is marriage everything???

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funfan

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Posted: 15 years ago

#61

Is marriage ever a piece of paper? For whom? Even people who are very unhappy in their marriage (which is not the case here) will never call it so. It is not a piece of paper even for couples who are getting divorced or whose marriage is getting annulled. So many expectations, beliefs, and emotions are attached to it, not only for the individuals concerned, but also for the families and the society.

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funfan

@funfan

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Posted: 15 years ago

#62

Originally posted by: lisaforkash

In my opinion ( and I am very much the 21st century woman ) , marriage is not a job , that if you didnt enjoy it , you sought another one. Its not just two people, its two families which unite as one. Which is why, people fall in love maybe once, twice thrice ..... but when it comes to marriage , they think 10 times if they will be happy with a certain person or not. And the difference between yesterday's girl and today's 21st century girl is that, there is a lot of space given to the girl to think 1000 times before entering a marriage, if they will be happy or not, and if they will be able to love the other person with all their heart or not .

Honestly, during my college and university days, I have seen soooooo many cases where the couple loved each other intensely. I have a friend who had a 7 year relationship with this guy, and never thought of life beyond him. But unfortunately circumstances led them to marry different people (and no one forced them)....... but once married, that was it. None of them felt that they had to look back.....because inspite of all they shared , life had to move on. And they are so happy with their respective spouses, and have kids today.

There are sooo many cases like this , and trust me I have seen a lot in 1 lifetime. All are 21st century men and women......honestly, I dont know of a single one who behaved or thought the way Riddhima is thinking now.

Which is the main reason why I am just not able to relate to this new twist at all..... because I have never seen it..... and I have stayed in all the major cities in India, seen college and university life, seen work life ..... and now even in the US, I have not seen cases like this atleast amongst the people I have come across.

There could be outliers who would think and act the way Riddhima is behaving now...... but they are just that : "outliers" .......and the show is about mass communicating, it needs to look at the normal distribution curve and the normal average "real " person

Wow! Very well said! 👏

Yes, marriage is not like clothes or jewelry that can be changed or replaced at our whim. It is not a job that we can change if we feel so.

BTW, I am sorry for you that you have never seen "realistic" "forever love". 😉

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meeru_s_armaan

@meeru_s_armaan

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Posted: 15 years ago

#63

u mean family and society is everything and ur one's own life is nthng....
and ridz being happy with sid is right but that doesn't mean she loves him.....
in an interview ksg said that '' kasuti zindagi ki did much more than what they r doing now days in dmg''
every one accepted all that in kzk then why not in dmg????

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Nikita

@nikita_88

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Posted: 15 years ago

#64

Originally posted by: romaila
marriage is imp only if the two persons bounded coz of thz realtion are happy and if not then human life is more imp then that piece of paper........

A piece of paper???? 😲

I think that says it all

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Nikita

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Posted: 15 years ago

#65

Originally posted by: armaansbigfan
u mean family and society is everything and ur one's own life is nthng....
and ridz being happy with sid is right but that doesn't mean she loves him.....
in an interview ksg said that '' kasuti zindagi ki did much more than what they r doing now days in dmg''
every one accepted all that in kzk then why not in dmg????

Accepted what the marriage of Prerna and Mr Bajaj. 😆

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meeru_s_armaan

@meeru_s_armaan

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Posted: 15 years ago

#66

u mean society is everything and one's happiness is nthng???
ridz is happy with sid ...no doubt...but that doesn't mean she loves him....
ksg said in an interview that ''KASUTI ZINDAGI KI DID AND SHOWED MUCH MORE THAN WHAT THEY R SHOWING IN DMG NOWDAYS""
everyone accepted all that in kzk ...then why not in dmg???

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Akankshaa.

@Akankshaa.

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Posted: 15 years ago

#67

Um, you are bound to stay in your marriage if you have married on your will. If you husband cares for you like Sid does. If he gives you your own space. Doesn't force his decisions on you. If you have assured him of your love, if you have given him false promises, if he abides to walk by your rules, if you lead the way and he is ready to follow. If your husband is a gem, a one in a million, and YOU have told him that YOU wanna be with him, then YES, you are expected to follow your marriage. You are expected to be in your marriage, be faithful to him, loyal to him.

There is no possible reason Riddhima will want to divorce Sid, apart from the fact that her ex is molesting her. That is no valid excuse. For Riddhima, after months of reassurances and promises, her marriage SHOULD be everything. 😊

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Devashree

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Posted: 15 years ago

#68

In KZK, Anurag always got marreid to horrid women but he stuck with them.Prerna whenever she married Baja, it was only Bajaj for her and Anurag was just her friend. It was nothing like DMG.

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Reshu

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Posted: 15 years ago

#69

Originally posted by: armaansbigfan
u mean society is everything and one's happiness is nthng???
ridz is happy with sid ...no doubt...but that doesn't mean she loves him....
ksg said in an interview that ''KASUTI ZINDAGI KI DID AND SHOWED MUCH MORE THAN WHAT THEY R SHOWING IN DMG NOWDAYS""
everyone accepted all that in kzk ...then why not in dmg???

KSG said that for hot scenes not for EMA...we do not have any issue with hot scenes but yes we can not support EMA...

and u r saying that Ridz is happy with Sid then why should she break her marriage??and if she is still in love with A then she should think this before second marriage...

I just want an honest answer from u ..

Do u think a marriage can sustain for long only on the basis of love???

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Sabz

@romiosugar1

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Posted: 15 years ago

#70

I found the title of this post hilarious 🤣 [should be posted in Debate Mansion section]

I would say depend on an individual whether marriage is everything or not. But for me, yes marriage is everything if you have a supportive, loving, caring , and understanding spouse like Sid.

I love most answers given by my fellows 👍🏼

Hope, topic maker got the answer by now :)

Edited by romiosugar - 15 years ago

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