I told U know, when i was in my college [b.sc] i started to love my husband. only few meetings, we decided to get married. i was 19, he was 24. that time he worked in a good company. He said all about his earnings.perks, his life style. I was so young, i didn't know much about outside life, whatever he said, i used to say o.k., o.k, But, whenever, we met, he used to treat me like a queen. he told me, to wait for sometime [that also for 3,4 months] he will come to my house with his parents, for proper marriage proposal. he told me, to keep our love life as a secret from our parents. because he was a genius, he predicted, that if my parents come to know,about our love, they will def .object. but, since i came from, a close knit community, i couldn't keep the secret. before, somebody goes and tell my parents, i want to open the news [my love] to my parents and my brothers. there is were all my problem started, i wanted to be a obedient daughter to my parents, in result, i went thru too much trouble. some how , i cried everyday, i begged my mom everyday, my mom canvassed my dad and my brothers, then, i threatened, them ,without my lover, i won't live. so finally they agreed for marriage. my husband also, he got a job in usa. so everybody agreed for marriage/
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