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Posted: 13 years ago
#81

Originally posted by: surabhi01

then u cant blame only jagat gauri has to be blame she is also searching job jagat without consulting jagya .why partiality

Both are wrong...dono har kaam ek doosere se chup ker karte hain 😆
jab pata chalta hai to both blame each other...wat a saccha pyaar 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: surabhi01

then u cant blame only jagat gauri has to be blame she is also searching job jagat without consulting jagya .why partiality

jagat is actually looking for a job, so it is okay if she is searching for him.
gauri is not actually looking for a transfer. Infact, she categorically told him no. If even after that, he continues to look for a transfer without consulting her, then it is not okay.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#83

Originally posted by: surabhi01

so how do u know gauri will have no oppurtunity in bangalore .after all bangalore is capital of karnatka and u r saying that there is no oppurtunity in bangalore .very funny

Nobody is disputing opportunities in bangalore.
What is under discussion is Jagat's method of coming to gauri's hospital and directly contacting admin with gauri's knowledge about a transfer.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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The plain difference is Jogia is asking transfer for HIS benefit! Gauri is looking for a job for JOGIA's benefit!
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Posted: 13 years ago
#85

Originally posted by: surabhi01

yeh to serial mein sarasar stupidity dikhayi gayi hai .kya dean ke paas sirf gauri ka number tha aur jagya ka nahi ? aur gauri ne bhi to kai class miss kiye the uski attendence kyon nahi kum hue .kul ko agar gauri ke papa ki tabiyat zyaada kharaab hoti hai to kya gauri nahi jaayegi papa se milne.



Gauri stayed for two days. Jogia stayed for weeks and weeks and even before that had run to Jetsar to rescue Anandi. So he has been forgiven more than once! But that time he stayed too long and AGAIN did not inform that he was leaving. He just thought Gauri his maidservant would take care of everything whilst he could be irresponsible!
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Posted: 13 years ago
#86

Originally posted by: surabhi01

jagya jaldi jaldi mein bhool gaya tha aur us samay woh bahut emotional tha aur jub person emotion mein hota hai use khuchh nahi soojhta waise to gauri advice dene mein sabse aage hai us samay gauri jagya se yeh nahi keh sakti thi ki application likhe ke speed post kur do ya e mail kur do

Bhool? There is a difference between intentional and unintentional forgetfulness.
Was badi masi going to die the very next day? was it so traumatic that it could not wait for him to take a couple of days to finish the formalities required to take leave BEFORE going?
And even after going, did he bother to call the dean and explain the situation saying "I am sorry, I had an emergency?" No he never once called the dean nor made any efforts to handle the situation after he arrived at jayetsar either.
Is there some permanent forgetfulness he suffers from ?
He is very selective in his memory. when it suits him he will remember something. when it doesnt suit him, he will forget to do it.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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r u asking wether jagya behaviour was right at the hospital ,or y gauri was annoyed?see,gauri told first only that she is nt to tranfer then wat is the pt of doin al this.goin to hospital ,asking abt transfer without telling her.that too he can get better jobs in mumbai,now that they have settled in mumbai,shifting another place is not a joke.plus if that oportunity isnt so big .infact i m happy with her behaviour ,at least becoz of her now he l able to clearly see himself and admit his faults,rather then blaming other.its nt patience which only works but a firm strong behaviour
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Posted: 13 years ago
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theek jagya ne poochha hi to tha .kaun sa usne khud se application admin ko de diya tha .agar woh amin ko letter likh ke deta bina gauri ko bataaye to main jagya ko 100 percent galat maanti khaali enquiri karne se jagya ko galat nahi maana jaa sukta .pur gauri jo kur rahi jagat ke paas kub call letter aa jaayega use pata bhi nahi chalega .pur mujhe pata hai woh gauri ki tarah react nahi karega kahega gauri tum kitni acchi wife ho tum mera kitna khayal rakhti ho .jagat ka bus yahi sochna hai ki woh banglore mein job bhi kare aur gauri bhi saath mein rahe.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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going to meet his badi maasi who is cancer patient is not a sin
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: surabhi01

going to meet his badi maasi who is cancer patient is not a sin

going to meet cancer patient without doing the formalities is irresponsibility.
and then if he made that decision, then why to sit down now and shed tears saying "boo hoo boo hoo I am not getting a proper job without MS?"
if he made the decision to be with badi masi and skip his exams, then he should be prepared for the consequences too of getting a not so nice job or no job at all. Take responsibility for himself and stand up for his visit with the courage of conviction.
Do you know why he never once called the dean for six weeks when he was in Jayetsar? Because he knew he was wrong.
Life is not all one-sided. We all have to balance many realms -- professional, personal, parents, children, etc. etc. and we all play different roles.
If tomorrow I get some great professional opportunity to attend a conference, I cant leave my children at home without a babysitter or someone and run off to atend the conference and say "oops bhool gayi mein".

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