5th June - A celibate first night! - Page 3

Thanks for the awesome update Shraddha!

i'm appalled at this behavior by indu... a part of me wishes that sanchi should have taken the sweet caring and loving indu when he wanted to marry her and doe everything per her wishes. now she has recieved nothing but hatred and revenge. 🤢

Originally posted by: Namita.Murti

Thanks for the awesome update Shraddha!

Suki, Ashok, Shri - you three rock with your awesome posts. I am always waiting for your posts. very insightful.

I agree Sanchi has always provoked Indu, I am always going to support Indu. Like Shri said, get help from family and friends and not start a war. Lies don't ever get you anywhere! We have just been shown that! I believe I wouldn't want my daughter to wage war on her stalker or someone who obsesses over her. It's not going to get matters solved but will be like adding fuel to fire.

I have just one rule in life "Never put yourself in this situation in the first place" why do that? If a situation could be avoided, I am all up for it. In a way Sanchi had this coming? Wasn't she the one begging Indu to give her the wifey rights? Its on camera and the whole uni got to see it.

Sanchi, when are you going to learn that you are not really as smart as you think you are. She comes off as a snob, over confident brat!!

We wouldn't go poking the hornet's nest, now would we? That is exactly what she did. You reap what you sow. I am glad Indu didn't touch her coz at least he has dignity, unfortunately Sanchi doesn't seem to have any!

Sorry for rambling on...but some things are just black and white...there is no grey!!

totally agree with this post... sanchi truely did have this coming. she did nothing but provoke indu. YES, indu is wrong in his own way; marrying sanchi against her wish ... etc... but the fact that they are now married... and how she came asking for her rights. now that he is angry, he is giving her exactly what she had asked for ...
but just like you, even i am glad indu did not touch her. this is where i still have respect for him... but the fact that tomorrow morning, everyone will witness the ruckus created by indu will not be good.. 😳 not such a huge fan of an angry indu.

really wish sanchi would have accepted indu before her mother created the fake fainting and sending indu to jail. it's been all bad since then ... hmmm we'll seee

Aww thanks everyone for all your lovely comments!

@ashok thanks for the compliment, I'm seriously flattered by how much you like my posts and how insightful you find them.
Lol I swear though I'm not trying to turn into an Indu basher! I don't know if you have read some of my earlier posts, but during the fake pundit track and the following epis, I probably came across as huge Sanchi basher, though I didn't mean too! I like to believe I just say it as it, and at times Sanchi is incredibly dumb, vicious person and very much in the wrong, but at times the boot is on the other foot and Indu is in the wrong.

Personally I think in this game of tit for tat that the lines between what act, and who is in the wrong is getting very blurred and distorted. As all Indu and Sanchi are doing is reacting to what the other has done. So it's hard to pinpoint blame on anyone of them as they are only responding to previous insults and challenges laid down by the other. And each time they do reply, they raise the stakes, that extra bit higher. Furthermore their own personal set of morals and principles are increasingly being tossed one by one out the window following their long lost common sense.

@Shri I agree with what you say about Sanchi provoking Indu. And the worst bit is that she knows she is, and she relishes doing so. That is until Indu turns on her, but she still doesn't regret doing so, just as Indu doesn't regret any of his cruel acts towards her. As for Indu all is fair in Love and War. But I've said it before and I'll say it, again that I swear these two are match made in fool's paradise!

@Namz what you say is so true! Sanchi was the first one who declared outright war on Indu by sending him to jail! What I don't understand is why she hates Indu so much in the first place? In earlier epis she always full of sayings such as 'an eye for an eye will make the whole world blind' and 'a person can fall from a great height and get back up, but once they fall in their own eyes they can never get up'. Plus my personal fav 'you should never hate the wrong doer, rather you should hate their wrong doings'
So wth did she get so mad at Indu for? She started hating him after the poster scandal, although he kept protesting his innocence and respect for her. I mean at that point that pensioner officer had done far worse to her and her family, yet she never hated him! I seriously don't understand what her problem with Indu was, she could have at least given him a chance to prove himself, but she never even did that!

Agree Suki. Like my mom says " Insaan bura nahi hota, karam bure hotein hain"

Originally posted by: suki11

Aww thanks everyone for all your lovely comments!

So wth did she get so mad at Indu for? She started hating him after the poster scandal, although he kept protesting his innocence and respect for her. I mean at that point that pensioner officer had done far worse to her and her family, yet she never hated him! I seriously don't understand what her problem with Indu was, she could have at least given him a chance to prove himself, but she never even did that!

Suki,
I did not add my appreciation. So let me do it. Don't worry about the Himalayan post. This episode deserved it.
The SBS spoilers on SR in college grounds made me go so whack about the show that I ranted and protested (over here and over FB ) and finall boycotted for 2 days. That's my style 😆 😆
So now when the SR actually is happening, it does deserve our analysis at length. And look at the emotions unleashed...where we had all to condone Indu's action or the CVs showing SR in college, today I am only going back to source of all this which is Saanchi.

In the name of drama and entertaiment, I have always ignored Saanchi's actions as I used to get Indu for my entertainment. But that does not mean I had my brain shut and had stopped registering Saanchi and her family's actions. Actually Veena (Saanchi's mom) vexes me to the core just as Saanchi is vexed of her. She is a crazy mother partly to be blamed for Saanchi's state of psychology. If one has that kind of mother, one is better of thinking about oneself.

But as I start writing about this...then the show no longer remains Ruk Jaana Nahin. The CVs have long back side-tracked from the theme. The protagonist was already a firebrand RJN...so how can then one truly create a RJN like an uphill task..a gradual evolution into RJN. Now the events as they have taken turn, Saanchi can be redeemed only if she stops doing RJN, halts for a moment and reviews everything around her. But then are we discussing this in structural framework of the show ? No. Because I guess we all knew it was lost somewhere with our conditioned mind that SP channel shows are more favoured on the soup blend rather than the content cooked as a Main dish.

So that was my take on my lost heroine. Then what remained was the hero part...which now has left distaste...And yet strangely; that hero has lost his entertainment value for me from past couple of episodes that I watched, but gained my sympathy for him as a character. Again this is a serious dramatic flaw as it is not contributing to the central theme of the drama.

Finally answer to your question...what is Saanchi so mad about Indu.
It is PLAIN AVERSION to Indu's boorish personality. If you all must have noticed, Saanchi always uses English even at home. For a varanasi girl, its quite mod. She is upscaling herself. Her dreams are different. Look at her flowing hair...who would maintain that in Varanasi. Can you believe that ? I am not a UP person...so I do not know. You are welcome to correct me.

Now does that come up openly ? No. Because somewhere deep down in our Indian hypocritic psyche, we are not allowed to say what we dislike if it means demeaning others...but that same Indian hypocritic psyche allows us to express through our actions. So Saanchi the educated, the ranker of the college is going on with her typical attitude of the front bench occupier. And she wouldn't want to mix up with back-benchers as that would be demeaning her status.

So guys this is what has been going on. The girl thinks she has brains. And she just cannot believe that the man too has equal grey matter in his head even if he does not speak english or is not sophisticated. The girl also doesn't care about landed gentry and cares only for people employed in occupations involving paperwork.

And the girl being a teenager, this kind of thinking is justified for her.

Wow, kya baat hai Shri! Good post yaar! I have always felt Sanchi was coming off a bit snobbish. She thinks she is above everyone, which is not right. What sanchi needs to learn is humility. She should know better than to judge a book by its cover. That right there is Sanchi's downfall as a character! Abhi time nahi hai but I will share a personal incident when I was 21! I believe most of us will be able to relate to it!

Originally posted by: Namita.Murti

Wow, kya baat hai Shri! Good post yaar! I have always felt Sanchi was coming off a bit snobbish. She thinks she is above everyone, which is not right. What sanchi needs to learn is humility. She should know better than to judge a book by its cover. That right there is Sanchi's downfall as a character! Abhi time nahi hai but I will share a personal incident when I was 21! I believe most of us will be able to relate to it!

Shri, I am quite similar to you. When I turned 19, I had an awesome job back in Fiji, might I add I am not bad looking either lol. So this guy probably 5yrs my semior used to annoy the crap out of me. Fiji is like little India, we all speak hindi, have preserved our culture and traditions. I am very modern, but a total traditinal at heart. Uska dil hum par aagaya! I didn't like him one bit. It was becoming pretty obvious that he wanted me! I refused but he wouldn't relent. I don't hate people generally, but seriously started disliking him. One day mom was with me and he said something, I almost yelled at him in public but my mom grabbed my hand and I didn't respond. At home my mom told me something very simple which helped me in tackling him. She said "Nam beta, he is trying to get you to react. As he obviously is in love with you he thinks if he can get under your skin, you will reciprocate the feeling. Do not take the bait" and sure enough her words did their magic. I ignored him and did not let him get a rise out of me! He left me alone, trust me this went on for about a yrar!