Bikhri Khwaishein, Bikhri Ranjishein - Epi 121 - Page 2

Originally posted by: -Srushti-

Aditi...Thanks yaara...And I dont know..I would like to differ a bit on this one..MB did try everything he could as a FIL...to try to convince Gulaal...but MB had been one to say his mind and then leave up to his family to obey it or not..Even in the Case of Kesar..when he decides to marry Talli...he is not happy..you can see that all throughout his marriage ceremony...but he let him go ahead...he would not force anybody to do anything...he was abit headstrong in the beginning...but seeing Vasant win ... even if he went agaisnt MB...melted him..and his death broke him...But still he tried to instill his thoughts in Gulaal...before Kesar left for hostel...but he could not have forced her..as she would have felt that he wanted her out of the house...he was trying tobalance both...but when he thought that his opinion was the one which kept her away from the love of her life...he did go and beat some sense in her...😆

Originally posted by: enchanted23

Srush exactly the point na..as FIL never as father, call me bias or old fashioned but in our society father always thinks of daughter's marriage ahead of son even if she happens to be younger and here she was putting forward this alliance and he was accepting her decision even if it happens to be her decision he should have persuaded her to seek out a life for her as any father would ...it was FIL accepting DIL's decision that too after declaring her as beti of the house...

Originally posted by: -Srushti-

But he was a FIL first, and pressurizing was not his style...He was a father to Kesar..but still did not pressurize...And Gulaal took her decision as Gulaal...she herself forgot how she is related to the house... had she taken a decision considering it..she would have thought twice about the improbability of them..and I think that this kind of FIL would actually save so many bride suicides..he let her take decisions and even commit mistakes...just like a father would...but always had her hand on her head...just like he had promised her years back(ofcourse with that one lapse)😳

And about making her take the decision..we actually hated Gulaal for the same...forcing Kesar to make decision ...or rather making decision on his behalf..or for that matter on Talli's behalf..or anybody's...and that is where MB had that foresight and open mindedness...

Originally posted by: enchanted23

I know this argument will not reach it's logical end ever as there isn't one'but can't help putting my point forward'.

As you said in your post that he so knew his son and that's why he was never in any dilemma about imposing any decision on him as the decision would be accepted only and only if it was to work in his favour and if this is what he desired'yes he would have put himself first and MB knew that'but he also knew that exactly the opposite was true in Gulaal's case and hence the argument to persuade and make her see and consider impact of her decision on her future, I am not saying that MB should have taken any decision for her or pressurised her in anyways as this was forte of her highness anyways '.all I am arguing about is the hypocrisy of granting her the status of daughter and still accepting decisions made by DIL'.Thank god for Kesar and his bluntness in what he wanted'else she would have ruined so many lives with her desire to do *right* thing for the family'..

Originally posted by: Anjalg

Aaahh the imli connection! This is why he should have given her an imli not an elaichi toffee!! 😭

Originally posted by: -Srushti-

Kesu in moonlight😳...i happen to love that scene...

And that chocolate giving was one scene...probably the only one when I would say Gulaal was not in her character...and Kesar needed a tight slap for being SO damn good Mr. goody two shoes

Originally posted by: Anjalg

LOLLL!!! 👏 Those were dark and confusing times for us na? We just could not understand how she was going to realize that she loved him...we used to bang our heads against the wall after each and every episode upar se this elaichi toffee and DV finally breaking!! Haye haye..woh bhi kyaa heart attack waale din thein!!😕

Originally posted by: Geeshani

Koi hai?? 😳