Originally posted by: Nivedha1
Bro. Watching the same show. I remember the car scene. Yes she was stupid enough to expect Arjun to accept that child without any inhibitions. It looked like she was even taking him for granted. But later she realized, it was wrong and she was ready to leave. Arjun too accepted the child not because of her manipulation but because of his conversation with his mother and after the fire accident realizing the value of life. That's what my perception is.
I can never accept that having that child was morally right. It was conceived in a legitimate marriage and before her marriage with Arjun.
I too didn't like her putting her relationship with Arjun at stake for that monster's child but she is the mother, so ultimately it's her choice.
I know we have different perceptions. So let's agree to disagree brother. Cheers. Nice talking to you
Achcha haan late reply....thanks DiVa ji for tag....That's what I said if it's only woman's call and man are secondary in such stuffs then that's not marriage otherwise nurture alone and yes she manipulated him in car as from start she had taken him for granted.....
Arjun did all that because of goodness or emotional blackmail still a question for me.... I don't think so if she was a good wife who wasn't frustrated of aborting toh Arjun even sochta bhi as he fell in dilemma plus further dramas....even Megha's realisation because if Arjun wasn't a doormat toh she would have left him before not just for child.....she realised his value after a long time....Just because child was legitimate it doesn't change Megha has treated Arjun's feelings secondary to her past who is meaningless now.....what kind of morals is this???....
Whatever it has become subjective as Andy said
...if I was there in such position main apni ex ko bol deta to abort because it would be very hard for my wife to see my ex pregnant.....even if I wanted child from long that's my values sorry for expecting....#in a legitimate setting....
Ps. Can I call you by name instead of ji if allowed @DiVa....kuch aur bhi bolna tha bhul gaya....

