Frustration Thread - DISCUSS HERE ONLY - Page 39

Originally posted by: mocking_bird

One thing I did not follow in last night's epi. How did Anandi know that it was Dadisa who told these things to the lady(Urmi Devi) Except putting two and two together there was no other concrete evidence with her to arrive at this conclusion. Urmi devi could not even describe the lady except saying time and again that it is an old lady. There can be number of old ladies living in Jaitser and there is no guarantee that Dadisa is the one! We know she is the one,because we were the witness to this saga but, Anandi does not have this knowledge!😉

So based on speculation,how can she threaten to call off a marriage?

Sukanya - A is not threatening... she is tricking DS into telling her the truth by threatening to break of the rishta with Shiv because he is loose character.

Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ

Urmi daughter's marriage may still be two sided as she is not in love with Shiv having never even met him. As for their rishta... Shiv before DS asked him...and he started realizing even before Ashi left. So any rishta btwn Urmi's daughter and Shiv would also at best have been one-sided.

As for J's rishta with A...its again zero sided. A has no respect left for J and J obviously does not love A else he would not be plotting revenge.

Why J is dragged between Shiv and Anandi...I do not think there will be any specific story line between A and J ...Jagya s frustation is against everyone...J wants a revenge from Anandi..he never said that he loves Aanandi now..he was only looking for maafi...It s Aanadi who still thinks about Jagya that is misinterpreted as love but Jagya does not love Ananadi anymore..I doubt if Anandi wants to remarry with Jagya, he will be ready to marry or accept her ...because he has seen Aannadi with Shiv and I do not think that he is so braod minded that he will accept Anandi back..

Originally posted by: bhach

If Ashi s love was one sided or is one sided , then I have no hesitation to state that Shiv s love for Anandi was and is also one sided and it is Anandi s promise to her mom courtsey smart DS that she wants to marry Shiv.

Agreeed that JagyaGauri s love was two sided but it was cracked because of loss and lack of mutual trust and respect.

Yes, Shiv is being saved from this harassment...if you say that it is Anandi s love , then you are proving that Anandi is selfish and all she is doing because of love. BUt truely speaking Anandi should have and will fight for any one irrespective of who he or she is if a good person is blamed by anyone. My apologies if you say that it s because of Anandis growingsign of love to Shiv that she is persuading this case, but Anandi is never so selfish.

Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ

Sukanya - A is not threatening... she is tricking DS into telling her the truth by threatening to break of the rishta with Shiv because he is loose character.

She added 1+1+1 and got 3 or rather Daadisa: 1) DS visited temple on Shiv's bday 2) She's old - dokri who knows Shiv 3)DS immediately proposed to Shiv after returning from Temple

Now by threatening A is trying to test her assumption

Before dadisa put forward the proposal, shiv had started liking her and was attracted to her kind-hearted nature. That does not give him the authority to accept the proposal without finding out if anandi wanted to marry him or not. However, he was mature enough to say that no force should be applied to marry anandi to him.

What is wrong in this rishta is the way anandi was tricked into agreeing to marry shiv. It was dadisa who controlled her in her childhood and is still controlling her though she is an adult. To get her way, dadisa will lie, badmouth people, make use of others; but she will make sure that she wins by hook or by crook which is wrong according to me.

I hope Anandi doesn't disclose DS's name to Shekhars except Shiv. That would be very insulting and humilating for DS.

Originally posted by: elasingh

I hope Anandi doesn't disclose DS's name to Shekhars except Shiv. That would be very insulting and humilating for DS.

Sukanya I think Shiv had sensed it that the woman was DS when few episodes back he was talking to Ira. Ira told him that that Urmi Devi had withdraw her daughter's rista when she met a dokri from Jaitser.

Originally posted by: elasingh

Sukanya I think Shiv had sensed it that the woman was DS when few episodes back he was talking to Ira. Ira told him that that Urmi Devi had withdraw her daughter's rista when she met a dokri from Jaitser.

Anyway even if Shiv had not guessed that DS was the one spreading rumuors, he is no baccha. He had already fallen in love with Anandi . So it is not as if DS broke his long term relationship with a girl.

That's why I was upset with him when he didn't say a word to CM, when she was repeating' "mere

Shiv ka rista us old ledi ki vajah se toot gaya."

I hope Anandi shows some common sense in this matter and confide to Shiv.