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Originally posted by: mudraswathi
remember... V-day was proposed by super excited Nidhi and Ashu refused initially... later agreed... but Nidhi made a memorable one...
In that episode, I liked Nidhi's zidd for celebrating V-Day and later, upset but still OK with his refusal... She tried to celebrate in her own way and ok with friends etc... Now, tried the same tactics with honeymoon... but Nidhi was far away from being mature...
We all know the sherwani is the wrong one, but if it were the correct one, I would say this is another tie, t-shirt type zidd. Unlike the tie and t-shirt where Armaan had to convince Ashu to wear them, here Ashu is doing the convincing, even getting ready to wear it against everyone's wishes. This willingness he is displaying is a sign of character growth, a sign that he is ready for change and is willing to open up.
Mudra, the dance during sangeet was like V-day where an excited Nidhi wants to know which song they are going to dance on, and Ashu refuses to dance. Nidhi accepts this and even makes peace with it but is pleasantly surprised and overjoyed when Ashu decides to dance after all.
The HM again, a little like V-day. Again Ashu needs to be reminded of things which others take for granted. I think his saying HM is for arranged marriage couples and a waste of time was completely hilarious, and a tad insensitive. So, her zidd for that is correct, becoz she wants to finally have some alone time with him without babas, kakas, friends or family lingering around! Unlike VDay where she went out with Anji and Rohan, she cannot settle to go on a HM with anyone else!!!
But the ghodi thing was not necessary. That was completely immature zidd. And she getting so upset about it, not required. She needs to see that Ashu has been fulfilling her wishes even if he is not comfortable about it and let it go. Maybe she will come to this conclusion tomorrow.
But I just do not want her to forget these things. I feel Nidhi feels repeats her mistakes. She should learn from previous ones but when she is super excited she tends to forget these. Maybe that maturity will come with age when she will sober down a little. We all have seen that she is capable of becoming very serious and mature when the situation demands it. She now needs to find that middle ground...
And the epi today covered all these issues but made fun of it. Throughout the epi only Ashu had a serious expression and that's precisely why this fun and comedy worked. Ashu is such a serious guy that it is really easy for his loved ones to make fun of him. And I think he is liking it, again for someone who is a loner and orphan, he is just appreciating all the people around him who consider him their own.
Have a safe trip Tanu, we will miss your rhyming post tomorrow...😉
Hui Ghum Yaadein
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