06


Yess .. I guess that picture made him remember the whole incident and suddenly he feels he never had any existence in Aarti's life .. it was always Yash and this makes him feel all unwanted and useless


Perhaps it will make him realize that his true love is actually Nida.. if he strongly feels for her he should go after her.. not Aarti!
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: DMKJ_VB

[The attraction towards that cliff...towards that someone whom she was always looking for, may be even in Prashant...was stronger.



I love this line! So true, that yearning for a soul mate was always strong in her and because she was in love with Prashant, she tried desperately to mould him to fulfill that yearning. She wanted so much more from a relationship than he was willing to give, and I think that is what ultimately led to their going separate ways. Yash definitely has the capacity and inclination to give what Aarti is expecting in a relationship, and that was no more apparent than in his obsession with the dead Arpita. Even when she was no longer with him, he tried to keep giving that intensity to the relationship, making him incompatible with the rest of the world because he was so fully concentrated on someone who was not in the world, and frustrated, drained and depressed because he was basically feeding all his energy and love into a vacuum that couldn't reciprocate. Aarti gradually filled that vacuum, with her presence and her insistence on his increased involvement with the kids, so now Yash's intense love is reflected back at him, instead of being sucked into nothingness, giving him energy and confidence. And that is why they both complement each other so perfectly. Aarti understands the intensity of Yash's love, she did even when it wasn't for her, and recognised what she has always yearned for, even if it was directed at Arpita. Yash feels understood and finally has a person who can absorb all his intensity and weather it instead of withering under it, only to shoot it right back at him. It really is a beautiful relationship!
Edited by Samanalyse - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Samanalyse



I love this line! So true, that yearning for a soul mate was always strong in her and because she was in love with Prashant, she tried desperately to mould him to fulfill that yearning. She wanted so much more from a relationship than he was willing to give, and I think that is what ultimately led to their going separate ways. Yash definitely has the capacity and inclination to give what Aarti is expecting in a relationship, and that was no more apparent than in his obsession with the dead Arpita. Even when she was no longer with him, he tried to keep giving that intensity to the relationship, making him incompatible with the rest of the world because he was so fully concentrated on someone who was not in the world, and frustrated, drained and depressed because he was basically feeding all his energy and love into a vacuum that couldn't reciprocate. Aarti gradually filled that vacuum, with her presence and her insistence on his increased involvement with the kids, so now Yash's intense love is reflected back at him, instead of being sucked into nothingness, giving him energy and confidence. And that is why they both complement each other so perfectly. Aarti understands the intensity of Yash's love, she did even when it wasn't directed at her and recognise what she has always yearned for. Yash feels understood and finally has a person who can absorb all his intensity and weather it instead of withering under it, only to shoot it right back at him. It really is a beautiful relationship!


I think rhis was the main reason for him to leave her for Nida... as he said.. in their marriage it is everything about Aarti.. P has already known their real problem..
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