Remarkably different in their outward personalities are actor and dancer Neelima Azim and her actor son Shahid Kapoor.But Neelima plays down the differences,saying that the stock is the same,so they share the same value systems and sensibilities.Talking of their dissimilarities,she says,Im footloose and fancyfree,and can talk my heart out.Shahid takes time to open up.Im this fun-loving and gregarious Sagittarius,and Shahid your chui mui Piscean.But,sure as hell,he sports the same wide family grin! Says psychic healer Tamana Chandok,Every soul is born with different lessons and different life purpose to cover.Most often if we see a mother go through emotional pain,a son will develop sensitive and understanding energies to protect the mother. Conscious of the fact that Shahid comes from a broken home,Neelima,whos married thrice,says,I so want him to find the right girl, et married,and have lots of kids! He needs to loosen up.