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You know I have made so many posts, most of those in defense of someone or the other or some track or the other. I used to defend Anjali when the entire forum was bashing her, during the july track, cz I seriously felt for that woman whose entire life or the illusion of it came down crumbling in just one day. I have defended Arnav during this di track, saying he is doing what any brother, good brother would do and that being a husband doesn't mean u r no more a brother. I also defended him wen he was trying to blackmail Khushi to come back to him, cz I saw his love for her, his means most definitely wrong, were for a good end. And that was ASR back then and its stupid to assume that a person could be 100% transformed in a night. I remeber wen everyone was saying if he didn't show up in the mandap then ASR would be ruined forever, I somewhere knew he would come, but then I also thought if he didn't I wouldn't blame him entirely as why and how was he expected to leave behind the 14 yrs of his life in one night, but even then I knew given some time he'd realize his mistake. And currently I am busy defending Sheetal (unless she is shown to be bad, which has not been done yet) that every other woman who is not Khushi is not necessarily bad. And defending Arnav Khushi relationship that there might be friction and conflict but the love is still not lost.
Now the least no. of post I have made is in defence of Khushi, well mostly cz she is rarely bashed and the forum is anyway almost always in sympathy mode with her (except one or 2 posts I made defending Khushi's OTTs, arguing Khushi is crazy, she has always been so). But today when I was re-reading this SS, one thing that struck me was, the character I think I understand the best, or the character I identify with or relate the most to is Khushi. Somehow when I am writing about her thought process things just come naturally, I don't have to think much, but with Arnav I have to think a little. Well I guess thats the bond that connects all real, fictional, past, present and future womenđ
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