Megha Barsenge Episode Discussion Thread. -2 DT Note Page8 and Page93 - Page 31

I agree..the way Arjun forces his feelings on Megha doesn't look like him...they have changed his graph completely post marriage...I understand there are pent up frustrations and all but still so much frustration on her isn't what I expect him to fold in...I seriously miss Virat here...he was good on emotions though he too had fluctuations but he wasnt forceful there....

I miss Virat...I know he is done and dusted but still ...

What happened after Virat did these all? Was he spared from being called toxic after all these?? He was anyway ruined and thrown under the bus. So it's better to show humane flaws as a part of his characters then ruining him afterwards due to ddp of FL

Originally posted by: Wynn

@heavenlybliss - For me; I dont think so...she wants this child - you could see the shock on her face when Tharnardenni said 'Abortion'. I think it will go to miscarriage later on but not as yet ...it will be interesting to see what plays out - who knows maybe production house has 3 scripts; keep; abort, miscarriage 🤔

It would be weird to have a leap and then focus story on Manojs kid

Originally posted by: heavenlybliss

It would be weird to have a leap and then focus story on Manojs kid

Is there any talk about a leap?

Originally posted by: AninditaB

What happened after Virat did these all? Was he spared from being called toxic after all these?? He was anyway ruined and thrown under the bus. So it's better to show humane flaws as a part of his characters then ruining him afterwards due to ddp of FL

I agree.. when I watched Virat, I felt helpless for him.. his baiko walked all over him and his tongue was tied. He couldn't express his feelings to his wife being older to her which is not at all normal. A husband generally is quite expressive and demanding when it comes to physical intimacy with his wife.. that doesn't mean he is forcing anything on her.. he generally takes an initiative in a marriage in intimacy matters. I felt Virat lacked that will or was too chicken to be with his wife.. many times I wished he took some bold initiative but he mostly couldn't.

I am enjoying Arjun's characterization because there are aspects of him which make him extremely endearing. His bold initiatives are the reason Megha is already in love with him so soon after a conditional marriage from her side. He knows she loves him too.. hence his boldness. He never forces anything on her. Megha always responds boldly too to his suggestive initiatives which shows she enjoys his flirting with her. It's only because of him and his flirting that megha is enjoying herself in the marriage. Now, of course pregnancy has put her in a predicament but she was about to confess twice to Arjun. His bold initiatives are what is keeping their otherwise boring marriage alive, imo.

I agree 💯. Arjun has and never will force himself on Megha. He was ready to accept her feelings and walk away from her but her father forced him into marriage. Even after that he kept his distance but after he realised Megha loves him too he started being bold. After she reciprocated his feelings he moved a step forward and it's natural for him to get frustrated. He's getting mixed signals from her. He's not able to decipher what's in her mind.

Also, Arjun has a playful, romantic, naughty and a childish quality which is refreshing and heartening

Originally posted by: Fats24

I agree 💯. Arjun has and never will force himself on Megha. He was ready to accept her feelings and walk away from her but her father forced him into marriage. Even after that he kept his distance but after he realised Megha loves him too he started being bold. After she reciprocated his feelings he moved a step forward and it's natural for him to get frustrated. He's getting mixed signals from her. He's not able to decipher what's in her mind.

Cleaning her lips was .....other examples are there too.....

Story isn't that logical so that I can say Arjun's reason for marriage was only dad, because he was already in love and was quite open with time......his frustration is understanble still forced one..... because if it wasn't topic of intimacy instead emotions, I would have understood ki you can't hurt someone who did so much and asking for just response- but here it's about being physical too which can't be appreciated.....

About Arjun vs Virat, he was flawed too but his high values was quite impressive even though I consider it's mostly a man who takes the first move (in intimacy) still it starts with consent......which Arjun lacks as he is too fast or even Megha is quite flustered.....so it doesn't seem good....

When you discuss or compare Sairat with Argha they are opposite yet similar....

Virat was never less romantic than him infact if seen more, his kiss attempts are as old as their first holi.....and expressing feeling from Ladakh trip, he did thousands things for Sai, whether it was celebrating his special moments as festivals to fulfilling all her Aaba's wishes, taking care of all her needs as Guardian to giving love and support in small big ways as husband along with her dreams and safety from JT type ppl, he was altogether different......pause in Sairat was never because of him he took around 5years ka one sided effort it was Sai who understood him after so long.....she started trusting him after Mahabaleshwar kaand in MiMo track, she started understanding her feelings after Shruti before all that she was allowing him to give but was always in deal marriage mode and was doubting him everytime.....which created actual problems.....

Whereas if we talk about Argha....here Megha is quite stupid even more than Sai.....still if seen her distancing can be understood what annoys is no clarity about what she wants.....Arjun is very different guy he was quite bold even when he wasn't in relation with her.....and likes to live life to its fullest.....whereas the condition Megha is part of he needs a guy like Virat who would have understood her misery at very first place and sach batau in that case instead of asking for kiss which Arjun got, Megha herself would have given a peck to Virat.....not demeaning what all Arjun did for her but still he lacks that maturity he likes her it's not love because it came out of connection he developed with her pain and conditions they are still in process......

I don't know how you ladies see this.....but for me a girl will not like a guy who is like Arjun, that he did so many favours on you and then now when he started liking you in the process he started demanding ROI too, where you still don't know is it actually love or just namesake relation and respect..... instead she would like to love a Virat who did favours but never demanded anything in return truly just love, infact you yourself realised his value and life and started doing things for him by your own will and respect not as forced one......

Arjun here mainly demands physical love which is clearly visible from his bold moves.....while Virat was never into it truly, he just wanted love even if it's just emotional attachment.....he was a guy if Sai never wanted to move on he would have still lived his life happily with her having platonic relation as husband wife, while here Arjun wants to go at next level......

Originally posted by: AninditaB

Megha shouldn't abort the baby for Arjun and their relationship. She would either blame him constantly or live in guilt. It's better if she leaves him and go to Amritsar .

Yes, this is also good option. Anyways, she doesn't deserves him, already keeps blaming him for everything. Let her live with baby peacefully till manoj returns to create havoc in her life and let arjun move on from this toxic marriage also.