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Posted: 15 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: Ankita.M

Aweosme post Reemu ....👏

Love is straight from the heart and does not follow rules it is not bound by limitations.Marriage is a beautiful institution no doubt but whats the meaning of it when it has no love or obligation as a base of it.For Riddhima marriage to Sid is a big commitment and her brain forces her to stay true to it,but her heart that loves Armaan knows that what may come it cant stop loving him ever.I am not against marriages and I respect it immensely but a forced marriage which keeps three people unhappy is something even something so pure as marriage cannot justify.


ditto!
awesum post reemu👏

i would like to requote anku and say "I am not against marriages and I respect it immensely but a forced marriage which keeps three people unhappy is something even something so pure as marriage cannot justify."

so true........in this case marriage is just a cage which is spoiling the life of all the Three characters......its just a samjhauta which is destroying their lives

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Posted: 15 years ago
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All i can say Is Reemz .... i totally Agree with your Post! About this Issue Of Wheather this is what marrige is all about well .............. Marrige should mean that the two people involved put their heart and soul into it.
Their Is only one person that Ridhimma Loves with Her heart and soul and that is Armaan Malik! And it's Obvious Her Happiness Lies with him! And She Should Forget about the pressures of Soicety and i am Hopeing that for once they show That TRUE LOVE Conqers All 😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
#23

Originally posted by: shamil


I still cant understand what ridhimma actually 'wants'.
If she really wants armaan why cant she be happy that sid has sent her the DP?? why cant she be happy that she can be 'free' since its the husband who is taking initiative to break the marriage? Is her love not strong enough to care 'two hoots' for the so called society??? If she still wants to go back to armaan, this is her best chance.but no, madam is busy doing blame games hailing harsh words at the two men who love her😆. So there must be something that draws her towards her husband though she still hasnt forgotten her love for armaan.

I'll tell you shamil.. its not that she does not want to go back to armaan.. she also knows armaan would never accept the way she came to him... they both respect the marriage n they look marriage over the love which they shared...
the thing which makes her angry is that.. Armaan had understood her n wants her to be happy with her husband n also Armaan also knows that she could never break the bond of marriage.. n wants her to value her..... but sid in other way after knowing that she wants to stay with him "since they are married". never ever thought of knwing n had just sent the divorse papers...
She is angry coz she had scarifised her love n happiness for being loyal to her husband ..
but this guy dis respects her n her feeling by just sending her divorse paper's
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Posted: 15 years ago
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So Ish, u mean to say 'this guy's ' sending those divorce papers was disrespecting AR's emotions towards marriage right?

So at the end we conclude that we all want Sid not to divorce Ridz and live happily ever after with Ridz! Don't u think that way this topic becomes invalid? Becoz some people say SR should not be tied up in a relationship called marriage which is 'loveless'.. And some people say Sid sending her divorce papers is not sensible thing..

So what is the solution?😳 Sid sending her divorce papers is wrong, fine! Ridz sending him divorce papers is unthinkable stuff, fine!

I guess Aakash se tapkega divorce papers, and then both SR should sign it ?😈
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Posted: 15 years ago
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ishwariyaaaaa🤗havent met u for a looong time..

ok now my answer to ur comments😆
so u feel sid 'dis respects' rids decision by sending her dp. But why do u think sid would want to continue being married to a girl whom he feel is in love with another man??? see, being an AR fan , u have completely closed ur eyes to poor sid's dilemma ! I dont think any man can tolerate the fact that his wife is "thinking of another man' (according to AR fans) .
And what is ridhimma trying to do 'by sacrificing her love' and how is she going to be 'loyal ' to her husband if armaan is in her 'heart and soul'. So basically she is trying to make a hell out of 3 lives according to AR fans theory.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: prerna4rishav

So Ish, u mean to say 'this guy's ' sending those divorce papers was disrespecting AR's emotions towards marriage right?

So at the end we conclude that we all want Sid not to divorce Ridz and live happily ever after with Ridz! Don't u think that way this topic becomes invalid? Becoz some people say SR should not be tied up in a relationship called marriage which is 'loveless'.. And some people say Sid sending her divorce papers is not sensible thing..

So what is the solution?😳 Sid sending her divorce papers is wrong, fine! Ridz sending him divorce papers is unthinkable stuff, fine!

I guess Aakash se tapkega divorce papers, and then both SR should sign it ?😈

Hey raam tum logoaur kya samjow.... diversoce can happen in any way lekin she just feels that aab yehbhi mujhe chod na chatha haii jab meinisskayliya aapna pyaar kurban kiya..aapni kushi..
We don't want any such divorse to be happend with sid n riddhima ,,they can part their ways in happy note but not in this manner.. agar sid chatha toh... he can make her understand n then let her to know wat is the thing all about.. they way he has send those paper is not the right thing to be done..... this shows his immaturity towards handling any situation..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Ish😆 I know what u r saying, but Riddhima Sid se baat karegi TOH Sid samjhayega na😆

Ab madamji thodi si naraaz hai.. Toh he had to send her the papers this way.. And u say Divorce is what u dont want.. But legally shaadi ki hai, toh illegally Sid chod nahi sakta hai apne biwi ko..

What will happen if Police comes and charges Sid for sendin his wife away😉😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: shamil

ishwariyaaaaa🤗havent met u for a looong time..

ok now my answer to ur comments😆
so u feel sid 'dis respects' rids decision by sending her dp. But why do u think sid would want to continue being married to a girl whom he feel is in love with another man??? see, being an AR fan , u have completely closed ur eyes to poor sid's dilemma ! I dont think any man can tolerate the fact that his wife is "thinking of another man' (according to AR fans) .
And what is ridhimma trying to do 'by sacrificing her love' and how is she going to be 'loyal ' to her husband if armaan is in her 'heart and soul'. So basically she is trying to make a hell out of 3 lives according to AR fans theory.

HEy shamil.. 🤗
i agree with you shamil.. but they way sid took this decison is wrong... he could have handled with this in a better way..... he acctually did not allow her to take desioin.. this is wat makes her even more angry n rejected..
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Posted: 15 years ago
#29
Well reemz 😃

This is not what marriage does to u.. Marriage does to u what Riddhima was feeling just after getting married.. 😊

This aint marriage, but this is what 'sudden comeback of first love' does to u😆 Riddhima had to never care of all these things, unless her first love was back😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
#30

Originally posted by: prerna4rishav

Ish😆 I know what u r saying, but Riddhima Sid se baat karegi TOH Sid samjhayega na😆

Ab madamji thodi si naraaz hai.. Toh he had to send her the papers this way.. And u say Divorce is what u dont want.. But legally shaadi ki hai, toh illegally Sid chod nahi sakta hai apne biwi ko..

What will happen if Police comes and charges Sid for sendin his wife away😉😆

problems se bagna koi solution nahi hota yaar.. usnay joh kiya galth kiya he should have given her time.. this is her life har koi aapna faisal uski upr topay toh..kahan jaeygi becharee.. 😆

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