ar is not like this before abheera entered his life. He was the calmer one and Rohit was active one at home the favorite kid of house. Ar was like paraya didn't enter into anyone much. Rohit used to manavo dadi for anything from start and ar got wrath . Vidya was the one who took ar as her own though back story is added and faded. Why abheera never fought with shivani is they have no issues. If shivani was at poddars she too could be calmer version like Rohit and accept anything in family not to disturb peace. This is what difficult to handle in a joint family if the aggressive or open talks one tells their opinion and elders get pissed. My in-laws were the elders in family so every decision was in my fil hands and balancing everything wo fights. So he used to tell and others follow it. This is also a big stress on him that it's paying his health now.Originally posted by: AnjuRish
So true ro had calmness and that mentality to fixer of issues.he was the glue that kept fam together
Ar already with the blackmail has made dadi and fufa resent him since he is taking advantage of their helplessness..if he had not done so dadi eventually would have accepted him and voluntarily given even ab a place as partner of she was great
Gadbad badbad will have issues with ru too I guess when she tries to prove she is right and forces food excercise or such things in ru routine

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