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secretkeeper

@secretkeeper

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+ 2

Posted: 16 years ago

#191

@Anjana: you're most welcome yaar *hugs* 😊

"Arohi's new Anagram:

A = Ass 😲

R = Rat 😡

J = Jhoata 😭

U = Ugly

N= Nasty 🤢 "

Aro is boiling i know...saying such things abt my bhaiyya *sigh* 😕 chalo ye bhi sahi...i pity the poor girl...*sympathetic nudge*

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Amanda

@Unpwetty

Inactive

Posted: 16 years ago

#192

@Anjana After goin thru 16 pages..i thought it wud b imposible for me to reply to ur long post..but i cannot resist..with my thought being on the same wavelength as urs! : )

so, do find my tid bits below!

UnAnswered Question from Yesterday:

ANJANA's EVERREADY LOGIC (Sponsored by DURACELL):

Arjun and Arohi didn't know where to start their search for Salil and Purvi. So, they came to pray at the Temple and seek divine insight as to Salil and Purvi's whereabouts. They may not have faith in each other, but they have FAITH IN GOD!! And they were RIGHT!!

Ektaji, I so proud of you ji - you even recyle temples (You have my vote for Environmentalist of the year!!). 🤣 ........👏

Pride (hers) and Prejudice (His hatred of mommy and women)

They have both loved and now lost. And are both now grieving- grieving the love and faith they lost. And neither has anyone to share their dard - their heartache.

A lot of you are no doubt aware of the seven stages of grief. Its a psych concept that when we grief the death of a loved one then we experience these stages of grief.

Shock stage: Initial paralysis at hearing the bad news.

Denial stage: Trying to avoid the inevitable.

Anger stage: Frustrated outpouring of bottled-up emotion.

Bargaining stage: Seeking in vain for a way out.

Depression stage: Final realization of the inevitable.

Testing stage: Seeking realistic solutions.

Acceptance stage: Finally finding the way forward.

Well explained 👍🏼..youve got all seves stages right there...but i think the depression comes before the bargainin ...or mayb the order there is slightly debatable ..k i see u mentioned it in ur post....just read it n so came bak to type this...my bad!

Just like Arjun, Arohi has been wounded to the core. He because of his mommy issues. She because of her daddy issues. He attacked her and her father's integrity when he had no cause (at least he didn't from her perspective). As, I have always said, when this girl when she has a genuine problem does not confront, but walk away. So, her behaviour for me is in keeping with her character. She is resigning - she is walking away.

Absolutely right..she has now reached a resigned state of mind...and frankly i like that..even tho it came early...because the jhatka she got at the edding from Arjun ws more than done with for her!

There maybe two other reasons why she does not confront him: (a) Pride - neither Arjun Punj nor Arohi Sharma will ever beg for the others love - this is one of the few boundaries of their love. Also, she's already given him a second chance and what did he do? Trample all over her and her family. Thus her Pride bars her from questioning him (2) she no doubt has her own MU about his misconduct - She thinks he's siding with his scheming father and rejecting her love & that his promises were false.

Well this is well figured out and am sure noone here wud dare to disagree on this part

Why one tear and not a sob? That's a ridiculous question. A single tear for some can be equally as painful as some elses sobs. Exactly my point..he shook his body so much to give it the desired effect...but i didnt quite see the tears falling! Also, unlike Arjun, she does not have the luxury to grief alone. If she does so then her family will know that somethings wrong. But, Arohi as usual wants to keep her feelings private - she is the pseudo-son. She has practial pressures and responsibilities that Arjun does not. She also does not have the luxury to fall apart...This part Anjana is spot on u covered it well.

Arjun's pain - something is off with me today. Good acting no doubt, but I am not connecting. Well i think he cried like a baby n he looked cute n so vulnerable there..was actually nice to see him..but when he started off..even i failed to connect with him..n i think the sun was too out...if it was at the crack of dawn the effect wudve been more believable! Anyhow, I don't doubt that he's in love, but unlike Arohi he does not know how to love and is frankly unbalanced (not to mention illogical). She knows how to love and she does love, but has balance - she has to for her family's sake. Also, she might hate, but she won't do anything truly malicious to him. He in his junoon, on the other hand, I think could do anything. The absolute truth there!...im pretty much agreeing to every word of urs as u can see there!

DAKU DADDY

He's lost love and ego is blinding him to the torture he's subjecting Arjun too. That's truly truly pathetic. yea hes actualling bringing arjun inbetween his fight with savita ..and dragging it bet. Arjun n Arohi...whcih father wud so outright selfish?!

Scary Thought

I can't wait for the day Arjun learns the DK's truth, BUT I fear it will by then be too late for him and Aro. that is thought provoking now...😕

Food for thought:

1. "Mein uski aakhon mein ansoo dekna chaata who" - is this forshadowing or am I seeing shadows where there are none? It's certainly a stark contrast to his "is dunia main sub se khubsoorat ankhain tumharee hain main in main ansoo nahin dekh sakta" ....u know that dialogue selectively shown as a precap...was meant to show the contrast of Arjun as the man he was and has become now!...that his love cud turn around to this extent..tht the same man who cud not even see her eyes well up with tears..n wud give her flowers just to keep her smiling and wipe her tears that pretty much killed him,... vowed to make her cry and find sadastic pleasure in seeing her tht way.....Having said tht, lets see how far tht goes tho, from Arjuns point of view.

2. Math problem re DK-Savita: Ria I don't get their math, but I also don't get why you are thinking Arjun was 4 when Mindless Mommy left? The kid we have seen in flashback seems older like 7-9? .. i think he once said "jab mein 4 saal ki thi"..thats why Ria presumes...rite ria..if am not mistaken

4. Smoke - honestly, this maybe why I didn't connect to KK's crying - I kept thinking of P & M's expresso machine and its random steam!!....hahaha..i know they always concentrated oon showing the steam than the coffee...selective shots eh?!

6. Notice Period now 3 WEEKS not MONTHS: Its AP & he can change any rule. Remember when she wants to use the men's room? Jokes apart, maybe he is counting the period she has served from her first resignation (after first fight regarding Rupaali). And she has only 3 weeks of the 3 months now left to serve out. We could say that her second resignation is not truly required then, but maybe its needed for emphasis after the love-dave stuff. Anjana thats the exact explanantion i gave in one of my comments as well...see we do think alike on the kmh front!😉 Ekta there are limits even to my powers to explain BT bloopers and you are surely testing them!

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Anu

@Anu-Reddy

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 16 years ago

#193

@Mehr & Radz : Iam here...at office safe and sound......
I know u gals will see what I DONT want u to see..😉😉...chalo tum bhi kya yaad rakhoge...uchalo khudo whatever u want to do...😃😃..tum donokeliye sab kuch maaf😉

Anyways gaana...phir se gaana.??..😲😲...tum log naa...mere upar gaane likh likh ke taang nahi hothe??😳...chalo have to agree... I love it😳 ..when u write such songs....woh be sply my TO-DO list ko bhi daalthe ho ussme so aur bhi mazaa atha hai...😳

Mehr gaana bahut acha thaa... aaj ke liye hogaya kya taang kinchayi??😳

Anu

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Anu

@Anu-Reddy

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 16 years ago

#194

Originally posted by: secretkeeper
@Anjana: you're most welcome yaar *hugs* 😊

"Arohi's new Anagram:

A = Ass 😲

R = Rat 😡

J = Jhoata 😭

U = Ugly

N= Nasty 🤢 "

Aro is boiling i know...saying such things abt my bhaiyya *sigh* 😕 chalo ye bhi sahi...i pity the poor girl...*sympathetic nudge*

I agree...though my Dost is such a sweet heart😳...but Arohi ke nazaar mein all this fits perfect...

Anu

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Anu

@Anu-Reddy

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 16 years ago

#195

@Anjana:
So go the response buddy😳...so nice to hear that😛...lets see Ekta apne aank kholegi ki ya nahi??

Anu

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secretkeeper

@secretkeeper

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 16 years ago

#196

@Anu: hum dono k liye sab kuch maaf? yayyyy *jumping*

gooood to know that u reached safe & sound *hugs* i'm happy u liked the song 😃 sab aap ki SHIKSHA hey *shermaying*..yes yes tabhi toh hum TO DO list mention kertey hein song mein 😉 taang khiching mission still not over *Mehr ducks* me and Radz are coming up with another one...dicussion going on in PM 😃

keep waiting *nudge* 😆

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Radhika

@love is fire

Voyager

Posted: 16 years ago

#197

@Anjana: Wooots *taaliyaan and seetiyaan* Excellent job Anjana! im so glad they received ur analysis and forwarded it to Ekta ....Hopefully she takes the right measures 😃

@Anu: Nahinnnn we nvr get tired of song writing...kyonki hum sach sach likhte hain? Hai na Mehr? *whispers....lets run before Anu comes after us with shoes*.....*RUNS* 😆

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Anu

@Anu-Reddy

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 16 years ago

#198

@Mehr & Radz: Still not over...still discussing...oh god..😲..**wandering ,...whats next**...

Chalo I will do some work now😳...u ppl do ur discussions and I will be back to see what next...😳

Anu

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Amanda

@Unpwetty

Inactive

Posted: 16 years ago

#199

@ charu...lol..good PS.....u mean nightwear...men dont wear nighties! lol

@sonia good take...w/o seeing the epi..im sure ull have more on ur mind tho after watchin it! ..and loved ur poem...well thought thru and penned down..u covered evry phase and the unanswered/ unspoken moments

@meher...darlyn loved the song...its actually one of my favs! :D

@Anjana...congrats gurl..its a relief ..that they did reply..u can let out a sigh now..not to worry ur swot report will b delivered...n lets hope they swap theirs with urs..n mayb instead of dumping it int he bin..send u sum feedbak of what mightve been.

BTW DID ANYONE NOTICE IN PRECAP..I MEAN DID AROHI GOT TO HIS HOUSE TO HAND OVER THE LETTER CUZ HE DINT SHOW UP AT THE OFFICE FOR LONG..OR DOES HE HAVE A NEW FIREPLACE AT HIS OFFICE AS WELL..OR MAYB THEY DIMMED THE LIGHTS...ANYHOW, WE HAVE SPECIAL LIGHT EFFECTS AS WELL!!

WELL SEE ULL ON THE ADDA TO FOLLOW!

Edited by Unpwetty - 16 years ago