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everyone else approves,now entirely upto u,would you marry the guy

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Posted: 21 years ago
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This is a tough question with a simple answer: It all rests on you and the person who loves you.

If you love someone who loves you too truly, you love the whole person. If the person understands you, s/he wud try their best not to hurt you. And the same would go for you. Nothing would make you more happy than to marry this person and lead a happy life with him/her.

But if this person has hurt you, broken your trust over and over again, s/he doesn't deserve your love. Irrespective of whether s/he loves you truly or not. Because in loving him/her you have been hurt. If the person really cared about you, s/he wudn't have done something to break your trust or your heart.

Your lover will set the court for you. You have to choose a side.

In the first case, marrying someone else would be a compromise with love. In the second case, you'd be compromising a lot more being with your loved one than you would be if you married someone else. You'd be compromising with love and life. And that's not a good place to be.

This is why I can't vote.

Edited by spike - 21 years ago
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Posted: 21 years ago
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😆

Originally posted by: ritu

Baap re such a confusing question

mujhe chakkar aa raha hai soch soch kar





😆 😆😆😆

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Posted: 21 years ago
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Originally posted by: Minnie

hai,tum sochti bi ho? kab se?😉

Haloo mere paas bhi dimaag hai. Jab bhi main jyada sochti hu to mere knees me dard hone lagta hai. 😭 which means i also can think o.k. 😭

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Posted: 21 years ago
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Originally posted by: ides


Ritu....yeh deemagh kam use karne ka asar hai......bechare ko kaam ki aadat hi naheen....😉

Ides !! 😡 😡 mere dimaag ka dahi nahi karne kaa !

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Posted: 21 years ago
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i will vote for the first one. because love is very important married life! my partner may have some flaws and i also may have some , but the plus point is that we love each other deeply! with this love we can repair shortcomings of one -another! there is a song in bengali ,minnie u can understand:

"amar na jodi thake sur , tomar achhe tumi ta debe

tomar gandha hara ful, amar kachhe suravi nebe,

er i naam prem, er i naam prem!"

that means:

'agar mere pas sur na ho, tumhare paas to hai, tum wo doge

aur tumhare paas bin khushbu ke jo ful hai

wo mujhse khushbu lenge!

isiko to pyaar kehte hai..............pyaar!'

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Posted: 21 years ago
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"amar na jodi thake sur , tomar achhe tumi ta debe

tomar gandha hara ful, amar kachhe suravi nebe,

er i naam prem, er i naam prem!"

where did u get it from? never heard of it😆

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Posted: 21 years ago
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Hi! Rim Jhim! it's an old song of Manna Dey! it's very beautiful and melodious!
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Posted: 21 years ago
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Yes,it's a beautiful song by Manna dey.I think from the same album as 'jodi kaagoje lekho naam'......meaning if you write ur name on a paper......
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Posted: 21 years ago
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I chose ur best friend who u luv, but who doesn't luv u back and doesn't have many flaws, and u keep ur friendship solid without draggin luv into it.

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Posted: 21 years ago
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Originally posted by: SuperGrl126301

I chose ur best friend who u luv, but who doesn't luv u back and doesn't have many flaws, and u keep ur friendship solid without draggin luv into it.

I'm sorry but didn't get u.....😕

you choose my best friend whom I luv,but who doesn't luv me back and dosn't have many flaws,and I keep my friendship solid without dragging luv into it??

SuperGrl126301,why would you do such a thing to me?? What have done to you??😕

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