Originally posted by: dolphinUSA
Geet is very shy, inexpressive girl. She has always restrained herself from expressing her love for Maan. And the one time she did, she put the Taveez on him - that was a gesture saying I love you. And the next thing she knows is, the Taveez is back in her hands. Apparently it has been "returned" to her. What would you have her think about this? The one thing with which she tried to open herself up is back with her now. Yet, she doesn't say I hate you or I don't love you anymore. Sure she doubts NTs words and doesn't want to believe her, but with the Taveez back with her, she is confused.
Yet, people are upset with her "moving on" which she clearly hasn't. What would you have her do when she thinks she was "let down" after pouring her heart out?
P.S. - bring on those jootis, belans, dandas.. :-)
O boy Dol ... who ever said she moved on. well, how can she move on. how can she???? Maan is a part of her life she can never ever let go. even if for once we think maan would let her go, Geet would never be able to do that. because maan's love is not the kind of love one can soooo easily let go. and with everything that geet has gone through, i am sure she understands the power and importance of his love in her life.
I, for one, was upset on the thought of she believing NT. and why shouldnt we? we have loved maan and geet together. we have loved their love, we have loved their promises to each other. we have loved their silence which spoke a zillion words. so when we saw her even doubting maan for a split second, or even confused, i for one was upset about that. truly upset. because i have seen maan's love for her again and again and again and then some more. and i have seen geets love for him again and again. when she wanted to stay away from him because of her pregnancy truth, that was her love for him. what more can i say. when a person is ready to lose it all for the betterment of the one person he/she loves dearly, thats LOVE. and we have witnessed that love in geet for maan.
so when she believed NT for a split second, i was hurt. chalo, even if i do justify her confusion, i dont justify her not feeling the emotions then. but ok, as u said, the kids were important than ... well, not that i agree to that, but chalo, i give her the benefit of doubt. because what i saw in the evening when she came back to the hospital was brilliant. a glimpse of her love for maan ... the espression of that love which means soo much to maan. remember, although maan reads her eyes, but he also needs izhaar ... remmeber hesaid to himself, i have to give her time. i should not rush her. but never once he said i dont need the izhaar of her love. because as i said yehi izhaar to mohabbat ki nourishment hai. how can anyone deny that or think its not needed.
and who says geet is not expressive. i have never seen a more expressive girl . she expresses everything sooo well. her anger, her frustrations her fears ... she expresses every emotion. she has always expressed all these emotions to maan .... so why not love. she is just worried about her past and feels a little burdened. she just feels if she has the right on maan and the love. and thats why she is just reluctant. but from no where i would agree that she is not expressive.
So, i just want her to let go of these fears now, though its not easy, but one step at a time is good enough for me. yesterday she took that first step. yesterday i saw the same geet which i saw on the Teri deewani song, and yesterday i loved her totally. And from awoman's perspective, i say, she needs to do more. I am a woman, and had i been geet, i would have showered all the love i have in me on the man who has respected me, loved me, and accepted me the way i am. that love and maan has given her that love.
ab bas dev's truth is holding her back. So when thats open, i am sure geet will be a different person. i am sure of that.
o boy, did i write too much. i still have to say soooo much, but i guess, thats all for now.
bas tum itni tension na lo ... just relax .... All true maaneet lovers will always love geet just as much as they love maan and vice-versa.
Love, KI
Kyunki Saas Bhi Kabhi Bahu Thi 2
Jhanak
O Humnava Tum Dena Saath Mera
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