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Opti

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Posted: 16 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: sailat@PA
Opti---nice concept!! relevant in today's times.....but if Milind wants to build a life with Prachi he does have to start sharing sensitive subjects that deal with his parents with her...just my opinion!! perhaps once she gets to know them well and the family has a comfort level and develop a familial camaraderie!!

Thanx for this new one-shot FF!! :D Beautifully written!!

Thanks Saima. Well, the way men and women see the whole concept of sharing is different. While women believe in sharing everything, men are in general reticent. My hubby does not share all things about his family which are unpleasant, though there may be some things he may share. Neither does he share unpleasant things about me to his family. I used to find this a problem before since I tell him everything about me and my family. But I have over time realised these things do not matter anymore for at the end of the day he matters to me more and he should have his reasons for keeping these issues separate from each other.

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Posted: 16 years ago

#32

Opti i feel like i am the only one who thinks that Milind is not totally right! so i wanted to make sure that i am thinking along proper lines.

Ok after marriage a man and his wife is one. i thought there must be no secrets between them whether it is concerned about their relationship or if it concerns about other members in their respective families. thats what i have been used to seeing all along until now.

i am unable to open the 1st page so i am writing this based on what i remember from last night!

Milind said that he didnt want prachi to have a bad impression about his family. right?

but once after marriage Prachi is part of that family, and even if she comes to know of ugly secrets of that family she must still love them and respect them because it is her family now!!! she must love them for it is her husband';s family now!!1and she is part of it. if it affects Milind it certainly will affect Prachi too. it is Prachi;s concern too! it is better for prachi to come to know of it through milind rather than through someone else, right??

but on the other hand, so far, i only have seen people sharing stuff very well with their partners but not sharing much with the whole family about their partner. its not like they love their family any less but after marriage i feel that a couple is more protective about eacother and their bond is much stronger than the rest !!

say for instance, my family members do know and agree that my uncle tells stuff about all of us to his wife but we donot expect my uncle to tell us stuff about his wife!!

but no matter what the secret is, if it matters to Milind it should matter to parchi as well. his relationship with his wife is much more personal that his relationship with his baba(no i donot mean that after marriage one should love their parents less, but ones love for their partners is more intimate right??) so they must share everything!!!

excuse me if it is confusing, i think i myself am a bit confused in properly expressing what i think!!!

this is solely my opinion, i am not saying that your idea is wrong!! but i want to know what u think about my reasoning towards this.

thanks!

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391527

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Posted: 16 years ago

#33

thanks for explaining that in such a detail.

yes rules must work both ways! but sadly i never saw that happening in the real world around me! after marriage, one doesnt love their parents any less, but the love for their better half and the bond with them increases, that is what I felt and that is what i have seen!

so i thought that Miling sharing his ugly family secrets with parchi is OK than Milind sharing prachi's secrets with his family!

too bad milind wont have peace of mind if he shares certain things with his wife. i hope i dont get into that situation.

no i wudnt like it if my unlce tells my aunt about my ugly secrets, but i know that he would tell it to her!!

and i future i dont think i would think along the same lines as milind. well, 😆

but who knows, my thoughts might very well change once i get into one!! i guess i wudnt understand it completely until i learn it myself!!

who knows!

i understand what you are saying and i shall keep it in mind.

hmm so many questions akka! for which i dont have sure answers!

but they are well worth a thought!

😊

thanks for that!

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Opti

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Posted: 16 years ago

#34

Aritha there is no one solution to problems between couples. If things were so simple then there would be no divorces or marriage counsellors! There is no one size fits all.

Just as no two couples are alike or no two individuals are alike, so too the solution to the problems also may differ based on the couples.

Here Milind is one who believes in respecting the confidence of certain people in certain matters. Prachi loves everything about him. So she needs to respect his wish to maintain that discretion. Afterall he knows his family much longer than she does. If there is nothing to be gained and everything to be lost in stubbornly insisting on full disclosure, then I guess it is better to give up that stubborness for the great good of the couple. Who knows in time Milind's relationship with his parents may improve to such an extent that all of them can joke about it one day but as things stand Prachi did the right thing by choosing her man over his secrets.

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Opti

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Posted: 16 years ago

#35

Aritha, this just struck me. Lets us say that you have done something you are not very proud of and one of your parents knows about it, maybe your mother. Would you not then ask her to keep it from your father lest he thinks less of you? If you do and your mother also agrees, then is she not hiding something from her partner? Now if this something is not grave enough that it will snowball into a crisis in future, would the fact that your father was kept in the dark be such a bad thing?

In real life there are several such incidents when many couples keep certain things from each other inorder to preserve the dignity of certain other relationships. One has to be very careful in such instances though. If one's judgement is not sound, such secrets can themselves create problems for the marriage later on as they may not be in the territory of the non-intersecting portion of Milind's diagrammes but in the intersecting portion, that is to say that they may be interconnected with the relationship the spouses share with each other.

Here I am presuming that Milind is an intelligent guy who can discern the difference.

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GoGreen

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Posted: 16 years ago

#36

Opti,

nice FF and sensitive topic ....really nice FF.

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Opti

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Posted: 16 years ago

#37

Originally posted by: MichiDespo
Opti,

nice FF and sensitive topic ....really nice FF.

Thanks Sumu. Thought you will have your own take on this.

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Sara Khanna

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Posted: 16 years ago

#38

opti darling🤗🤗

fantastic part ...... really superb ...... again love your detail version

very practical ...... so michi used to friends & then lover right from their childhood .... GOD they were alone with no siblings ...... so milsi used to have small fights with his father & grumpy milsi used to happy with her future MIL ....... their confession was really unique & unexpected plus hilarious too ....... they were in relation from past 15 yrs ....... so they got into a small fight coz of milsi secretiveness, which was right at milsi's place ...... & prachi want that milsi should be clear with her & apologize too ....... milsi speech over a relation gap between laife patner & in laws is very obvious & a truth ...... loved to see that now prachi understand him & finally they will be together

thnx sweet herat for such a wonderful FF

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mehanandita

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Posted: 16 years ago

#39

nice ff👏👏👏
love ur milind,their confession is quite different and like the way
thanks for sharing

keep on rocking

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NosVemos

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Posted: 16 years ago

#40

Aritha, this Milind is not only a true lover but also a man who also equally loves his parents/family and fulfills his responsibility towards them to T. Love between a man-woman is a beautiful relationship but every other relationship has its beauty too and is equally important. Milind is balancing it all out here as it's not just Milind-Prachi but Milind-Prachi, his family, her family and a lot more in real life.

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