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PureBliss

@PureBliss

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Posted: 17 years ago

#21

I think u are right Raksha di this is too much yudi cant behave like that.

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@-JC-

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Posted: 17 years ago

#22

Well i am glad that they have made Yudi less than perfect. It endears him even more. Frankly i like this Yudi much more than the prime n proper Prince Yudhishtir that he was in the beginning who followed his father's dictates and did everything expected of him. I like him much better when he uses his ability to think and decipher right from wrong and reacts to a situation according to that judgement. Now in this case it went against YuRa as a sweet and loving romantic understanding couple whom we love. Its cause problems between them but they will resolve this issue among themselves and they'll become even more close emotionally (i believe) because this issue happened with them. From my experience its when you go through troubles with someone and come out of it victorious, that you form an even more special bond with that person (no matter what the relationship is). So YuRa will also appreciate each other even more because of this.

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Anjali Devi

@Seetal

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Posted: 17 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: *Kruthi*
Rani totally deserved that, no one told her to lie to Yudi in the first place... and besides, scenes when Yudi's angry are the best and she falling in front of his car is icing on the cake, cuz then he'll feel even more guilty and plead forgiveness later on.

Rani is stupid... Yudi loves her so much, staying so she can visit the fair... and this is what she does in return?!!

👏👏👏 Totally agree............lying to your husband is always a no-no and Rani with all her wise words and amma's book full of "do's and don't's" doesn't know such a simple thing. But !!!!! I am looking forward to the YuRa "makeup".........wrtiers please make it a little more interesting than what you've done so far. 😉

Edited by tseeta - 17 years ago

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beena

@bsingapury

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Posted: 17 years ago

#24

after reading all thoughts i will still say as i have said one of my post also about yudi's anger.....and JC also mensioned same thing that this is not not first time yudi has shown traces of anger we have seen that many times in past like whenever he has seen any injustice happening he had lso this control and behave in rage like bashing up all gundas and all..............so according that his character is very stanble ........and like in past also he also lied to his dad to save his bro so why here he got upset ok i believe he has all right to get upset but

it is not entire rani's fault either because it is not like thqat she lied to yudi even she tried many times to tell him but first it was he refused to listen to her.and second time he fell sleep so here i will say time was enimy for rani

and CR has always supported yura during their bad time now we viewers and CR and rudra knows that was her intenstion to gain something but for yura it is not like that . for yura Cr i slike person who stood beside them when they needed somebody their own to help them out ............and if person like that and again she is on post of mother ....if that person ask some help that is also with tears in her eyes how could you refuse that person.......and if you do that then i am sorry to say you are selfish person............and we know rani had always helped every one .......many times those people who have hurt her...............so even rani's charactger also very consistance in that sense

and what i did not like as said ..............yudi did not even gave chance rani to explain herself. if yudi thought rani was worng ok ,..............she was wrong that she did not inform him or ask his opinion about that matter but atleast rani has right to explain herself ..............the way yudi drove off i did not like he should have gone to soem other room or for walk or something like that but he was too blind inhis rage that he did not even think that rani could run after him on high ways forgetting her own safety

if he claims he trust rani more than god as he said this words in past and he knows rani very weel than why did not he trust her in this matter that whatever rani had done must be some reason

now come to the point that rani told him on HM after that fight that in anger person lost his or her ability to think coherently...............and anger is not the only solution to handle any situation...........actually it worsen the situation and same thing is going to happen here

but as i said earlier too that this will teach life long lesson to both of them to rani not to hide anything from yudi no matter what and yudi to control his anger ................

and as raksha di said sometimes situations arise that way we have to hide few things from sometimes husband too..........thinking time will bring the solution because at that moment only that is the option available because manyh relation we are sharing and manytimes difficult to handle each an devery relation at same time and make all of themhappy at same time is highly impossible

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Shafza

@Shafza

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Posted: 17 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: jinc118
...@Shafza: I really dont' wish to see Yudi's past flame.🤢 Sorry but i think i've seen enough of past flames creating problems in married life of jodis in other shows....

You're probably right JC...I just dont know whats going to happen ahead...and Im a bit low on the YuRa dose...am missing some serious romanticism between our YuRa...kaafi der ho gayi hai...not had some beautiful words from either....

Anyway can def see the story progressing like you've said...anything to make Yudi realize that his is an uncontrollable anger....

As for Rani well she's a caring, fearing soul and doesnt want to see people hurt..and anybody comes to ask for help she happily obliges..its the character that Yudi fell in love with. But I also hear u its the betrayel element that Yudi cant comprehend....but she did try to tell him...and I disagree with the comment about trying to tell him during the ride to Rani's village coz look at the reaction Rani's had to contend with whilst him finding out...if she had told him while driving...Lord knows what would have happened he probably would have shouted at her in the car and crashed into something....😕 ok I know its completely out of this world dramatic style but you never can tell with these dramas!

Alas I love RKAB for its simplicity as well and formally withdraw my idea of putting in a 'old flame revisiting' element as it would destroy the harmony of the show..and YuRa is the theme and sacred bond of this show and what makes it unique and unlike the typical Saas Bahu shows.....So totally am with u on that JC.

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Nisha_07

@Nisha_07

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Posted: 17 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: bsingapury
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and CR has always supported yura during their bad time now we viewers and CR and rudra knows that was her intenstion to gain something but for yura it is not like that . for yura Cr i slike person who stood beside them when they needed somebody their own to help them out ............and if person like that and again she is on post of mother ....if that person ask some help that is also with tears in her eyes how could you refuse that person.......and if you do that then i am sorry to say you are selfish person............and we know rani had always helped every one .......many times those people who have hurt her...............so even rani's charactger also very consistance in that sense[/Quote]
Beena I am not saying that what Rani did was wrong, the way in which she did it was wrong.

I don't disagree with anything you have said. For me, the story is going at too fast a speed. The honeymoon showed problems instead of them starting to understand each other. They come back from their honeymoon and straight into this misunderstanding. Yes, problems happen, but here there appears to be nothing but problems.

From a storytelling perspective, I feel they should /could have shown Rani & Yudi understanding each other in a better way than this. For me, this feels like any of the other serials out there where the woman is always crying, always worried. RKAB was not supposed to be like this.

@ JC, Rani's character is beginning to feel more and more like a victim to me. Yes, her goodness has been consistent and for that I am grateful, and I even agree with her putting everyone else before herself. What I am not liking is the portrayal of a tearful, crying, worrying Rani constantly. From the start of the Bhushy track, Rani for me comes across as someone who things just happen to. And she basically just cries. That's what I mean when I say they are ruining the character, they can show her growing into a queen in so many ways but in the last few weeks there have just been tears and misunderstandings.

My issue is with the creatives portrayal of the characters, and the drive to make RKAB more like any of the other saas bahu dramas. Now we are heading for more in that vein, with CR manipulating Rani and creating more misunderstandings between YuRa. And we don't even have YuRa closeness that they stand together and face all the problems coming their way. So what makes this different from any of the other shows?

JC, you are right, it's hard to please everyone. These are my opinions. I can see what you are all saying and where you are coming from, this is just how I feel. For me, RKAB is losing that magic that kept me hooked.
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Shafza

@Shafza

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Posted: 17 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: Nisha_07
.... For me, RKAB is losing that magic that kept me hooked.

Nooooooooooo Nish....thats a cardinal sin...

dont worry we'll get u thru this difficult period....we can get u hooked upto some old epi's and bring back that magic...dont u worry hun we'll get u into hospital soon.... Rakhie do somethin???...a ditty or defibrilator....anything!!!

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Nisha_07

@Nisha_07

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Posted: 17 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: Shafza
Nooooooooooo Nish....thats a cardinal sin...

dont worry we'll get u thru this difficult period....we can get u hooked upto some old epi's and bring back that magic...dont u worry hun we'll get u into hospital soon.... Rakhie do somethin???...a ditty or defibrilator....anything!!!

😆 😆 😆

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ramas

@ramas

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Posted: 17 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: Shafza

Nooooooooooo Nish....thats a cardinal sin...

dont worry we'll get u thru this difficult period....we can get u hooked upto some old epi's and bring back that magic...dont u worry hun we'll get u into hospital soon.... Rakhie do somethin???...a ditty or defibrilator....anything!!!

I too feel the same at times. Kahan gaya woh magic.

But then from my own experience with life I can see that when the reality hits all those words and promises made vanish.

That does not mean a person who promised to love you so much . Does not love you any more. Real love grows more as you go thru life together weathering the stomrs coming your way.

A person stops thinking about himself or herself but think about their mate and how he or she will feel and that changes a person completely.

The bottom line true love grows as you spend more time with your loved one and as the individuality disappears from the marriage. and two some becomes one.jab mai aur tum mitke hum ban jate hai.

Like eventually rani will think how yudi will feel before doing anything and same yudi will feel about rani.

They are moving on from puppy love to real love.

Edited by ramas - 17 years ago

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Shafza

@Shafza

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Posted: 17 years ago

#30

Originally posted by: ramas
.....The bottom line true love grows as you spend more time with your loved one and as the individuality disappers from the marriage. and two some becomes one.

Like eventually rani will think how yudi will feel before doing anything and same yudi will feel about rani.

They are moving on from puppy love to real love.

Well said...I see that in Kanjali already...but how lovely would it be if YuRa did show them thinking about each other.....😃