Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 19 Nov 2024 Written Update and EDT - Page 10

I FFded Goenkas scene. apparently they give foreshadowing there that Abhir entry is to fix Abhira-Ruhi rishtaa and bithao taalmel between them. WTF.

Who wants to see them bond?! Ruhi should be called out rather than becharified constantly.

Originally posted by: Vanyaa

Today ruhi also made it clear with her dialogues that Rohit have actually left her alone to grieve her child's death and is happy for his bhaiya bhabhi and their kid.

And as you said they both have different realities, Rohit k liye baby isn't dead so woh kyu matam manaega woh khud balki khus h with his good dead.

Feels like she is left all alone, with entire family is enjoying Abheera motherhood toh faltu ka why take efforts ki baaki log judge na kare. Vidya is ready to get her out today because she isn't pregnant now. Better h Ruru khud hi chali jaaye so that she can grieve separately Otherwise insensitivebheera and kidnapper brothers iska peecha nhi chodenge.

Such a weird situation Ruhi crying for her baby who alive and Abhira celebrating with family without any feeling off loss of her baby .

Both nikkamma brothers are enjoying the " drama"...

Ruhi is currently not in her right state of mind and who would be when so much is going on in life.

Though not feeding baby is something that does feel wrong at first but it was not the only option they had and formula exists for a reason.

Loosing the baby after full term pregnancy took a toll on her. And she herself is very frustrated with everything currently.

I am no fan of her but as I am empathetic to her situation currently she deserves good care which her husband is lacking.

But in no way blaming Ab for her baby dieing after complicated pregnancy is right and nor tagging her as bad mother for not having intuitions for her baby's death.

I don't know about you all but all I can see is two mothers suffering now and Ru's might end after baby will be given to her giving her sufferings as wife and Ab's baby related sufferings might change but remain there along with sufferings from husband.

Already there are vile people like Vidya who is dhabba in the name of women who is not liked by anyone so atleast don't behave as her clone.

Originally posted by: Ambajee

I have more hopes on the Nurse and doctor and even a random compounder in the hospital, more than Rohit poddar.. woh tho ithna emotional ho raha that apne bhabhi keliye, it was so disgusting and disrespectful to Ruhi and their supposed dead baby

I still remember that disappointment and judgey look that Nurse gave to Rohit that day 🤣.

Doctor se I don't have hope, she is accomplice in thus crime now, why would she revel her part in it.

I am astonished at both his apathy towards her and audacity to judge her. Good ruru kicked him with left right center.

This man kidnapped her child and still giving lectures about insaaniyat.

Originally posted by: Aadi04

Oh it’s a typical yeh rishta topic

I remember I was in college and I used to watch ipkknd and topics on child rearing , and school bullying used to come for OG akshara

And I used to switch off and wait for Arnav Khushi ka romance ( rabba vey ) but now that’s long over and forgotten and I am actively discussing this lactating topic in Gen 4 .. Wah 😂😂😂

And I still like to watch rabba ve 🤣

Originally posted by: OliviaP

I never glorified Ab for continuing with her complicated pregnancy.. And if u can go through old EDT and BTS thread, many people who actually like Abhira also criticised it.. Bcz baby is def not a solution for lack of acceptance from ur inlaws - esp a very vile lady like Vidya.

Again I was talking about mutual feelings of sisters towards their babies.. Ab accepted Ru's baby and wished for its goodness even before too.. So even if she was in Ru's position ( which she is in real) she wouldn't have thought anything bad for Ru's baby.. Whereas Ruhi was acting already vile( cursing baby, uttering crap, destroying its sweater) and now yes u can say that t circumstances have escalated it..Thats why her dialogue today- You have always snatched everything from me.And I again stand by my statement- Calling a newborn saaman, refusing to feed baby by saying she wont share her baby's haq are also a result of her mind's hatred..

I said "People" not you, I don't know everyone here so can't comment on anyone personally, I saw people glorifying Abhira as a good mother because she went through a complicated pregnancy, was ready to die for the baby, leaving that to a world without mother

For me, a better option would have been to see Abhira saying that if her health doesn't allow, she won't give birth at all, these ITV female leads go through complicated pregnancies and these are not real then other women are judged for being "normal" human when expectations from women are of a super woman who'd do anything for her child, it is okay for a mother to fail.

Abhira also thinks that Ruhi is her sister, Ruhi doesn't share her feelings, both don't have the same relationship with each other, Abhira grew up with her mother who isolated her so Abhira is seeking family, even if that family is hateful towards her and now "her" baby. That itself is not normal, normal people don't put themselves in way of hatred

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Again, refusing to feed ones own baby and actively wishing someone else's baby not being born are 2 very different things.

And unless you yourself have not gone through it, you really cannot comment what is justified and what isn't in any case.

And yes. No one expects mahanta from her - Ruhi said no, Abhira moved on. But I stand by my statement - Ruhi wishing that baby had never been born is wrong, and no matter how much she is suffering, that statement is never justified.

@bold - Yeh aaj hua kya??

Mujhe scene explain karna.