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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: ..Kirann..

@ Sara: Im not gunna quote that, just gunna reply here. I have been replying in so many posts from last 4-5 days Im absolutely tired. SO just gunna write a small paragraph here. ASR has hurt Khushi badly. Only his apology, words, love and care can heal her wounds. His forcing, manipulations, blackmailing ain't working. if she doesn't listen keep on trying. If she didn't accept his love first time, just open ur heart to her, try to make her understand just like he does with his Di. Why hurt her even more? He doesn't mean to hurt her but he does. the thing is he does the damage and can't say a simple sorry. He says he didn't mean to. Y don't just tell her im sorry. Sometimes a person just wants to hear exact words for relief. BY freedom, I don't mean job. I meant she can't do what she wants to. He leaves her with no options. & Hun this is not care yet. If he cares, he wouldn't hurt her. he wouldn't say things he know would break her. He wouldn't try to prove her that he never loses and he's ASR! If you truly love someone and care for 'em you would make sure you don't hurt 'em. She does care about marriage. She loves him DAMMIT! She is still wearing sindoor and mangalsutra. The thing is its not easy to forget the pain and torture especially when its by someone you love. & NO she has been through hell cuz of both arnav and anjali not just anjali. Lets not overlook his faults. He's at fault in so many ways. He has hurt her a LOT and he still is by one way or other.



I am sure he'll do that later. He will apologise to Khushi for everything.
Right now all that matters to him is marriage, to able to talk with her or apologise to her, he needs to save his marriage... She is not communicating that's why he is forcing her which is real Arnav's character. He would if there was time, but right now there is no time, so he has no other option.
Do you think it's easier for someone like ASR to say sorry like normal person? It's not for some people it's not... He is learning all that... That's why I understand ASR. No Freedom! really??? that's not true she did whatever she wanted to in their 6 months of marriage, she changed his damn cupboard lol! she made all these What The songs, She irritated Arnav so much yet he let her lol... I call this freedom lol!
Why type of freedom??? ASR is open minded person what didn't he let her do? I just don't understand. Yes, I agree both are somehow responsible for Khushi's suffering + Shyam.
I never overlook ASR's fault never once did, but in this track I am on ASR's side, because he is doing all this to save his marriage, it doesn't matter whatever he tells Khushi. I wanted to see him in his ASR's style as well! lol!
Why did you start watching this show? I am so random here sorry... For me I started watching because of ASR's character now Arhi as well!
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: c3cilia


She cares about her marriage until he brought it up to her face that it's just a piece of paper .. obviously, if i'm Khushi, no matter how much i care about someone, if they constantly comes up to me and tell me that what we have is nothing then yes, i rather just give up after so many months of hinting and let it go .. why put up with someone who doesn't learn their lesson, right? (of course, we the audience knows that he learned his lesson) but there was NEVER ONCE did he show her he genuinely care for her. He always have something back up to taunt her that it was an act done by him purposely.


She still does, tears in her eyes when Arnav asked her hurt that she doesn't care??? proves that she does. That's what I said just be real end it already, why waiting for days to end??? If she wanted to do that??? then again, she doesn't want to that's her way out lol! He is showing her now by telling her to trust and all. He will later when they'll go back. This is a soap it'll will take time lol.
Then she doesn't know Arnav that well! LOL! Arnavs loves to play mind games with her lol! the day she got this lol he will loose in every single one of his trick lol!
Edited by SaraaK - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: SaraaK



I am sure he'll do that later. He will apologise to Khushi for everything.
Right now all that matters to him is marriage, to able to talk with her or apologise to her, he needs to save his marriage... She is not communicating that's why he is forcing her which is real Arnav's character. He would if there was time, but right now there is no time, so he has no other option.
Do you think it's easier for someone like ASR to say sorry like normal person? It's not for some people it's not... He is learning all that... That's why I understand ASR. No Freedom! really??? that's not true she did whatever she wanted to in their 6 months of marriage, she changed his damn cupboard lol! she made all these What The songs, She irritated Arnav so much yet he let her lol... I call this freedom lol!
Why type of freedom??? ASR is open minded person what didn't he let her do? I just don't understand. Yes, I agree both are somehow responsible for Khushi's suffering + Shyam.
I never overlook ASR's fault never once did, but in this track I am on ASR's side, because he is doing all this to save his marriage, it doesn't matter whatever he tells Khushi. I wanted to see him in his ASR's style as well! lol!
Why did you start watching this show? I am so random here sorry... For me I started watching because of ASR's character now Arhi as well!

Later later later but when later? He'll apologize later then don't expect Khushi to just come back and forget everything just cuz he's being nice. Im not saying you are expecting. Just stating in general! Whatever his reasons are, its still not justified neither can we say his actions are right. Agreed hes doing this to save the marriage but the thing is his method is still wrong! Its easier for him to tell sorry to his Di, cry for his Di, beg to his Di, show love and care for Di, make his Di understand then why not for Khushi? I don't buy that. he can do anything or his Di just not Khushi. so thats not an excuse! BY no freedom I mean forcing her and just leaving her with no options. Makers her do stuff he wants to.That's small stuff and it was to irritate him. It wasn't like she really wanted to do that.S he was doing that out of frustration! Shyam is just another chapter and he was lusting for Khushi. But I still think the pain and suffering ASR gave her, the things he called her and the things he made her do were much worse than what Shyam did. Its just she loved him she forgave him. But again hes another chapter. So im not gunna go on about him! As I said before, whatever his reasons are, the bottom line is he made her suffer. His method was still not right! He further irritated her! He just wanted to show her he always wins and hes ASR! I dont see any love and care here whatsoever!

I watched Geet by 4 Lions, my first ever Indian serial and then they started IPK. So, that's how I happened to watch it. I love ASR. I love him a LOT but that doesn't mean everything he does is right!
Edited by ..Kirann.. - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
Awesome POST.I really agree wid your some points... n we can feel Khushi's pain... That decision was not easy for her...but,due to his sister n family happiness.. she was trying to set all mess things in his life {due to her...as a ASR claim😭}.

But,I think... 'Selfish' is very strong word for ASR feeling...😕 We can't deny this fact that,he really loves her... now,only wants to leave wid her but,he doesn't know how to express his feelings... n this is the main problem. When, he behave like typical ASR... that is hurting.

Now,I am waiting for new drama because of Anjali's MU. She'll definetelly target Khushi for her 'Choote' s changed behavior... then, what will happen...?? { I'll wait to see his stand } I must say...Next 10 days is not easy for ArShi...

Edited by Joseph_A - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: ..Kirann..

Anjali doesn't need to know everything about their romance or whatever they do but contract marriage is something BIG! It was a forced marriage and that too for six months. Girl deserves to get her dream wedding! Exactly ASR should tell everyone the reason and tell him he's responsible. Well, even if people question Khushi its not their fault. If they have done something they have to bear consequences as well. Well, he's ASR as he says and he can fix anything since he's GOD! So why wouldn't he fix that? If he can ruin her reputation its his responsibility to fix everything. Why should always ASR's faults be hidden? He needs to bear the consequences and realize he's not GOD! He needs to realize his mistakes!


You are right ! wedding day is big day for a woman as it stays in our heart just like movie . We always go back to this day and try to recreate every second's memory of that day .

Here Khushi , it will always remain a horrible day , even if they get together . It will always stay like scar, and will give her bitter feeling. Even if they remarry, still this horrible feeling will not go away as we know first cut is the deepest cut !

So basically, Arnab robbed her from having a nice memory of a beautiful wedding. He scarred her for whole life !

Edited by -Ace- - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: ..Kirann..

Later later later but when later? He'll apologize later then don't expect Khushi to just come back and forget everything just cuz he's being nice. Im not saying you are expecting. Just stating in general! Whatever his reasons are, its still not justified neither can we say his actions are right. Agreed hes doing this to save the marriage but the thing is his method is still wrong! Its easier for him to tell sorry to his Di, cry for his Di, beg to his Di, show love and care for Di, make his Di understand then why not for Khushi? I don't buy that. he can do anything or his Di just not Khushi. so thats not an excuse! BY no freedom I mean forcing her and just leaving her with no options. Makers her do stuff he wants to.That's small stuff and it was to irritate him. It wasn't like she really wanted to do that.S he was doing that out of frustration! Shyam is just another chapter and he was lusting for Khushi. But I still think the pain and suffering ASR gave her, the things he called her and the things he made her do were much worse than what Shyam did. Its just she loved him she forgave him. But again hes another chapter. So im not gunna go on about him! As I said before, whatever his reasons are, the bottom line is he made her suffer. His method was still not right! He further irritated her! He just wanted to show her he always wins and hes ASR! I dont see any love and care here whatsoever!

I watched Geet by 4 Lions, my first ever Indian serial and then they started IPK. So, that's how I happened to watch it. I love ASR. I love him a LOT but that doesn't mean everything he does is right!


WOAH! It's so long! Don't know lol... I know he will one day maybe after this track???
LOL! I won't question her, but Arnav will again turn into ASR lol!
Normally, I don't agree with Arnav, but currently I am + I love his ASR style.
Bold part! Hate that!hate That! Hate that! 😡😡😡
I don't even want to bring their sibling connection, that's how much I am annoyed with Anjlai lol.
Meaning, I am not going to defend this part because I agree with you.
I enjoy that part about them lol... That's their original part him forcing her into do things without option, and their fight lol! I love it so much, although I don't defend this... It's just interesting!
LOL! I wasn't questioning that I quite liked it, but name calling was weird...Don't even understand, but I like Lard Governor?sorry, if it's wrong.
Agree with you last bold part.
LOL! that's his way of telling her not to challenge him again lol... I love ASR when he is playing mind games...It's interesting! Honestly, if ASR is not like this, then he'll be like any other hero, that's why he is different. I don't think he'll change. maybe he'll be better in treating Khushi, but he will always play mind games with her because that's exactly what he lijed about her...How she challenges him lol. He wants to be challenged by her. He is weird tells her not to challenge, then he challenges her lol! ASR is weird! but Cool in what he does. Sorry about LOL's

Oh, don't know Geet... This is my 1st ever Indian soap.

Edited by SaraaK - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
^ LOLO! Im gunna hit the bed now. Its almost 12 already!:P I love ASR, I love his style, I love everything about him. I understand where he's coming frm and everything and even I love their mind games but I cant deny right now the method he's using to get her back is WRONG! Yes he wants her back by hook or crook and totally understandable but method still is wrong whether we like the method or not! & he is being selfish by just getting her back cuz he knows he can't live without her. not saying he's wrong but thats the truth. He wants her back cuz he needs her and he loves her! Its about him again. She loves him too but he hasn't thought about her yet! Thats all Im saying! Okay bye...ima go now!:) Nice talking to you!:D
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Posted: 13 years ago
I agree with you, I think he is being selfish. Yes, we know he is ASR and he has his ways but he is forcing her and pulling out all the stops including emotional blackmail to get what he wants. It's wrong. He sees it as Kushi is his wife and she should be in his house. Period. But what happens after that? Kushi will live in a house where she will be unhappy.
Why? Because she blames herself for all the problems in the house.
Why is it so hard for him to understand what she is going through, what she feels? Her reluctance to go back to RM should make him see that she really doesn't want to go back.
Her love is selfless and his love is selfish except when his Di is concerned.
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Posted: 13 years ago
i have nothing to say
i have shown my thoughts through liking all the comments i found right
i really liked ur post
its tough to post like this in a ASR dominated forum

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Didikisaut

Yaa seeing ASR reminds me of nani dialouge after wedding that you are like your father, hope he sees himself in the mirror.



loved you user name...lol!!!!

well we actaully don't know how is father is do we?????

but yup he is selfish...and please don't tell this ASR he knows only buisness if he can handle his sisters issues emotionally (he never made contract with Shyam did he????) he can love his wife too...but he doesn't know to love any one other than himself and his sister...he is selfish and doesn't deserve Khushi...wish she gave it back to him face...sigh but she will never

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