Trust and Betrayal

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myviewprem

@myviewprem

Sparkler

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Posted: 14 years ago

After seeing today's episode i am really wondering about trust and betrayal of so called loving families

In our society we always consider some families as ideal families like Ahluwaliah's

because they

1) are acting goody goody in front of world

2) also act goody goody in front of other family members and then backstab them (rajveer, kartar, sudhir)

3) Force other family members to comply to their so called norms in name of ghar ki izzat

and there are others that are considered bad families for role models like Singhania's because they

1) Keep fighting and show jealousy openly in front of world

2) act and react badly towards family members out of jealousy(like michael ,kumud)

3) many times allow family members to take independent decision and do not really interfere in a family members personal life until there is real threat like in case of Arohi-Arjun(business loss if Arjun leaves Singhanias)

4) Do good to their family members only if they have some benefit(like Michael)

I think the first set of families are more dangerous because they do not openly reveal their true intentions and can be dangerous and innocent people like Arohi in their trap.

This time Rudra also has acted like family No1 but atleast all others are acting like Family No2

and doing something to help Arjun and Arohi to stay together even if it is for their own benefit

I mean i do not mind a brother like Mikhael who openly hates me and whom i know may even try killing me because i will be catious for life provided he helps me in critical times when no one else will.

But my heart will break and i may no longer believe on any family member in life if i get betrayed like Arohi especially after what i have done for them previous night spent my first birthday after marriage with them when i really wanted to spend it with my spouse and his family too included in my birthday party. But just to please my families ego i did no invite them and still they betray me like this next day. Not sure if Arohi will forgive them but i would have never forgiven.

So what do you folks think

Edited by myviewprem - 14 years ago

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@--priyal--

Dazzler

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Posted: 14 years ago

yess i m agree wid u alluwallia's r sach a cheaters woh arjun ko cheater kehte hai khud kya hai n first of all arjun kabhi apni family ko cheat nhi karta n dey cheat arohi jisse pyaar karne ka itna bada drama karte hai

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roshaniD

@roshaniD

Dazzler

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Posted: 14 years ago

agreed prem... family type no.1 is more dangerous....

but in sab mein jo honest aur true hai uss family members over look kia jaatha hai... would like to special mention , Bua and romit for their support of Arjuhi at their time of need... and dost ho toh aisa... love shefali....

awesome post prem...good one...

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myviewprem

@myviewprem

Sparkler

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: roshaniD
agreed prem... family type no.1 is more dangerous....

but in sab mein jo honest aur true hai uss family members over look kia jaatha hai... would like to special mention , Bua and romit for their support of Arjuhi at their time of need... and dost ho toh aisa... love shefali....

awesome post prem...good one...

I am talking of family as a unit. Every family has good members but i am talking of when a family acts like a unit...........common characteristic

If i were bua i would give a damn to ghar ki izzat, main beti hun and gone and stopped arohi's car and told her truth.......................but her lovedeep bua too failed my expectation. she is scared that her position n family will be compromised over her dera neice life being spoilt. What if shefali was not there what would love do then call romit and inform him is it or michael?

Trust is most important for a family member. Without trust no 2 family members can stay under same roof and feel safe

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roshaniD

@roshaniD

Dazzler

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: myviewprem

I am talking of family as a unit. Every family has good members but i am talking of when a family acts like a unit...........common characteristic

If i were bua i would give a damn to ghar ki izzat, main beti hun and gone and stopped arohi's car and told her truth.......................but her lovedeep bua too failed my expectation. she is scared that her position n family will be compromised over her dera neice life being spoilt. What if shefali was not there what would love do then call romit and inform him is it or michael?

Trust is most important for a family member. Without trust no 2 family members can stay under same roof and feel safe

agreed prem..

but bua's thing... i just don't know why she, being such a rebellious thought waali would not act on them...i'm sure there is more to her character which will unfold later on...at least she sent shefali, so i'm ok with bua for now....if shefali was not there maybe she would have acted on her own, but since she was, there was no real reason for bua to act irrationally n make Arohi loose the only welsher she has in the ullu family........

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-SweetGirl-

@-SweetGirl-

Rocker

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Posted: 14 years ago

Liked the Post so as yr View Prem...

I agree the First type you is more Dangerous...But the sad part is our half of the Society is like these second Kind of people only..and Worst case as they Portray them selves goody Goody to world..Society tinks of these kind family "Adarsh"..I dont mind second kind of families...So as People who are Grey shaded..They are only concern about their own profit regardless of Someone elses lose..But this Fake Goody Goodys makes me Disgust really sake of Prestige and all..

I m kinda disgusted with Ahuwalia Family's some members really...Couldn't any one see a Poor Girls tears and her Real feeling for her dieing Masi So as Arjun...Is this Love of Family I wonder..They cheated their Daughter...Its not Done...I wish Some day they pay for It....Its Fine if in their opinion they find Arjuhi's relation not well...they can Fight face to face and show that they dont want Arjuhi together....Arjun is Ready to fight for his love..If he want he can take back Arohi Cheating over Ahuwalia's in seconds...And these Fools wont hv Idea how Arohi is gone with her Hubby..But Why Arjun is not doing so...Becuz..A Man has guts to fight...I think Ahuwalias dont hv that.....Their this way to seperating Arjuhi is Really Shocking...and specially after they claims to love their Daughter like anything....

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princess_star11

@princess_star11

Voyager

Posted: 14 years ago

Prem you are so right! Families like the ahluwalias which you described above ARE the most dangerous simply because they hide their true face!

At least Singhanias show their hatred and jealousy instead of hiding it wheras Ahluwalias sharafat ka naqab pehn kar logon ke saamne aa jaate hain they dont think of how a family member feels or how much the family member values their decision all they care about is their izzat!

I truely feel sorry for Arohi that she doesnt know the truth behind her elders innocent faces!

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Deadlydynamite

@Dar_Fitte_Moo

Stunner

+ 7

Posted: 14 years ago

Nice post prem but thats the truth abt families u never know how they change their colors i m lucky to be in a nuclear family here in mumbai .trust me this is not only fictional u will find such family for real i have seen such ahlus kind family had a first hand experience that have left a bitter taste .I m very happy that i have a nuclear family .its better to be alone rather than surrounded by deciteful masked ppl

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arjuhi4eva

@arjuhi4eva

Dazzler

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Posted: 14 years ago

Nice post prem....
Agree with u..... First type of families are much more dangerous than the 2nd type of families....
Atleast the seconnd type of families dnt do back stabbing.. They show what they are in original... They dont hide any love or hatred for any one... They show it in open....
Bt the first type of families.... They do back stabbing nd hurt the innocent ones like arohi.... Atleast singhanias show it in open that they dnt love arjun.. They dnt backstab him....

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