14 years of pain can not be forgotten in 1 sec

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Posted: 13 years ago
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This time I am not pointing a gun on Arnav until I get to see the whole picture.
I have always criticized him for his actions but this time I am not going to hate him until I see both sides.
14 years ago he became Raizada from Malik.
14 years ago the child inside him needed to grow up suddenly.
14 years ago he faced the worst situation of his life.
Loosing your parents is the biggest pain one can go through.
And after 14 years the past just came in front of him all of a sudden.
The moment which made Arnav in to ASR just flashed in front of him.
He needs some time to digest the fact.
He needs some time to absorb the harsh truth.
And I am sure if it was any other woman he would have done the same thing.
It is natural for him to hate Garima.For him Garima is the other woman in his mother's life.
Yes Garima is not responsible for all this.But he does not know garima.He will take some time to understand the truth.
He has still not called off the wedding.He did not for once tell Dadi that he will not marry Khushi.He did not look angry when he was thinking about Khushi.He looked shattered and devastated.
So i will give him time.
If he calls off the wedding then yes he is a jerk.
If he calls Khushi characterless for her aunt's deed then he is a jerk.
But just because he has not reached the Mandap at time I am not blaming him.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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yup 😊 totally agree
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Exactly dear, i too don't come to a conclusion about him being a jerk...not so soon...i believe him that he just takes some time to comeback to normal...as u said, i didn't find a single second of expression of him hating khushi or anyone...his expressions were clearly stating that he was devastated...esp. the expressions when the flashback of his&khushi's intimate moments...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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yes agree with u...
why some people started bashing arnav...😡
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Yeah totally agree with you!!!
Im on arnav's side too!! He needs time for everything and to absorb what's happening around him!!

Hopefully he'll make the right decision this time..!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Agreed ...I feel bad for Arnav look at him and how cruelly Dadi broke the truth and on what day...

I mean his whole lifee changed and he suffered from childhood to youth ...hated this woman all his life becoz he does not know the whole truth he was a child when he started to hate her...

He needs to come to terms with the revelation and NOW deal with the emotional blow his dadi agve him..and today the fear of losing Khushi is also there...

His emotions are all confused when he will think straight and get over the cruelty of dadi then he will go for khushi..
FOR ME ARNAV WILL BE THE BIGGEST SUPPORTER OF KHUSHI...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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100% agreed , I feel He won't ditch her , he take his time n reach , may be by that time kushi is will go missing 😕
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Totally agree with you.
Just because he is taking more time to think about the past and the present which is understandable from his point of view,you can't say he has called off the marriage.I am sure he will make the right decision of marrying Khushi with love.He won't ditch her at any cost.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: uppaas

Agreed ...I feel bad for Arnav look at him and how cruelly Dadi broke the truth and on what day...


I mean his whole lifee changed and he suffered from childhood to youth ...hated this woman all his life becoz he does not know the whole truth he was a child when he started to hate her...

He needs to come to terms with the revelation and NOW deal with the emotional blow his dadi agve him..and today the fear of losing Khushi is also there...

His emotions are all confused when he will think straight and get over the cruelty of dadi then he will go for khushi..
FOR ME ARNAV WILL BE THE BIGGEST SUPPORTER OF KHUSHI...



I found his reactions very natural.
Just when he was about to leave for the Mandap Dadi came and told the truth to him in one breath.
The past which haunted him throughout his life is back again to haunt him.
And he has not held Khushi responsible for his past yet.
He has not said anything against Khushi yet.
If he calls off the wedding I will for sure criticize him.But not now.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Aliya_hzsn


Yeah totally agree with you!!!
Im on arnav's side too!! He needs time for everything and to absorb what's happening around him!!

Hopefully he'll make the right decision this time..!!



I hope so.
But I think Khushi will not agree to marry him this time.

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