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ok u told about the galti he made of riddima leaving two times ist time shashank too suported him for all this he only said that tum apni aur riddhima ki zindagi khud kharab karo second time ridzi ws just beshosh bcoz of shock and he very well knw that if he meet ridzi he will nt able to control bt bt seeing him in this condition a ray of hope came in his mind and he went for a treatment next thing u said that he is forcing her to say i lu bt this is bcoz of the missunderstanding he got wen riddhima ws saying i lu to sid she actually doesnt speak sid's name so he thought for himself and he just could nt stop bcoz after 1 yr he got to listen all this and he thought that riddhima means this after all this he regreted that wat all i hv done bt again ridzi actions confused him if u see the shower thing he clearly says that mujse galto ho gayi i would hv stop myseld bt i ws nt able to stop and riddhima also didnt stop me so he again went riddhima again over there ridzi confused with all confusion she is facing if she triely luv sid than would hv said on arman's face that i only luv sid bt that girl only repeted the same stuff that i and sid r married and blah blah wen arman ask him that about she doesnt luv him at that time she had the best opportinity of clearing arman/s doubt bt still he could nt say anything i knw u will say that she is confuse and uppset bt wat is arman's fault she is making him confuse bt u all only blamed arman always ignore ridzi common both r should be blame nt only one

The CV have made a joke out of the show...Everything is finished...You see almost everyone is disgusted with this track...

Awesome post - well said!!! - DMG is reaching its end!

Originally posted by: tulip_i008

ok u told about the galti he made of riddima leaving two times ist time shashank too suported him for all this he only said that tum apni aur riddhima ki zindagi khud kharab karo

His galti was hidding the truth reference made in my post is to the truth being professed by armaan at the moment Leaving without tell the truth is a mistake I never said his intentions were bad please check post carefully


second time ridzi ws just beshosh bcoz of shock and he very well knw that if he meet ridzi he will nt able to control bt bt seeing him in this condition a ray of hope came in his mind and he went for a treatment

Please write legible language from what i understand you are trying to say my answer is So you leave the love of your life in a state of shock and go away just because you cannot control your feeling. I was not being strong on any of the character but here I need to be and say even if it was a stranger no person should leave a person in a state of shock From what I understand here you refer to mental shock and I was referring physical shock (hypothermia is a state of physical shock) Atleast he should have covered her with a blanket and placed her on the bed before leaving He could touch her to remove to bangle and payal but not for making sure she is comfortable. Inhuman. Don't argue I shall not relent from my point I know I am perfectly right in my stand

next thing u said that he is forcing her to say i lu
Firstly I never said that in my post Please read carefully.

bt this is bcoz of the missunderstanding he got wen riddhima ws saying i lu to sid she actually doesnt speak sid's name so he thought for himself and he just could nt stop bcoz after 1 yr he got to listen all this and he thought that riddhima means this after all this

After hearing his voice she pulled away and was definitely not looking elated of what happened

I know many consider him as man of honor I am extremely sorry I beg to differ here If he is a man of honor Firstly he would not have been around itself She is someone else's wife Period no arguments on that Secondly bringing up memories just not done definitely not after he realized she pulled away from him when she heard his voice what happened earlier was done he should have stopped from inticing her with her fond past memories with him They were not memories of fun and frolic with friends they were memories of a possible beautiful future they could have had together He himself has stated many times he can't control his emotions in front of Riddhima toh phir gaya kyu waha pe ..... honeymoon pe jaa sakta hai shaadi pe nahi ....... he wanted to meet her and confront her why not in the hotel or in a hotel cafe in broad daylight A man of honor would do that. I also meet my ex but only when she is escorted by her husband or any other person whom she trusts These are etiquette which are important over love. if not there would be chaos in society no rules all wild

he regreted that wat all i hv done bt again ridzi actions confused him Completely agree .....see i am not an insensitive person towards armaan I need to see logic i saw logic in your statement I agreed

if u see the shower thing he clearly says that mujse galto ho gayi i would hv stop myseld bt i ws nt able to stop and riddhima also didnt stop me so he again went riddhima again

Yes he got missed signal he had to clarify But not first thing in the morning There are etiquette and more so to meet a married woman (which he knows she is and acknowledge at times sorry but there is inconsistency here also i blame the writers for it) that too on her honeymoon We follow them even with our friends of same gender.

over there ridzi confused with all confusion she is facing if she triely luv sid than would hv said on arman's face that i only luv sid bt that girl only repeted the same stuff that i and sid r married and blah blah wen arman ask him that about she doesnt luv him at that time she had the best opportinity of clearing arman/s doubt bt still he could nt say anything i knw u will say that she is confuse and uppset bt wat is arman's fault she is making him confuse ........Please kindly do not assume what i will say I say if i see logic and my logic is this let me know if you agree with it

This is my take on that entire scene


She asks if armaan has told Sid is cause she dreads the Sid being hurt This is noticed more prominently when armaan questions her will Sid not be hurt.

Her engagement flashbacks are just memory. It was an important event in her life and one can never forget it. Apparently its the same day last year.. Further she says she was happy that day which I feel is she is comparing

1 she was happy with armaan same day last year and his presence now unsettles her same day this year

or

2 she was happy same day last year but same day this year she cannot be happy because in this changed times she has committed adultery with the same man she was happy last year and now she cannot be happy

She is unsure of herself hence her behavior is such She cannot place her finger on things cause she is still in shock also she fears what may come

She is not confident with her answers cause she many questions would be retorted by last nights incident between armaan and her She knows he will throw it back in her face and then she will not know what to say further. The typical Riddhima goes silent and runs away when she does not have an answer armaan said and she was doing the same thing.

bt u all only blamed arman always ignore ridzi common both r should be blame nt only one Please note I have not blamed any character with reference to the dialogues I have made comments on their characters and actions and results of the same I have made references to SID also I reiterate read the post carefully

Please read instructions before commenting on this post and please read the post carefully its a long one sorry about but please read it carefully and please see my comments above

Everyone has favorites but the story is above all story has characters character only tell that story so think from the macro perspective and try to understand where I come from ----- LOGIC

Thank you Rehan and Sidra I truly think they need closures on many topics

I seriously prefer watching Friends there the characters have numerous relationships but there is logic in the story

@ TM - Reserved

@ Sajni786 - This was awesomeness babes! - it can safely be said..........that AR bever loved each other coz they needed physicality to realize they never moved on????????????

Noone is thinking of this - u really need to share physical intimacy to realize tht u have not moved on and u still love ur ex? hahaha...thts the biggest joke of the century and god save them!!!

They have tainted a beautiful story - and no matter, ppl will remember AR as a TAINTED story...i dont even wanna say LOVE STORY...coz its no longer tht... this is how they will remember it:
they met, they fought, they became friends, then love happened, they crossed all hurdles together, dreamed of a future together, then fate stepped in, they got separated, she got married to someone else, she started to move on, even fell for her husband and then he returned, but she chose her husband, he started having some feelings for someone else, and then.... he turned into an obsessive psychotic stalker, he brainwashed her to get her into bed, she almost got carried away, but the damage was done, they cheated and hurt an innocent person, she got overburdened with guilt, she left her husband, he jumped at the opportunity and they reunited... AR Forever... In Hell... lol... (coz i truly believe tht even after they reunite, there will not be a HAPPILY EVER AFTER!!)

Further I would like to say that

In all probabilities

In AR there are majority who only like armaan and in SR people like Sid. That is why I am empathetic towards Riddhima No one understands her agony

AR Fans - All stubborn from armaan pov. And also they are just stubborn for having their fav couple Please read carefully my reasoning DO NOT RAPID READ
I say this cause a sensible AR fan will cease to demand for AR with the current story line as there is no logic to having the couple anymore Riddhima has come way ahead with Sid. Will arrman will be able to digest what Riddhima did on her birthday eve and if Anjali & Shashank tell him Riddhima has herself affirmed Sid is the right choice and she has affirmed to have accepted him with her heart. Will he be able to give her the same freedom that Sid has given her - fine with her thinking of armaan as much as she wants and if she shows as much concern for Sid when married to armaan as she is now showing for armaan while being married to Sid.

Further more What guarantee armaan will not leave Riddhima again in any adversity to happen to him and what guarantee Riddhima does not have another realization and call of heart

Further more Riddhima can never be the same with armaan even if she is crazily in love with him NEVER her character's traits will not allow her. Period no arguments can make me relent If others can be stubborn so can I be.

SR - This couple will never be the same again cause it is impossible for Sid to able to be the same with Riddhima and so is the case with Riddhima.

Effectively one lapse of good judgment from armaan and one from Riddhima has anyways spoiled three lives

In the end I will make my last post about what will happen

Inconsistency has been a trademark with dmg...i guess they hire writers on a per day basis!

My 2 cents:
Honestly speaking, its a complete u turn for ridhhima and nothing is justifying it! I mean we are back to the point where armaan ahd returned in march and she was confused as to wat she wants... u knw i would have bought the argument of ridhhima no moving on, IF they had not shown her get all lovey dovey and express genuine romantic feelings for sid... if they had portrayed her character as someone, who only respects her husband and thinks of him as a good friend, i would still be okay - but the woman showed romantic gestures not once or twice, but many times! Initiated it in fact, so how can ur feelings do a u turn completely? Baffles the shit outta me man!

Look, if the CVs have any sense, they will justify this as u put it "confusion of emotions" and i can still accept if she acts all muddled up coz honestly, whatever happened was a BIG THING tht has left an imprint on her for life - so it wont get washed away soon! What she really needs is peace of mind - coz she really has been violated! she needs time to get over the incident and think clearly wat she wants - her judgment is getting clouded by tht incident n its become a living nightmare for her! I mean look at yesterday's episode, she really did behave like a victim! Am not saying she dint get carried away while making out with armaan - she did! But yesterday she behaved like it was the BIGGEST MISTAKE of her life! NOT AN EXPRESSION OF LOVE! Like she wants to get rid of the image at any cost - like its haunting her - in a negative way!

I feel she is not able to understand how could she feel some strong emotions for her ex which she also felt for her husband. She does not know how to feel about all this - I agree with you here...she said, she cant handle this... but unfortunately the CVs dont think as deep as you do so i doubt they will come to this conclusion as u ave mentioned!

The way ahead for her should be - (logically speaking and if CV want to defy logic to keep somebody happy be it fans or actors then good for them) She will continue to have mixed emotions as to how to react to situation Like said in the last post she does not know how to react and she said the same today also 'I don't know how to handle all this' agree...thts logical and thts real to a certain extent!

And if they do show that she was indeed not over armaan yet decided to marry Sid then they are indeed butchering her character sketch. (please check the star one site) and yes she used Sid completely the way he accused her after LT fiasco... absolutely! everything tht they showed in the past 4-5 months then holds no meaning and if they are expecting us to wipe it all out then they are mistaken... as i said, had this track emerged during armaan's return or even during lonavala track, i might have digested - but at this time? Its like an insult to our intelligence!

If it does go the AR way like this then at least for me, AR will be remembered as a tainted story - i mean 2 ppl who need to get physically intimate to realize they are not over each other only go on to show the depth of their relationship!


I like the point you mentioned about armaan and truth - no he has lied to ridhhima on several occasions...for whatever reasons... and this is wat ridhhima did not like about him...and loved about sid... and the fact tht he DID feel something for shilpa will be blatantly ignored in his list of truths! Tht was a nice observation - am sure noone thought of tht!

As for sid, yes i agree again...noone is tht stupid... but he s a man in love and blinded by his wife into believing tht she s in love with him as well.... i really think, he s gonna come to know bout this ghastly incident in a crude manner and all hell will break lose then! Lets wait n watch... The problem with him is - he s too nice...and wahi himself said, sid is too patient...mayb if he hadnt been like tht, things would nt have gone so bad... he s not made for today's times where ppl are just waiting for an opportunity to back stab you...

And yes to end it if the story does go the AR way - my take would be
1. Riddhima would be taken as a butchered character and yes some inferring she used Sid is not incorrect She had ample chances to leave the marriage
2. Never trust anyone - Sid trusted Riddhima hence gave her space. He trusted armaan
3. Never give your 100% to a relationship definitely not if the one you are marrying has had a past
4. Other relationships - father mother sister brother in-laws don't mean anything So called Eternal love is most important even if he/she abandoned you twice
5. Help a person in distress but don't ever think of having any kind of nice feelings for that person
6. Or Never Help a person in distress even if the distress is partially and unintentionally caused by you that person may be there for you only in name of farz and portray as if their is given to the relationship and ultimately backstab you. Bottomline either ways you get damaged so save yourself additional trouble Don't help and be accused and be damaged.

I think the story going AR way is illogical and personally feel it will also not go that way. CV are there for business and I am sure they will land up having more episodes with two couples instead of playing ringa ringa with four leads or triangles

Well said - this one!

Cheers!

PS: I love the title of ur post 😊

Originally posted by: rapunzel84

Inconsistency has been a trademark with dmg...i guess they hire writers on a per day basis!

My 2 cents:
Honestly speaking, its a complete u turn for ridhhima and nothing is justifying it! I mean we are back to the point where armaan ahd returned in march and she was confused as to wat she wants... u knw i would have bought the argument of ridhhima no moving on, IF they had not shown her get all lovey dovey and express genuine romantic feelings for sid... if they had portrayed her character as someone, who only respects her husband and thinks of him as a good friend, i would still be okay - but the woman showed romantic gestures not once or twice, but many times! Initiated it in fact, so how can ur feelings do a u turn completely? Baffles the shit outta me man! Chalo I will still buy showing romantic gestures was a part of the so called farz even the birthday eve night but what about the night when Sid first kissed her She felt a definitely surge of good emotions similar to what she used to feel when armaan used to be intimate with her. Riddhima is a respectable lady (Please others who read my reply to Rapunzel do not hit on her dignity as a lady All know whom I am referring to)

Look, if the CVs have any sense, they will justify this as u put it "confusion of emotions" and i can still accept if she acts all muddled up coz honestly, whatever happened was a BIG THING tht has left an imprint on her for life - so it wont get washed away soon! What she really needs is peace of mind - coz she really has been violated! I feel she feels violated either by armaan or by her own conscience because she cannot accept having similar feelings for both men like I said she is a respectable lady

she needs time to get over the incident and think clearly wat she wants - her judgment is getting clouded by tht incident n its become a living nightmare for her! Here I feel she needs space physical and mental She needs to tell Sid and armaan to stay away for some days she needs to be on her own isolation to think understand armaan did not give her that space he was there in her face next day first thing in the morning and Sid is being himself and also not understanding that she does not want anything physical closeness she has spelled it out to him Here I feel he is at fault big time

I mean look at yesterday's episode, she really did behave like a victim! Am not saying she dint get carried away while making out with armaan - she did! But yesterday she behaved like it was the BIGGEST MISTAKE of her life! NOT AN EXPRESSION OF LOVE! Like she wants to get rid of the image at any cost - like its haunting her - in a negative way! Absolutely this is why i say it is still not AR way and yes there is inconsistency in everything story expressions dialogues and PC statements ( which I feel were to create sensation)

I feel she is not able to understand how could she feel some strong emotions for her ex which she also felt for her husband. She does not know how to feel about all this - I agree with you here...she said, she cant handle this... but unfortunately the CVs dont think as deep as you do so i doubt they will come to this conclusion as u ave mentioned!

The way ahead for her should be - (logically speaking and if CV want to defy logic to keep somebody happy be it fans or actors then good for them) She will continue to have mixed emotions as to how to react to situation Like said in the last post she does not know how to react and she said the same today also 'I don't know how to handle all this' agree...thts logical and thts real to a certain extent!

And if they do show that she was indeed not over armaan yet decided to marry Sid then they are indeed butchering her character sketch. (please check the star one site) and yes she used Sid completely the way he accused her after LT fiasco... absolutely! everything tht they showed in the past 4-5 months then holds no meaning and if they are expecting us to wipe it all out then they are mistaken... as i said, had this track emerged during armaan's return or even during lonavala track, i might have digested - but at this time? Its like an insult to our intelligence! This is the exact thing I have written in my new post http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=1491329#34105486

I completely agree with you

If it does go the AR way like this then at least for me, AR will be remembered as a tainted story - i mean 2 ppl who need to get physically intimate to realize they are not over each other only go on to show the depth of their relationship! Such relationship will not hold for long Beauty which is skin deep will fade faster than one thinks and so will the relationships Less said the better about failed marriage's reasons.

I like the point you mentioned about armaan and truth - no he has lied to ridhhima on several occasions...for whatever reasons... and this is wat ridhhima did not like about him...and loved about sid... and the fact tht he DID feel something for shilpa will be blatantly ignored in his list of truths! Tht was a nice observation - am sure noone thought of tht!

As for sid, yes i agree again...noone is tht stupid... but he s a man in love and blinded by his wife into believing tht she s in love with him as well.... i really think, he s gonna come to know bout this ghastly incident in a crude manner and all hell will break lose then! Lets wait n watch... The problem with him is - he s too nice...and wahi himself said, sid is too patient...mayb if he hadnt been like tht, things would nt have gone so bad... he s not made for today's times where ppl are just waiting for an opportunity to back stab you...

And yes to end it if the story does go the AR way - my take would be
1. Riddhima would be taken as a butchered character and yes some inferring she used Sid is not incorrect She had ample chances to leave the marriage
2. Never trust anyone - Sid trusted Riddhima hence gave her space. He trusted armaan
3. Never give your 100% to a relationship definitely not if the one you are marrying has had a past
4. Other relationships - father mother sister brother in-laws don't mean anything So called Eternal love is most important even if he/she abandoned you twice
5. Help a person in distress but don't ever think of having any kind of nice feelings for that person
6. Or Never Help a person in distress even if the distress is partially and unintentionally caused by you that person may be there for you only in name of farz and portray as if their is given to the relationship and ultimately backstab you. Bottomline either ways you get damaged so save yourself additional trouble Don't help and be accused and be damaged.

I think the story going AR way is illogical and personally feel it will also not go that way. CV are there for business and I am sure they will land up having more episodes with two couples instead of playing ringa ringa with four leads or triangles

Well said - this one!

Cheers!

PS: I love the title of ur post 😊

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