Shaswat and Foram's insecurities..

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Debalina

@Guggul

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Posted: 13 years ago

Its good to see the newly blooming attraction between Aniket and Tejal.
The spark has ignited in both. 😳

But the showstopper today was Shaswat and Foram. The way they blurted out their insecurities regarding parents' share of affection, it was mindblowing 👏

Some may feel that they were over-reacting but to me, NO!! Coz this is a very realistic scenario which we often get to see in common households. One sibling getting more affection and attention depriving the others. Which sometimes lead to sibling rivalry.

Well, back to the serial's pov, Aniket deserved that share of attention because he has alwayz been the needy child. But the fact is also that somewhere Sanyukta and Nikhilesh has aborted the wants of the younger kids. Which is why their insecurities blurted with a big bang.

But the solution was shown very unruffled. Thank God the family is blessed with such a wonderful bhabhi and understanding brother who always takes initiatives to resolve problems. 😛

I loved today's episode.. What about you guyz??

P:S- Its a long rant I know.. Sorry if it bored anyone. Feel free to comment friends.😛

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@smilebcz4yn

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Posted: 13 years ago

Today's episode was mindblowing Hats off to the actors👏

Shashwat and Forum's problems are true some households this happens where 1 kid is loved more than another and theres the enemies between the family.

Like always Binoy and Sushila come and solve it all😊

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Korimun Khanom

@Thamanna85

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Posted: 13 years ago

I really liked today's episode. I can also understand and relate to it. In my family I was the 'special' child cos I have long term illness since I was 4. When I was younger and I felt like eating something different than what was been made all I had to do was hint it to my parents and it would be there right in front of me. I admit I used take advantage of it when I was younger, but none of my siblings minded. Except that is when the youngest sister grew up and realised what was happening. I started to feel bad about what was happening because she would complain that I was the favourite child and so I stopped doing that. I would purposely tell mum to make her favourite instead of mine. I think it's the youngest who feel bad because naturally they're the ones who should get spoiled just like in my family and in the serial.

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aisha.damor

@aisha.damor

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Posted: 13 years ago

i agree wid u dear... sometyms parents special attention towards 1 child.. creates sibling rivalry...

in my case i too sometyms i blurts out dat my mom luv n cares my brother more den me...😆

bt i think no parent luv dere 1 child more den other... all children r equal 2 dem... bt we make false assumptions...n... develop unnecessary insecurities...

i think in dis case both parent n children shud discuss together...dere shud b healthy communication regarding dis...

bt in dis show i think shaswat n foram everytym taunts n behave bad wid aniket... kabhi kabhi i think r they really brother n sisier????

in my case i too get annoyed when my mom take xtra care of my bro...bt i dont taunt n behave rudly 2 him...i luv him sooo much n i can do anything 4 him...

now i think only tejal will make aniket responsible n self dependent... so his parents dont take xtra care of him...n saswat n foram will stop getting insecure...🤔

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leo4ever

@leo4ever

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Posted: 13 years ago

i feel they were rigt, the mom did overeact, man, just coz ankiet ordered soem normal food why cldnt u have made two of those? one pizza and pasta and other ankiets? they are pretty rich y cant they have that??

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Debalina

@Guggul

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: aisha.damor
i agree wid u dear... sometyms parents special attention towards 1 child.. creates sibling rivalry...

in my case i too sometyms i blurts out dat my mom luv n cares my brother more den me...😆

bt i think no parent luv dere 1 child more den other... all children r equal 2 dem... bt we make false assumptions...n... develop unnecessary insecurities...

i think in dis case both parent n children shud discuss together...dere shud b healthy communication regarding dis...

bt in dis show i think shaswat n foram everytym taunts n behave bad wid aniket... kabhi kabhi i think r they really brother n sisier????

in my case i too get annoyed when my mom take xtra care of my bro...bt i dont taunt n behave rudly 2 him...i luv him sooo much n i can do anything 4 him...

now i think only tejal will make aniket responsible n self dependent... so his parents dont take xtra care of him...n saswat n foram will stop getting insecure...🤔

Ur answer is very apt aisha.. For parents all children bear equal significance. Its us who make wrong assumptions.

But then again, children are always naive and innocent. If they always see preference given to other siblings, it always affects them.

Shaswat gets irritated very easily. very less patience. foram in this regard is quite mature and understanding..

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Debalina

@Guggul

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Thamanna85
I really liked today's episode. I can also understand and relate to it. In my family I was the 'special' child cos I have long term illness since I was 4. When I was younger and I felt like eating something different than what was been made all I had to do was hint it to my parents and it would be there right in front of me. I admit I used take advantage of it when I was younger, but none of my siblings minded. Except that is when the youngest sister grew up and realised what was happening. I started to feel bad about what was happening because she would complain that I was the favourite child and so I stopped doing that. I would purposely tell mum to make her favourite instead of mine. I think it's the youngest who feel bad because naturally they're the ones who should get spoiled just like in my family and in the serial.

Very nyc Thamanna..

And a big to u for wrapping up your mischiefs and taking time to understand your sister and her complaints. It was so nice of u to make special dishes for your sis with special recommendation to mom.. 😛

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