Abhira is a pick me

This show has degraded af after the solid writing of Akshnav. The Singhanias and Maheshwaris were regressive af but they evolved and changed. Became supportive.

After that season, this show has successive bahu aur biwi ko pratadit karo karyakrama. I KNOW Abhira trauma-bonded with Armaan but crying over someone who was cursing het due to infertility issues, actively abused her, and hit her brother then left him to die. It was an accident that she could rectify entirely by taking him to a hospital. Abhira is such a pick-me right now and guilt-tripping her brother in defence of their abuser when she has a family as a safety net.

She has none of Abhinav or Akshara's good quality.

Her father use to address the woman who destroyed his, his wive and his kids life as "aachi buaji" and wanted to remain friends with a man shoved him multiple times

Her mother begged the same woman to accept her and her kid

Abhira started as somebody who had none of her parents doormat qualities

Now Abhira is her parents kid through and through

In itv terms this how they show that fl is "good person". I don't agree with it. But that's how it is.

Good quality writing ended with Singhania s exist.

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

Her father use to address the woman who destroyed his, his wive and his kids life as "aachi buaji" and wanted to remain friends with a man shoved him multiple times

Her mother begged the same woman to accept her and her kid

Abhira started as somebody who had none of her parents doormat qualities

Now Abhira is her parents kid through and through

In itv terms this how they show that fl is "good person". I don't agree with it. But that's how it is.

Good quality writing ended with Singhania s exist.

Yes, I agree Abhinav tried to let be bygones be bygones and whatever good qualities Akshara had post-Abhinav died with him. I wasn't contradicting that they were flawed (more Akshara than Abhinav but still). Abhira doesn't have any of their good qualities too tbh.

Originally posted by: Blueeeee

Yes, I agree Abhinav tried to let be bygones be bygones and whatever good qualities Akshara had post-Abhinav died with him. I wasn't contradicting that they were flawed (more Akshara than Abhinav but still). Abhira doesn't have any of their good qualities too tbh.

Actually Abhira has all of their qualities she is compassionate, helpful, zaroorat se zyada understanding, resilient, etc.

Currently Abhira also posses their doormat quality that fetus Abhira didn't have.

Unfortunately, Abhira has everything of Akshnav, especially Abhinav. The same over kindness, easily being able to forgive, never holding any grudge, thinking of others more than themselves, empathy.

But they atleast used to take stand for themselves, this girl has become a push over i really miss the Abhira Sharma before she fell in love

I feel Armaan ke saath saath even Abhira has become a doormat & a pushover - the compelling need to be good for everyone. It just is not possible. Abhira before marriage and even after it, had the guts to put her point across - now she’s just being melodramatic.

Originally posted by: Sneha.Narayanan

Unfortunately, Abhira has everything of Akshnav, especially Abhinav. The same over kindness, easily being able to forgive, never holding any grudge, thinking of others more than themselves, empathy.

Nah lol. Abhinav didn't go crazy over someone who was actively harming his family and abusing him. Despite all his achi buaji and bhai ji streak, he actively fought against them in court and stopped them from stepping on Akshara. Also his situation was diametrically different from Abhira. Abhir was a) quite sick and b) related to the Birlas.

In no world would Abhinav had cried over Manjari had she hit and abandoned Akshu/Neelamma/ Muskan to die. Even if it were Neelamma or Muskan hit Akshu or Abhir, they weren't vile enough to abandon her to die.

There is no equivalency between Abhinav being cordial with his wife's ex and co-parent and Abhira actively siding with a man who is defending her and Abhir's abuser.

This woman thought of Abhira as subhuman when she had fertility issues. Abhira is guilt-tripping and undercutting her paralysed brother for such a woman and her enabling son lmao.

Originally posted by: Sneha.Narayanan

Unfortunately, Abhira has everything of Akshnav, especially Abhinav. The same over kindness, easily being able to forgive, never holding any grudge, thinking of others more than themselves, empathy.

Originally posted by: Sneha.Narayanan

But they atleast used to take stand for themselves, this girl has become a push over i really miss the Abhira Sharma before she fell in love

Yes I agree to this. Abhinav and Akshara while together were never really pick-me lol.