Originally posted by: surabhi01
pur office mein western dress allow nahi hoti yahaan tuk ki jeans bhi nahi.rahi baat indian dress ki to saaree poore world mein sabse acchi dress maani gayi hai
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Originally posted by: surabhi01
pur office mein western dress allow nahi hoti yahaan tuk ki jeans bhi nahi.rahi baat indian dress ki to saaree poore world mein sabse acchi dress maani gayi hai
Originally posted by: vasu.avantika
i totaly agree to ur post.
and im sad that the impact these kind of serials are having is terrible.i hate yeh rishta the most.akshara's charcter is so unreal and pray which woman wants to wear a seedha palla saree nowadays ... even while sleeping.once she got hell from everyone for wearing a salwar suit.what the hell!i was bit hurt when u said north indian families r regressive.PS not all of them r liek that/ infact families of our parents were all nuclear so were my grandparents. joitn amily system was so alien concept for me.but effect of these serials !!!!! my mother in law stayed separate but today she cries for joint family. why? when u had ur freedom why u dotn want that for ur ahu.becuase aloha ... indian telly is busy glorifying JOITN FAMILY with all its VICES.im yet to see any virtue anywhere ... and worst is pratigya . a murdering FIL is still respected by pratigya!this is teh star plus' naya soch ki if ur an elder u can plot to murder ur bahu by burying her alive in a coffin ... not only u sit comfortably after that in ur own home u also get respect n sympathy frm all quarters. such loose serials , such loose morals.yuck!
Sorry to hurt you, I dont mean that all families of north india is regressive. Nothing personal here. But this TV serials are depicting the regressive joint families of Rajasthan, Gujarat and North India. And also they are portraying the character of women as if women has no past time other than planning and plotting
Originally posted by: vasu.avantika
Vasu.Avantika, I totally agree with you. I don't understand why in our culture this joint family is so glorified, as if living in nuclear family is a sin. What is wrong in nuclear family system? In movies they don't show saas-bahu idiotic drama, only hero and heroin are in picture. Why in serials they can show stories of couple instead of stories of saas-bahu. Already indian women is dealing with regressive mindset of people and this serial are doing nothing but justifying and glorifying regressive lifestyle. They aren't doing bad to just daughter-in-laws but also to mother-in-laws, because imagine if a girl has grown watching such serials since 2000, now when she go to sasural, she will go with a mindset and pre-concieved notion that mother-in-law is a devil waiting to spoil her life.
Originally posted by: vasu.avantika
i dont know how else to put it ... but i am terribly hurt by u using words liek vandalism etc for me.this quote is especially for you and judgemental people like you :" u ca'n never really judge a woman unless u have stepped into her shoes and walked a mile in them."by u insulting me i will NOT CHANGE MY STACE ON BIT that joint families are serious threats to the DIL's wellbeing inmajority of cases. and nuclear families with all their trails are wayyy betterbecuase at least there is a chanc eof peace.also another piece of advise ... DOTN BE SO QUICK TO JUDGE A PERSON.if u are lucky to have a nice family ...not evryone is.we are already hurt by the institution u r defending. i have trid to commit suicide twice due to ur joint family. if im living even one bit thats onyl becuase im finally away. we dont need unknown people like u coming and rubbing salt on ou wounds becuase u HAD A LOVELY CHILDHOOD AND BEAUTIFUL INALWS WHO PAMPERED YOU in "YOUR JOINT FAMILY".we got insulted, isolated, enslaved an beaten in ur joint family! IF U HAD SEPNT EVEN A DAY INT HE HELL I HAVESEEN I WUD HAVE LIEKD TO KNOW UR VIEWS THEN.i will never condone or promote joint family. NEVER. infact for my daughte ri will make sure she dsnt have to spend one single day in an institutin where she is horribly outnumbered with none to turn to.i long for serials like UDAAN ... WHERE THERE WERE REAL POSITIVE ROLE MODELS NOT IDIOTIC ONES LIEK AKSHARAS AND PRATIGYAS.
This happens everywhere. First the west glorified individualism. They had nuclear families but even then - they started despising the role of parental opinion in their own kids lives since teenage itself !!
Then we had stuff like Bold n beautiful, where this woman slept with every male in the family including her hubby's bro and dad and even her own daughter's BF !!And this is the individualism we shud be aping ? I guess, one shud just see it if it feels entertaining but if u end up with a bad taste in your mouth - u shud not see such crap anymore.