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Aparna_BD thumbnail
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Samie, I really wish your brother and his wife lot of happiness and may god bless them with success. 😊
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Posted: 19 years ago
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I've not read previous posts yet but will do in a minute 😊

I reckon that 16/17 is too young an age for children to get married. In the olden days i.e. my parents time, it was the right thing to do because it was the culture/religion/norm of the time. In my parents case you could say that society looked down on a family who's daughters hadnt been married hence why so many girls got married young. My parents have been brought up with this belief, which is renforced by their religious belief that children should marry when they mature to prevent them commiting other sins.

Even though my parents have moved to the UK it still is a concern for them that we should get married ASAP. For someone living in the UK I believe that if a 16/17 really wants to get married then there is no harm in doing so, but how can you take a step like that when you're not even properly mature! 😕 I'm around about that age and still behave like a five year old- never mind getting married and looking after someone else I cant even look after myself 😳

I dont know what the right age of marriage is but the people getting married are making a lifetime commitment, and they have to be aware of that. Speaking of nowadays society, I see many kids 'doing what they shouldnt be' before marriage 😳 . Due to the influence of society this act has become acceptable so therefore teenagers feel that they can marry again and use the word 'divorce' very liberly.

I want to get married at 19/20ish (wouldnt mind getting married to the guy in my avatar 😳 , but thats just my fantasy 😃 ) I want to finish my studies first and erm become more 'mature' and 'responsible'.

Do you guys think that a married couple should get their own place or live with the parents/in laws?
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: samie

well ma brother lives @ home but is workin in a local taxi firm as radio controller n send his wife money each week n has applied 4 her visa he [plans 2 have a profesional career once his wife arives n have his own house

out of interest, was this marriage arranged by the parents?😊 what do you think about arranged marriages? (i dont mean forced!)
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: Aparna_BD

Samie, I really wish your brother and his wife lot of happiness and may god bless them with success. 😊

Exactly here samie... we all wish ur brother and his wife a very happy n satisfied married life😊😊😊

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: jetmania

wouldnt mind getting married to the guy in my avatar 😳 , but thats just my fantasy 😃



BTW i used to know your guy in the avatar 10- 12 years ago!!! If you want to know a bit more , go ahead and PM me.😉
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Posted: 19 years ago
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BTW i used to know your guy in the avatar 10- 12 years ago!!! If you want to know a bit more , go ahead and PM me.😉

😲 really.hmmmmmmmmm....

Wht a generous offer aparna di 😆😉

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: Aparna_BD



BTW i used to know your guy in the avatar 10- 12 years ago!!! If you want to know a bit more , go ahead and PM me.😉

I love IF (and Aparna)❤️👏 anyone else know him😛
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: jetmania

I love IF (and Aparna)❤️👏 anyone else know him😛



Guys just for your info i am a Delhi gal , and he's a Delhi guy .😆 I have been introduced to Gauri( the real Mrs.Shahrukh Khan) and RituRaj too t a party.

Rituraj started his career on the stage, and used to regularly come in hindi and English plays. He also knew my school friend well as her dad owned one of the largest advertising agencies of Delhi/ India. So i met some of these guys through my circle of friends and some through stage as i too was on stage for a short while.

Thats all!!😛
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: MNMS

Exactly here samie... we all wish ur brother and his wife a very happy n satisfied married life😊😊😊

Thanx both of inshalla they will b happy throughout their married life

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Well in ma opinion teenage marriage can be done but it all deepends on the age of a teenage u talking of.

well if its a girl of 18 or 19 yrs then the marriage can last coz they r mature enough to know wht they are doing but if u r talking abt the boys thn sorry guys i dont agree with it as they are not matured enough n they are just hurrying for nothing.

i beleive if the boy is 22 n the gir is 18 thn their marriage is going to suceeds.

this is ma opinion .

comment welcome 😊

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