Meem Se Mohabbat (HUM) #7 - Ahad Raza Mir, Dananeer Mobeen - Page 40

Originally posted by: Aazeen02

Thank you Mrina... This scene was the first time he actually confessed his feelings and accepted them graciously. When he's all worked up for her safety, she understood his point and brought forward her own, her complaints towards him.

And when he let her know what place she holds in his life and household, she believed him to be true...

Yes, very true. This is where is confesses to her directly.

Originally posted by: Falo0da

Sorry I'd been meaning to respond to this cuz it's just so well articulated but I kept getting distracted smh. Anyway, this was a beautiful analysis and I really enjoyed reading your take on this scene. I'd love to read what you have to say about the other scenes as well cuz I feel like you have such a good understanding of the characters and their state of mind.

Just to go off of what you're saying with regards to the whole Sabeeka thing, I think the one thing Talha didn't necessarily take into account was how big of a blow that whole incident was to Roshi's ego.

Immature, stupid, bachi, jazbati... Roshi has heard different variations of those words many times from the people around her. Her parents and even Talha have scolded her many times because of it. But what made those words feel like a knife to the chest that time around was that her takeaway essentially was that "you are stupid, immature and jazbati unlike Sabeeka". The words that he didn't exactly say, but in that moment when he went after her so brutally for Sabeeka's sake, he chose a side. He chose the Sabeeka who Roshi believed was selfish, mean and so undeserving of Talha's love that it was laughable that she even was trying to get him back. But then just like that, it was Roshi who was the butt of the joke. Because Talha very heartlessly dismissed Roshi's feelings and told her that it was she in fact who didn't deserve his love. Despite all her efforts to seek his approval, giving her all at work and her uni for a simple word of praise from him, to him she was still immature, unlike Sabeeka. She was irresponsible, unlike Sabeeka. She was stupid, unlike Sabeeka. Hence she doesn't deserve his love, unlike Sabeeka. And then him deciding to marry Sabeeka stripped Roshi of that last shred of dignity she had to the point she would rather suffer at the hands of a blackmailer than face the humiliation of seeking help from someone who made her feel so small. As deeply as Talha regretted all that happened, and despite reading Roshi's actions like an open book for the most part, the core of the hurt she felt is something Talha didn't entirely understand until she spelled it out for him. And it was only then that it clicked what he needed to do.

So when we get that beautiful full circle moment with the "jazbati, pagal ho tum lekin mujhe bohat pyari ho", that was that. That was all she needed. That is literally all she ever wanted to hear. Being called bewaqoof or pagal is not something she minds as long as she is the one in his heart.
He said a lot of things that day at the beach except for this one simple detail he chose to keep inside. The one detail that would invalidate all of those mean words he said earlier. And that is the simple truth that he loved her. She was bewaqoof but he loved her. She was pagal but he loved her. She was jazbati but it was only her that he ever loved. She was the light of his life. For all that hurt that Roshi felt, only the words that he used to tear her down could have actually healed her heart again. And despite all of Talha's "maturity" and his unexpected flair for romance I must say, it took him long enough to realize that simple fact. Silly man.

Some points to add here: Men sometimes are a bit stupid, they don't get it at times unless it's spelled out for them.

Talha kinda knew the amount of hurt he has given her, and he himself pained forever for it, but the intensity of that pain was wayyyy more for Roshi and she told him some and she moved on from some. It is a tendency in love, we don't exactly tell the person we love how much they've hurt us. We let them know of the hurt, but do not shove the intensity on their face... Because love heals certain wounds. Her wounds are also getting healed by the exclusive love he's showering upon her.

Back for round 2.. still not over it . not in order

Originally posted by: Aazeen02

I'm in love with your analysis Falooda. You are absolutely right.

Some points to add here: Men sometimes are a bit stupid, they don't get it at times unless it's spelled out for them.

Talha kinda knew the amount of hurt he has given her, and he himself pained forever for it, but the intensity of that pain was wayyyy more for Roshi and she told him some and she moved on from some. It is a tendency in love, we don't exactly tell the person we love how much they've hurt us. We let them know of the hurt, but do not shove the intensity on their face... Because love heals certain wounds. Her wounds are also getting healed by the exclusive love he's showering upon her.

Exactly! I agree with every word you said. Also one very petty thing my petty self noticed while watching the episode was that technically, Talha never apologized. He was full of regret that he hurt her, and he left no stone unturned in expressing how special she was to him and gave her every assurance of love a woman could ever dream of receiving, but he never actually acknowledged his double standards in how he dealt with Shariq vs how he set his boundaries when Roshi tried to talk to him about Sabeeka. That part is something he was never concerned with and just casually brushed off. In his man brain, he was the protector hence it was only natural that he would protect which is why the first thing he asked her when they left was "aqal agayi?". But like you said, there are some things women just tend to get over themselves and this was one of them for Roshi (and me). Cuz how can either of us have the heart to be mad about that anymore if he loves her so much that it makes him cry?

And tbh I kind of love that they stick true to their core personalities like that. Talha is 100% a green flag gentleman but he very much has a ruthless side and he will very easily steamroll you to get what he wants. If he "obey's" Roshi, it's mostly because he humors her and loves to go along with her but he is no kishmish.

Originally posted by: tulip.johar

https://youtube.com/shorts/ehzcuOwFE2I?si=_ddSE7Jrhr61es54

People are still making edits on MSM and making me even more emotional that it's ended.... 😭😭😭

I don't think I have seen THIS MANY EDITIn such a short span of time for any show

https://x.com/yesssandnoooo/status/1912001262490652855?t=PU6odU-mub9GK6oQ7XLuQg&s=19

https://x.com/mona151528/status/1911858463484846194?t=RLYq7-SZ4K5rZMi8X31ItA&s=19

https://www.facebook.com/share/r/14jcmsUJST/?mibextid=wwXIfr

Yes, I need exactly this.

Originally posted by: Falo0da

Exactly! I agree with every word you said. Also one very petty thing my petty self noticed while watching the episode was that technically, Talha never apologized. He was full of regret that he hurt her, and he left no stone unturned in expressing how special she was to him and gave her every assurance of love a woman could ever dream of receiving, but he never actually acknowledged his double standards in how he dealt with Shariq vs how he set his boundaries when Roshi tried to talk to him about Sabeeka. That part is something he was never concerned with and just casually brushed off. In his man brain, he was the protector hence it was only natural that he would protect which is why the first thing he asked her when they left was "aqal agayi?". But like you said, there are some things women just tend to get over themselves and this was one of them for Roshi (and me). Cuz how can either of us have the heart to be mad about that anymore if he loves her so much that it makes him cry?

And tbh I kind of love that they stick true to their core personalities like that. Talha is 100% a green flag gentleman but he very much has a ruthless side and he will very easily steamroll you to get what he wants. If he "obey's" Roshi, it's mostly because he humors her and loves to go along with her but he is no kishmish.

Toh inn sab mein Talha Kishmish toh nahi ban sakta, albatta uske liye 4 househelps aur arrange kar dega that you get work done from them. Plus, I don't find Roshi similar to Saleeqa as her family thought. She's not as apathetic as Saleeqa was. Roshi takes up responsibilities of Mohid quite seriously, she spends good time with Baba, and she passionately loves Talha; I can never imagine her to leave a sick Talha in the room and sleep with Mohid because her sleep is getting disturbed by a sick husband. I'm absolutely sure she'd forego a day or paid work if she has to tend to her sick Husband the entire night.

Bas itna kaafi hai. Khana banane, kapde dhone, iron karne, sabke liye househelps mil jaayenge. Roshi doesn't need to make her husband her donkey.

I think Dana did some surgery to her cheeks

Coz in the event she had a cute golu face

Now she has an elongated face

Did she shed her cheek fat

I don't know why people do that