As long as there are good romance scenes, a couple is acceptable? - Page 3

Originally posted by: LiveLifeHonest

Your other friends implied it in their replies.

So only Abhimaan fans can criticize Abhimaan? Others who criticize them are haters?

And please point out where I made the judgement? Did I say Abhimaan fans are this or that? My question was are romantic scenes enough to get past the red flags in a lead couple since this is a popular strategy employed by YRKKH writers. Abhimaan are not the only red flag couple- Abhira and Kaira (after a certain point as well). Oddly enough, I did not even mention Abhimaan by name.

Please take it up with them then.

I never said that only ABhimaan fans can criticize them. The point was nobody here "blindly accepts a couple just because of romantic scenes" as you have mentioned in your previous posts.

No, we criticise them when they are wrong and can still admit that despite their many flaws we still like them as a pair

But You are clearly backtracking from your original statement. So....

I didn't want to compare but since you started it and I find it an interesting take. I find them both on the same level as life partners. A guy who can emotionally cheat you, even terminate your work/ cancel your license for his selfish purposes and get away with it with a simple sorry since the FL does not have self- respect is preferable?

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

About the Gen 3 couple, then that man never accepted he and his mother were wrong on the White day

Armaan accepts when he is wrong. SO, yeah I prefer Armaan over that man

Why am I solely being questioned for not respecting other opinions then? Shouldn't the converse behaviour also be called out? It's ironical that only one side is called out.

Was that not a reply to your friend who said "People who keep judging should limit themselves to limited episodes shows where stories" and "people who see it as fiction and just entertainment don't seem to have problem with it and enjoy it" which is how the blind statement came about? It was not even in the main topic.

Also, how am I backtracking from my original statement. This was my original post "

Don't take me in the wrong way, but asking out of genuine curiosity. Is a lead couple acceptable as long as there is good romance scenes? From my point of view, I don't enjoy watching the romance scene of a couple as soon as I notice red flags in the relationship. It all feels forced and superficial to me. How do you get past it".

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

Please take it up with them then.

I never said that only ABhimaan fans can criticize them. The point was nobody here "blindly accepts a couple just because of romantic scenes" as you have mentioned in your previous posts.

No, we criticise them when they are wrong and can still admit that despite their many flaws we still like them as a pair

But You are clearly backtracking from your original statement. So....

Originally posted by: LiveLifeHonest

I didn't want to compare but since you started it and I find it an interesting take. I find them both on the same level as life partners. A guy who can emotionally cheat you, even terminate your work/ cancel your license for his selfish purposes and get away with it with a simple sorry since the FL does not have self- respect is preferable?

Oh no. I didn't start. You started the comparison. But I see you have edited your post.

Backtracking again.

To answer your question, yes a man who can do the bare minimum thing of admitting his mistake is certainly better. IMHO

I would have still preferred a better redemption track for Armaan. But I also understand that it is also heavily dictated by trps. Hence, this jumping from one track to another without proper conclusion.

When Manyu saw AKshara happy with ABhinav-ABhir, he proposed to Akshara to leave her happy family and come back to him.

When Armaan saw RK s proposal and assumed ABhira has moved on. He backed off.

When did I start the comparison? Please show the exact post. I edited my posts for spelling/grammar mistakes and add additional stuff as I was typing fast. I didn't delete anything- I'm even willing for the mods to restore my original posts to prove it. All the imaginary things that I'm being blamed for .

Fine if that makes you feel better.

Lol so just accepting your mistakes absolves you from it? Saying you are wrong but repeating your mistakes again and again? The problem is he did not even get a redemption. He got away with saying sorry. And does one of Armaan's actions absolve him from everything he has done?

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

Oh no. I didn't start. You started the comparison. But I see you have edited your post.

Backtracking again.

To answer your question, yes a man who can do the bare minimum thing of admitting his mistake is certainly better. IMHO

I would have still preferred a better redemption track for Armaan. But I also understand that it is also heavily dictated by trps. Hence, this jumping from one track to another without proper conclusion.

When Manyu saw AKshara happy with ABhinav-ABhir, he proposed to Akshara to leave her happy family and come back to him.

When Armaan saw RK s proposal and assumed ABhira has moved on. He backed off.

I wanted to edit this post to change 'grammar' to 'grammatical' mistakes but then again I'll get accused of editing my posts .

Originally posted by: LiveLifeHonest

When did I start the comparison? Please show the exact post. I edited my posts for spelling/grammar mistakes and add additional stuff as I was typing fast. I didn't delete anything- I'm even willing for the mods to restore my original posts to prove it. All the imaginary things that I'm being blamed for .

Fine if that makes you feel better.

Lol so just accepting your mistakes absolves you from it? Saying you are wrong but repeating your mistakes again and again? The problem is he did not even get a redemption. He got away with saying sorry. And does one of Armaan's actions absolve him from everything he has done?

Originally posted by: LiveLifeHonest

When did I start the comparison? Please show the exact post. I edited my posts for spelling/grammar mistakes and add additional stuff as I was typing fast. I didn't delete anything- I'm even willing for the mods to restore my original posts to prove it. All the imaginary things that I'm being blamed for .

Fine if that makes you feel better.

Lol so just accepting your mistakes absolves you from it? Saying you are wrong but repeating your mistakes again and again? The problem is he did not even get a redemption. He got away with saying sorry. And does one of Armaan's actions absolve him from everything he has done?

I never said it absolves him of his mistakes. I already mentioned that I would have preferred a better redemption track. But given the sudden change of tracks due to falling trps, I will make peace with it because writing has improved in the past two episodes.

Originally posted by: LiveLifeHonest

I'm not sure if you're referring to me but I never compared both generation couples. Feel free to point out if I have. If you want me to compare, at least in the previous generation it was pointed out what a disastrous match they were and they were separated which was realistic. But in this generation, despite all the red flags, the lead couple is still together. The realistic ending would be the FL slapping the ML and moving on with life (I will turn team Abhira the day she regains her self- respect).

And on that note, what I find is ironical with those who ship Abhimaan is that they lauded Akshara and Abhinav together. But they can accept such low standards for Abhira.

Found it. I was talking about this post. I did not start the comparison. You did

You mean this post. I added on "and I get called out for the things that they're doing." I am all in for mods restoring my original post.

Originally posted by: LiveLifeHonest

Oh the irony in the post . All sorts of words are put in my mouth that I did not say and I get called out for the things that they're doing.

Well, I kinda liked Akshara-Naitik, didn't like Kartik-Naira, hated Abhimanyu-Akshu as a couple and well Delulu sa and Clownfish should stay together forever and never separate because why destroy anybody else's life.

Now, I hate this show, I hate almost all ITV saas-bahu shows but I still keep myself updated with the story because ITV shows fall under the category of stuff that is absolutely ridiculous but is a great time-pass and absurdly funny.

So, first, a simple question was asked - can you watch anything, if you get romance scenes of leads. - How did that turn into oh, you are a hater and you still watch it, oh you are moral policing, gaslighting etc. Etc.

How is that offensive in any way?

To answer that question, I cannot watch anything just because I got enough romance in it. Love O2O was full of romance but it was bland, a straight line on the graph, and it got boring and so I stopped watching it.

Now, coming to the concerns about why a hater like me still watches this show.

Well, I watch 2 kinds of stuff - one that is absolutely interesting, great plot, good storyline, doesn't care if it has romance or not. They are genuinely brilliant like Sarabhai vs Sarabhai, Bahu Hamari Rajni Kant, Badi Door Se Aaye Hain, Khichdi.

Second category is of batshit crazy, absolutely ridiculous stuff that is troll worthy, meme worthy and simply a great time pass like YRRKH, Kumkum & Kundali Bhagya, Anupama etc.

I like making fun of these shows, I enjoy laughing seeing the absurdity that they are. Aren't ITV shows watched for entertainment?

So by making me laugh, by making me want to troll it, it is entertaining me and fulfilling it's purpose. That is why I watch it.

I am hoping that answered both the questions raised in this thread.