October 24th - Written Update - Page 2

Originally posted by: amtaf

<font size="3" face="'Comic Sans MS', Times, serif" color="#660099">I was confused at what Guddu's intentions are but in one way or another his actions are understandable. Until today Runjhun has never really acknowledged how much she hurt Guddu by leaving him for her M&Ms. I was not against her decision to help but she did go the wrong way about it.</font>

<font size="3" face="'Comic Sans MS', Times, serif" color="#660099">And since there has been a load of Guddu bashing the last few episodes, I thought to how I've understood his actions and motives. Let's see if I can explain it without muddling it further by putting ourselves in Guddu's shoes and following the timeline...</font>

<font size="3" face="'Comic Sans MS', Times, serif" color="#660099">Guddu has been lashing out in anger since the day that Runjhun left. On one of those mornings (which I am sure Guddu is convinced that Runjhun came by the night before) he finds out from Kukkan that Runjhun works at the temples, spies on her, realises everything, comes home and asks Kukkan to bring her home with him. No sooner have they settled in she tries to speak with him, but Jabbu shows up and they leave.</font>

<font size="3" face="'Comic Sans MS', Times, serif" color="#660099">Jabbu might have been a lesson for Runjhun but she didn't get it. To be honest, there is no scale to measure how much is one sin compared to hundreds but a sinner is a sinner nonetheless. And since she was so adamant that her M&Ms should be forgiven, I agree with Guddu here, why can't she forgive Jabbu? (Before the sandals come flying, I am not saying that Jabbu deserves forgiveness, he is scum who has not changed yet. But according to Guddu, and actually we still do not know, the M&Ms are also the lowest scum and have not changed yet either. And if she is so willing to run over and forgive them 'cause they're her family and she can't see them suffer, the same applies to Jabbu as well)</font>

<font size="3" face="'Comic Sans MS', Times, serif" color="#660099">She obviously missed the lesson, but as soon as Guddu came home, he walked into LN filled with the same M&Ms he hated, which she brought there, and her lecturing him once again. I'm sorry but that isn't the attitude to patch things up with a very angry spouse.</font>

<font size="3" face="'Comic Sans MS', Times, serif" color="#660099">The situation does not get any better in the morning, and Guddu walks out to find the three drama queens of the century at his door begging and pleading on Runjhun's behalf. Now I'm not so sure about you, but a leopard does not change its spots overnight. Besides, how many times have they done this? But he seems moved by their words, but once again she placed her own foot in her mouth. She walks over and starts lecturing about Jabbu and only at the end of her entire spiel does she say she can't live without him - no apology! Seriously?!</font>

<font size="3" face="'Comic Sans MS', Times, serif" color="#660099"></font>

<font size="3" face="'Comic Sans MS', Times, serif" color="#660099">The same happens that evening and it's even worse in the morning when he sees her with Bantu. Her exact words were: "I'm fasting today as it is Karva Chauth. Come home soon so that you may break my fast."</font>

<font size="3" face="'Comic Sans MS', Times, serif" color="#660099">Wow! I thought to myself and didn't say anything when everyone was going on about the importance of KC and Guddu's unfeeling behaviour. (I will answer this part while discussing Neelu)...</font>

<font size="3" face="'Comic Sans MS', Times, serif" color="#660099">Guddu has no one but Neelu right now to turn to. Why, you may ask? He is going through some very self-shattering turmoil. I don't think any of us have understood the extent he has been hurt. A person who gives up all for another to be left the only one standing is bound to shatter. And that's what happened. Runjhun is in her holier than thou mode, Amma and Kukkan are constantly in his case, and of course Jabbu was a means to an end. It was coincidental that he found his childhood friend at this point. She's the only one, who as she knows none of the goings-on, that he is able to turn to and I don't think his actions here can be questioned as we still do not know all.</font>

<font size="3" face="'Comic Sans MS', Times, serif" color="#660099">As for Runjhun, don't get me wrong I feel so bad for her but boy is that girl really foolish sometimes. Her stubborn nature and emotional blackmail have gotten her her way many a time. But this time, she has still not gotten it through her head that Guddu is very very hurt and angry and that she'll need to work to return to his life. Holier than thou she still is, in one breath telling Amma she will wait till he calls her back and apologises, and in the next that she will be fasting KC.</font>

<font size="3" face="'Comic Sans MS', Times, serif" color="#660099">KC is important and will always remain so, but Runjhun's approach was wrong. Is Guddu supposed to forget all and nod yes simply because Runjhun Deviji said that she is fasting?!</font>

<font size="3" face="'Comic Sans MS', Times, serif" color="#660099">When we are angry and hurt, we want to hurt that person too, and that is exactly what he did by leaving and out of spite staying out late. He is still trying to teach her another very important lesson which unfortunately is still not getting through. You can't always have your way...</font>

<font size="3" face="'Comic Sans MS', Times, serif" color="#660099">Wow! This turned out a lot longer than I expected.</font>

<font size="3" face="'Comic Sans MS', Times, serif" color="#660099">And seriously where are my manners? Thank you for the update Dhruvie05</font>

Totally agreed to wat you said amtaf, it looke like you wrote down my feelings and thoughts for which I was not getting words to express it. Loved your post and the way you jot down everything.

Ladies,
I understand R made a huge mistake by walking out on G for her M&Ms and she is paying the price. What I don't understand is why is G going around the entire Kannauj with a woman on his motorcycle who is not his wife. Tongues are wagging, his wife who he is supposed to be mad at, is also aware of this, and he could care less. Come on, he can't be so naive to believe Neelu is looking at the moon and saying all those things and yet he broke her fast and she is supposed to be innocent and his friend only. Why don't they find some other place to hang out instead of the bed?

Originally posted by: amtaf

Neelu is a close friend of Guddu's, and unless suddenly friendships are taboo, then it is understandable that he would show his friend around the city. He also does mention twice that he is a married man, and I am yet to see Neelu forcing her emotions on Guddu.

Gossip mongerers will always have nothing better to do than poke their noses in other people's business and that is what is happening here too. Tongues wagging is a normal thing for them and there is nothing that can be done to change it. If it isn't one thing it is another. Besides, neither Guddu nor Runjhun owe an explanation to any of these people - it is their personal life.

Don't get me wrong, Guddu does owe Runjhun an explanation about Neelu. But here is the problem, the circumstances are such that they can have this talk only after resolving their previous differences that created these circumstances. And for that to happen, RUnjhun will definitely need to drop the holier than thou attitude and work hard at getting him back. She sort of made an attempt today which was foiled by Mittho's interruption, and she should keep at it.

@Amtaf:- Yaar I admire you loyalty towards your Gudduji now if only runjhun could acquire this trait...

Thanks for the update Indu...

Amtaf, I agree with what you have written but if I would write something from Runjhun's viewpoint it would be just as bad or good, depending on how you look at it. You have left out all of the bad things he has done - even if you want to ignore his treatment of Runjhun - his treatment of Amma, Mahadevi, and Kukkan has been appalling. Is that Runjhun's fault too? We cannot reason away all of Guddu's actions - he has a right to be angry yes but the way he is doing it is really wrong. Runjhun was not wrong in wanting to feed Diamond and Babli and care for them but she also went about it in the wrong away. I still have not forgotten though Guddu made Runjhun leave home in the middle of the night in the middle of a thunderstorm. No self-respecting man would do that to his wife no matter how angry he was - I don't think people even do that to a stranger. I guess the CVs were showing us then that we should be prepared for bad behavior on Guddu's part. Messing with Karwa Chauth on purpose is unforgivable in my book. If he didn't think they had a relation it's one thing, but he does think they have a relation (since he keeps telling Neelu) so he did it on purpose (knowing how Runjhun is with fasting and prayers) because of his ego and pride. Then he added insult to injury by accusing her of fainting on purpose to entrap him. Wow Guddu.

When Runjhun asked him to come home early she could have easily asked him who the girl was that dropped him to LN the other night... but she did not.

Guddu has always done with he wants and but when it comes to women he has always tread carefully because of society's exceptions. Like I wrote before, he never touched Runjhun when she fainted in front of him prior to marriage... he touched her above the carom club but it was a calculated move.

Kannauj is a small town and Guddu knows people will talk. In his anger he is not thinking about that. If you think about it, Neelu is going in the same direction as the townfolk are so Guddu is the only one oblivious.

Did you guys get what Neelu meant when she said "There is nothing like that. Don't say that." or something like that. She said that after Guddu says I am married. I was confused... is Neelu trying to say that Guddu isn't married? Has she convinced herself that Guddu is not married and that is why she has her hopes up?

The CVs can call Neelu a Folk dancer all they want but the only thing we have seen so far is her as a bar dancer. Folk dance would have a more respectable crowd. The audience would not be full of drunk men drinking some more. Where did the booze come from if not from the performance area?

CVs, if you want to show Neelu as being respectable...you need to show her doing a respectable dance in front of a non-drunk crowd. Dancing to a popular song in front of drunk men is not the way to go.

As for the slap...that is unacceptable. You're mad at Kukkan, you yell at him. Kukkan is not your servant Guddu and even then it's unacceptable. The only time I would think slapping is acceptable when a guy harasses a girl and she slaps him in response. It is very embarrassing and shameful for the person who is slapped.

And really Guddu? "How have I mistreated Runjhun?" 🤬 (What he says to Kukkan) No, buddy, you are a saint. Only Runjhun ever makes mistakes, never you!😡


Also, CVs. Shouldn't the last store remaining be Kukkan's mobile center? Guddu has 3 IM centers - one was his, one was Runjhun's, and the last was Kukkan. If he sold two - I would imagine he sold his and Runjhun's right? So should the last one be Kukkan's?

I think I shall be happy when Runjhun leaves and Guddu gets a swift kick in the face... but I am not sure we will see a good storyline in the meantime.

If there is even a hint of a Guddu Neelu wedding track I am without a doubt done watch the show. No question. You hear that CVs? I refuse to watch something that stupid.😡

She even apologized to him twice today - saying if she knowingly or unknowingly committed a mistake, she was asking for his apology.

Kukkan got the slap because he could not stand by and see how sad and tortured his bhabi is when the whole of Kannauj knew what her husband was up to.

Neelu and Guddu wedding track !!!!!- oh god, Nonooo!

Originally posted by: jps01

Ladies,
I understand R made a huge mistake by walking out on G for her M&Ms and she is paying the price. What I don't understand is why is G going around the entire Kannauj with a woman on his motorcycle who is not his wife. Tongues are wagging, his wife who he is supposed to be mad at, is also aware of this, and he could care less. Come on, he can't be so naive to believe Neelu is looking at the moon and saying all those things and yet he broke her fast and she is supposed to be innocent and his friend only. Why don't they find some other place to hang out instead of the bed?

Well as far as going along with her on the bike is concerned he was never bothered about to wat ppl are thinkingand saying, he does wat he thinks is right, so in this scenario he is roaming around or showing the city to his childhood friend whom he has met after a long time. One more thing he is going there cuz he is mad at his wife and in the current situation Neelu is the one eho can make jim stop drinking if he hangs around with Jhabbu or alone he ends up drinking and as long as he is with Neelu RJ is on his mind but he can divert his attention by his talking about his child hood gosdips. Guddu wasnt navie he knew that she was looking at the moon thats why he started whole thing about KC and told her to forget him and mive on as he is married, he didnt break the fast he just off er ed her to eat as a good friend he cant see her suffering.