I see it differently Tannudi. She is not buttering him up.She sincerely is happy being with him.She is not afraid of him,why shud she? she knows he loves her to death.He aint gonna leave her - but she feels guilty abt not trusting him fully last time,this time she is assuring him she does.
She dint know his driver job was a nasty one,so she dint say anything against it.
Basically,ArMan intend to stay away from their past,they want a fresh start - so they r avoiding taking help from even satish or ajit.
She truly doesnt mind the financial crisis they r in,he does.That is where she is wrong.Once she knows hes doin shady things,she will convince him that desperate measures r not reqd,so they go to Ks,he takes help from satish etc. later
I don think jay gonna mess around with ArMan.vinod is gonna find out jay pottering with the finances of the company,thatz it.
Frankly,ArMan have many ghosts to vanquish - Archu leaving Manav when there is a crisis,Manav taking short cuts when there is a crisis - their weakness towards their families emotional blackmail etc. That is wat they r showing...
Manav cud not force her the prev day to break the wedding,she was determined to please her family.
Archu ran away when Satish told her to give herself a fair chance for a life of love,as being with jay wud be a lose-lose situation for her and her family anyway.Manav dint force her.She has an independent spirit,but unable to express it.
She chose between Manav and her family,taking a different side each time,depending on her evaluation of who deserved her support at that point of time - she neither always followed her family wishes nor always Manav wishes
The only problem all this while was,she never followed wat her own wish was,which is wat she has corrected since she left the mandap- she freed herself - in that too,she never totally forces anybody else.
Of course,she wants her mother back,she isnt really forcing,while everybody around her tries to force their POV at her all the time