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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: sanjanashaika



i think abhay is a vampire from a star one show.. it shut down..

no, bashers are not those who express their opinions against popular ideas.. that way, i would be a basher too coz everyone apparently hates arnav but i expressed my ideas against that..

those people who express it very finely and within logic are a good read.. the ones who cross the line and say he should be put to jail and get beaten up to death are such ones..

i don't think i am scaring away anyone..if not, you wouldn't have commented here and got replies too would you? lol.. this is a positive post according to me.. i thought it was necessary amidst all the negativity..

did you find me commenting anywhere on any post? no, i did ignore it..i did not deny them the right to argue..i just made another post and stuck to it.. and neither here did i deny the right to argue.

i don't know who salma is, lol is it sunflower?


Yes my name is Salma, 😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
I would like to know your views if you were in Khushi's place
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Posted: 14 years ago
@Salma : Well I am a humanitarian too but first a feminist! And I am proud to be one! Because people who are here -- dont even know what actually domestic violence is -- if they move into roots of India - they will know how the Indian women suffers! What Khushi suffered was nothing compared to that!

Also yes -- Abhay never seemed like a vampire!😆 I left the show after he turned into a human because it stopped making any sense to me -- Started watching TVD and that was so much better! 😳 And ya -- ASR is very much complex than Abhay -- Abhay was easy to understand and ASR is not! 😃

@Rita.C : I think questioning a character in a mature way is still okay but when it becomes abusive I guess that is not acceptable. Some people have made this story line into a domestic abuse story which it is not persay. And now they want Khushi to run off with Shyam and NK just because Arnav threw Khushi out of the room.

Discuss -- but have a logical discussion rather than trying to prove you are right just because a case of domestic violence can be registered. I am always up for meaningful discussions but when w/o understanding a character unnecessary statements are made --- I cant take it!

P.S : Abhay was the first Indian vampire in a show called PKYEK on star one! Me and salma were at war over the leads there! 😆😆


Edited by --Anna-- - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
and when she threw HOT TEA on him wihout any mistake of his...he dint utter a word...
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Posted: 14 years ago
@Anna, I know lots of people do not know about domestic abuse, only husband does not do it, even the mother in law who is a woman does it as well, all of this counts as abuse.Not only in India, every where around the world the women are being abused.

Sometimes the biggest enemy of the women is a women.

Who brings up a man? A Woman.

So its up to the mother how she brings up her son, by telling him to respect women and showing him. She needs to respect herself 1st, then expect a man to respect her.

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Posted: 14 years ago
This is such a wonderful thread...

Just 1 episode cannot eclipse what all he has done for Khushi and what he feels for her..
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: sunflower52

@Anna, I know lots of people do not know about domestic abuse, only husband does not do it, even the mother in law who is a woman does it as well, all of this counts as abuse.Not only in India, every where around the world the women are being abused.


Sometimes the biggest enemy of the women is a women.

Who brings up a man? A Woman.

So its up to the mother how she brings up her son, by telling him to respect women and showing him. She needs to respect herself 1st, then expect a man to respect her.


I know it Salma! That is why I said I am a humanitarian too! I dont blame the men at all always - why do you think I am defending Arnav here 😛 -- But yes women go through a lot -- everywhere -- I have seen cases of all -- and I fight for women only -- and even if its against women! 😉

@Bold : AGreed! 👍🏼
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Posted: 14 years ago
hmmm...nice...totally blown away...loyalist!!!! just tht our love birds turned angry birds ..lil difficult to take in!!!
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

I just object to the treatment he is dishing out to Khushi! NO ONE deserves that! NOT even if she DID have an affair with his B-I-L??? It dosent stop her being a human being, and human beings DESERVE some Respect and care regardless of their mistakes!

IF NOT... then why do prisoner's get a cell to sleep in??? Why not make them sleep outside in the cold? No matter how bad of a criminal you are, we are EXPECTED to treat a human being with SOME respect and dignity! That shows that WE are human! We may be punishing the crime (that is why they are in jail). But no need to loose our OWN humanity while trying to punish another!
THAT is what ASR did on Friday! He lost a bit of his OWN humanity while trying to punish Khushi! I blame the CV's! They totally went overboard this time!
If I were the actor, I would have protested having to act out such a thing! (Maybe Barun did). But this is not HIS fault! This is the fault of the CV's, LM and the PH! I blame them for not knowing where to DRAW THE LINE!
Totally dissapointed with the direction they took on Friday! Very demoralizing!


👏 Kudos to you a very valid and point...but hey criminals are given a chance to justify themselves and their side of story is heard...they are tried on court...none of this was done for Khushi...and i am still upset that he thinks all will be rosy in six months for his sister and then he can throw her away...no idea who is he to decide that!!!!
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: --Anna--


I know it Salma! That is why I said I am a humanitarian too! I dont blame the men at all always - why do you think I am defending Arnav here 😛 -- But yes women go through a lot -- everywhere -- I have seen cases of all -- and I fight for women only -- and even if its against women! 😉

@Bold : AGreed! 👍🏼


You know many of the so called feminist did not agree with my statement. They think all the women are innocent, no but there are some women out there who are worse then men.

Thanks to the Indian shows who only show that men have grey shades while the women are sati savetri types. Sometimes it make me especially the leads.

I want Khushi to fight but not to the extent that she becomes like ASR then what will be the difference.

They say that to forgive the person who did bad to you is the biggest punishment. Why because that person will always remember this and feel guilty. That I did so much bad to him/her still they forgive him/her.

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