Same Vision or Not? - Page 9

Originally posted by: -Bidzie-

Hello Rehu and Fari dii, pata hai what I want? I want Sn.Bhatnagar to support his son in gaining his love and knock some sense in Indu's brain!

p.s. Rehu, By any chance, are you from Bangladesh?

Originally posted by: Fari-

@Bold

I want the same Chutki :D

Originally posted by: kuls11

My responses in Blue

Fari I might beg to differ here' .I think Megha confession was random with no logical flow. Sad Megha didn't got special treatment as Mohan got'He started loving when we probably don't know but its inner conflicts were shown better and clear. May be because his love journey was piece of SONAL perhaps the best writer of recent times.

Maybe there's some sense in your saying that but you know naa, to me it was perfectly logical considering her "widow wala" state of mind. I speak from personal eye-witness experience so that's why maybe I am able to related to Megha's love journey equally and in the same way as I related to Mohan's

Whereas its pretty sad Megha love journey was brainchild of Mr JAYESH...From my point of view he always failed every leading heroine'.He is just not sufficient enough to explore a complex thought process of women. If I will say he was pretty good with Mohan or anyone else characterization, I will be IDIOT. He failed Mohan too, He failed Guru too. He didn't tried to explore Nanhi at all reduced her to mere probe. He distorted all major characters only difference is he fails with women more than men.

I am of the view that Mr.Jayesh Patel played and messed with Nanhi and Mohan's characters but not Megha's. Megha was her usual confused self in these last two weeks and she has always been confused. I saw nothing new.

Can you provide references, I mean examples of what exactly you mean by his messing up with Megha?

To me, he wrote and messed up the story at large and also Mohan's character a bit but there was nothing very different with Megha. She, as her character sketch says itself, was bound to be confused and self-contradictory because she couldn't understand her own feelings

But than after slap sequence with the change writer penning her character, her character changed as well. Most of her antics were so ambiguous, that suggested me its only care ( no way love ) for her Life support system-Mohan not love yet. Yes there were assumptions because of her small antics but then there were her other antics which defied love too.. There was lack of consistency in writing or crafting her character courtesy if we go back and forth we get lost somewhere with her character.

Any Examples?

We didn't felt that way with Mohan because his journey was SONAL's work. Its crystal clear journey from confused in love Mohan state to sure in love Mohan to finally to Mohan's acceptance of love.

We didn't feel that way Mohan because Mohan is not a widower, he's not a complex character or unique chacracter to understand.

Concentration should be given more to her than to Mohan as, we have always seen love story of bachelor but love story of widow is rareand should be handled with more care only Sonal can do that. And As its character Sonal baby again I hope to see only coherent Megha with no ambiguity left with her character anymore.

I agree with the above in Bold, but most of everyone here hasn't been happy MOSTLY with Megha, even when Sonal was at the helms too so I don't see any reason why Mr.Jayesh Patil is being made the scapegoat.

People have always had a poor understanding of Megha's character even when it was Sonal's baby. So I ask myself (and that is the very reason for making this thread) that maybe Sonal or whoever it was, always WANTED this baby to be like this. They envisioned Megha just exactly like this, ambiguous and confusing as you call it.

So what is the moral? Moral is to question ourselves that WHY they have always showed Megha like this, Always walking along the edge of likeability (for the viewers). No creator wants deliebrately to make his child come across as all bad. He/she does always have some hidden logic behind it.

The purpose of this post was to try and capture that hidden logic.

Though I differ I respect yours opinion too equally'Diversity of opinion is spice of life...

I agree totally thanks for such a detailed comment Kul 🤗 you are a sweetheart 🤗

Originally posted by: meghan432

excellent @Fari di kya kahu aap ke is post ko parne ne ke bad mera dil aur bhi tez ho gaya hai megha ke liye !! sach kaha hai aap ne mohan ke liye jitna asan hai aap ne pyar ko izahar karna!! megha ki liye thik utna hi mushkil hai mohan ke liye uski pyar ko jatana!! kyu situation is diffearent for both of them!! mohan here is a bachelor for him it is easy to express his love for her lady love megha!! bt the exact same thing is not easy for megha to express kyu ki she is a widow vth two children and she is tied vth societal norms unlike mohan who is a bachelor!! par bhi mujhe lagta tha megha mohan ke liye societal norms ko toda dega kyu ki that is the type of strong willed woman megha vyas is!! bt the roadblock become mohan's mother indu(i really didn't wanted to talk abt this dumbass lady to spoil the beautiful mood created by fari di, bidzie and other!! well kya kare huh!!) bt i believe megha's love for mohan is too strong and vice versa for mohan also!! their bond has a kind of strength that it will not let them separate forever i dnt knw bt at least for this life!! ( hay re mohan bhaiya ka bhoot mujhe mai bhi ghus gaya hai, yeh lo usi ki tara bat karna suru kar chuka bhi hu!!) aur ha @Fari di tumhara a real life widow falling in love felling wala examplw mujhe best laga!! example to bohut log use karte hai bt u really rock vth words!! when i read ur posts i think u play vth words!! the one who manipulate emotions vth words!! awesome!!

aur ha @fari di kya apko sahi main lagta ki india mai sach main widow love marraige hota hai!! mujhe lagta hai nahi!! ha widow remarraige hota hai bt arranged nt love!! yeh mai confidence ke sath kehe sakta hu!! aap check kar ke dekh sakte hai!! widow love marraige is jst a fiction in india!!

Originally posted by: Nanhi_Angel

Very nice😊

Can i ask u something? "Tum kisi aisi widow ko kareeb se jaanti ho?"

kisi ke dil me jhaankakar dekhna itna aasaan nahin hain... khaas karke kisi aurat ke...😆

"A woman's heart is a deep ocean of secrets"😉

U portrayed Megha's emotions so beautifully...👏

Originally posted by: sumiswap

Fari, I will have to take the risk of being repetitive. But beautiful again. 😊.

Thanks 🤗

1. When Mohan was to leave the Mohalla, Megha realised that she will lose her companion if he leaves the Mohalla and ran after him. That is the first time where she feared losing him. She ran after him and when he confronted her with questions, she was jolted back to her senses and that was the moment where she felt some kind of a shift within herself. She could not answer him because she really didnt know what that shift was all about. And the most beautiful part is Mohan and Megha both of them could sense the shift. Mohan understood the reason and Megha didnt.

@ BOLD

Bang on! nice point Suman, there starts the salient points in her love journey 👏

2. When she saw Mohan getting shot, her fear of losing him forever made her realise that he is that support for her to live. She confessed it in front of Amar. She was ready to marry Mohan if Indu had agreed but then again she was still in denial about her own feelings for him. She did inch towards realisation since that day. She started giving it a serious thought about what he really means to her and was not able name that relationship. She prayed for him and said that she would have never forgiven herself had she lost him in the incident.

@BOLD

Again bang on! Suman, well done yaar, I hope Kul reads this, I shall ask her to read this

3. When the MM confrontation about marriage happend, she knew she had hit the right spot to tick him off. She knew that though he was physically present around her, emotionally she had lost him. Which for her was the last straw. This loss was unbearable to her and that is when she actually realised what she felt for him was love. It hurts the most when somebody distances themselves emotionally and that loss is profound than the physical loss of a person. This is what made her realise that it is love indeed for him that made her do all that she did for him ever since the Rashmi track.

@BOLD

Awesome yet again. You have so concisely put down all the major points of her journey towards the confession on thursday. All the dots connected, hope everyone has read this post of your's😍

Thanks for this enlightening and summarising post Suman 🤗 Brilliant work! and it was worth the wait

Originally posted by: sitamma1

but i cannot justify the distortion of character of megha done by jappu..and try to find some excuse for her behavior..i have been trying to do it though, even though i did not sound convincing to myself...

Sita, whenever you get time, do tell me some examples of scenes where you find Megha confusing and such, not convincing etc. I shall wait patiently because I myself was busy at work, straight 38 hours rota in hospital, since saturday evening, just got back home 3hours back. So you take you time and we can debate on it later.

1)i am sorry that i couldn't take an active part in the discussion..but i do agree with you..but many of megha's thoughts and behavior these past 2 weeks could not be justified...

I personally think, as ai already told Kul too, that D&P, played and messed with Mohan's character a bit, also Nanhi's character too but not with Megha. Megha was her usual, justifiably confused self like she always has been and the reason of that i already stated in my main post.

2)she definitely will benefit with professional help...not of a psychatrist..but of a psychologist..many don't know the difference betwen the two..but I am sure you know what I mean...and I for one am really glad that they have protrayed manav as a psychologist...bec for the life of me i can't imagine her realising that she needs help to sort out her feelings and going in search of a psychologist...

I know the difference yaar, but you know my thoughts on that. I don't think that even a psychologist could have helped her come out of this confused state. What she needed was a like-mined person, who happens to share the same dilemma as her or has gone through it at some stage in life or have witnessed someone else going through it.

Thanks so much for your comment and love Sita🤗