GHKPM WRITTEN UPDATES & EPISODE DISCUSSION # 133 - Page 32

Originally posted by: zohakhan7

Calling Yhm a very problematic show while ganja is there is just plain hypocrisy..yhm may have shortcomings but then every show has but still it is not a cheap show like ganja is..

There's no denying the fact that Ghum produces remake, and cut-copy-pastes OG wholeheartedly scene by scene. Also, it's a headache inducing toxic show, which most of the ITV SHOWS are

Deny & ignore as much you can, but YHM still tops in being a Very PROBLEMATIC SHOW, just because it has normalised the marriage between a pervert stalker Romi & the victim Mihika, how insensitive, unethical & shameless makers can be. Normalized pairing up stalker- victim. How disgustingly horrible is this.

Nothing tops being more problematic than this....and any ITV show & series that shows such stuff are equally problematic. And if, Ghum decides to shamelessly copy this as well, then it will equal YHM in being a PROBLEMATIC REMAKE

Originally posted by: Bibliophiles

There's no denying the fact that Ghum produces remake, and cut-copy-pastes OG wholeheartedly scene by scene. Also, it's a headache inducing toxic show, which most of the ITV SHOWS are

Deny & ignore as much you can, but YHM still tops in being a Very PROBLEMATIC SHOW, just because it has normalised the marriage between a pervert stalker Romi to the victim Mihika, how insensitive, unethical & shameless makers can be. Normalized pairing up stalker- victim. How disgustingly horrible is this.

Nothing tops being more problematic than this....and any ITV show & series that shows such stuff are equally problematic. And if, Ghum decides to shamelessly copy this as well, then it will equal YHM in being a PROBLEMATIC REMAKE

Ghum is already far ahead of yhm in terms of negativity,toxicity and problematic things thanks to last 2 season where tharki virat did his bhabhi delivery on table,married same woman who attempted to kill his wife,did illegal surrogacy,fl married another guy while she romances her ex and savi got slapped in 2nd season for love confession 😭🤡 abusive in laws yet accepting them back in the end..So all these things aren't problematic I guess ?

Originally posted by: Randomlurker

Ishvi would’ve been way better without that teacher-student thing. That trope is just nasty asf personally. Rajat’s already over Aashka, but Savi isn’t because, unlike Og, she went through so much. Like, she watched the person she loved get killed in front of her, then saved a pregnant woman from a gunshot only to end up infertile herself. Plus, her whole family’s gone. Moving on isn’t exactly a breeze for her. Honestly, I think Rajat’s gonna fall first, but Savi won’t, and then he’ll find out about Ishan.

Jan Tak copy ka ultimate hai from channel to makers toh tab Tak toh ban hi jayega Savi because makers don't have brain. At least we didn’t have to watch Savi laughing like a clown after that awful molestation unlike *ahem cough* That would have been beyond dumb.

That's one of the reasons a lot of people couldn't connect.

I have only watched clips and irrespective of everything else, I simply never felt any spark between Shakti and Bhavika even though I loved both of them in their previous shows.

I have no hope from Ghum makers as I have an inkling of what they did in Ghum season 1. So obviously if they are given the chance, there's a 99.99% chance they'll ruin this season too.

However, it would be spared the constant criticism of YHM fans and also, I would want anything but the crappy portions of YHM to be repeated here because I have suffered enough back in those days. I don't want to watch another saga of unnecessary mahanta and stuff.

Originally posted by: Randomlurker

Lmao Itv got these kids acting like they’re 30. Like, 5 or 6 year old aren’t they supposed to be watching Dora the explorer or something? But nah, they’re out here giving full-on life advice, solving their parents' love lives, and lecturing them on ‘grown-up’ problems ,understanding every complicated thing abt life n adult emotions. And then there's these 10-year-olds out here bullying their dads like 'do what I want or else' like tf?! Itv kids are so OTT, especially in some of their special shows. If they’re so wise, might as well make them marriage counselors too lmao, like wtf is this.💀🙄

Tell me about it.

I get hooked on shows that feature parent-kid bond and pretty much every time get my heart broken.

To this day, BHOOTU has been the only kid-centric show that I've been able to watch without banging my head on the wall, and still cherish its lovely moments.

Too bad the makers ruined that too with their crappy 2nd season.

Originally posted by: Bibliophiles

No doubt, YHM PH created many interesting characters, but they couldn't sketch them wisely. Balaji is well-known for that, problem was in their development of those characters.
Sorry to say, but YHM makers didn't craft their side characters carefully, they miserably failed in writing/ etching a good characterization for many of their side characters(exception are always there) They've destroyed the show, so badly, that they ultimately made YHM a very very problematic show

As we already know, they went downhill with not just ML& FL's characterization, but supporting ones as well, there were major flaws in Raman & Ishita, which we dread they would replicate. After giving a good redemption arc for Raman, they again destroyed it & back to square one, and, regarding Ishita, she was needlessly made unrealistically mahaan & annoying Jagatmaata, who can't mind her own & poke into everybody's business...She was too good to be true, she was too much of a people-pleaser...It's too sugary for taste. ITV Makers fail to write a balanced characterized. Thankfully, I have never watched an ITV show completely episode by episode, but only through fast-forwarding, in bits & clips otherwise it would've hampered my sanity for me...

And, the biggest SHAM of all, was pervert Romi's characterization, YHM makers had to be insane & a total lost case.....in YHM, they really got that harasser, stalker & pervert ROMI married to the victim Mihika....seriously, were the YHM makers really high on something, headless chickens. No justification, no reasoning & no debate can ever justify & undo this step. No amount of giving an arc, whitewashing, bechaarafication of pervert Romi can ever justify their decision of them getting the victim Mihika married to him. I mean there are billions of boys in the world, and they chose to get Mihika married to the man who made her MMS......It was beyond disgusting, shameless of them. ROMI- MIHIKA pairing was the biggest PROBLEMATIC thing about YHM, Shame on the makers, so much for women's dignity, empowerment & women safety. It was just a PSEUDO-FEMINIST show

And, how come that morally superior, modern & so-called feminist like Ishita let that happen, where had her values gone to, how come those best & whitest leads ISHRA supposedly having superior moral values, let this problematic couple get hitched.....Chiiii... And, people boast about such ITV LEAD COUPLE, they didn't have any extraordinary trait

how come that victim Mihika herself agreed to marry her perpetrator, have some shame,Mihika,it was derogatory Mihika....it must be painful & triggering for victims of abuse to watch that

In the garb of being a modern feminist show, YHM was a regressive, pseudo-feminist, garbage show.. YHM normalized problematic stuff & given leeway & WWed Romi

No matter how sensational the chemistry of leads were, stellar the cast was, brilliant the comic timing & execution was, everything doomed, with the Normalization of this PROBLEMATIC CRAP, alone. They couldn't undo that for me. No chemistry in this world is above women's dignity & safety & nothing can justify makers promoting problematic, wrong & immoral stuff through Fiction.

That's why I can never develop liking for such an inappropriate show, I couldn't ever take up YHM, this one scene was enough for me to abandon the show midway, at the fist sight. Couldn't go further.Never get myself to watch this.

If GHUM deviates from copying such problematic stuff of YHM(which it should, becz it's wrong) like other tracks & refrain pairing Lucky-Mrinu, then it's well & good. Otherwise, I'll easily call it quits & move on, becz I am not a staunch fan & EMOTIONALLY ATTACHED TO ANY SHOW , I have no heart & no immunity to deal with such level of crap....If I see Ghun going in the OG's direction, it would be TIME OUT FOR NE

ITV can be spared to show illogicalities, but it shouldn't ever be spared to show CRIMINALITIES. Criminalities shouldn't be normalized in ITV

You have literally said what was in my mind, so I guess there's nothing I can add now.

Wow! Never imagined a normal statement would be blown to this proportion.

But then again, it's good.

Kaleshi Show Ke Forum Pe Kalesh Nahi Hogi To Aur Kahan Hogi?

Coming to the ongoing fan war that has been happening, being an old YHM fan, I understand the frustration of OG fans. I have felt the same every time one of my favorite shows got remade into a worse show and the list is quite long.

However, there are facts and no one can deny that. Being a fan doesn't mean we'll blindly support everything wrong. But then again that's too much to ask for.

There's no denying KP and DT were fantastic. But their acting prowess doesn't nullify YHM's shortcomings. If some fans feel Hitesh and Bhavika aren't up to the mark, they are completely justified in their stance as well because it all boils down to an individual's taste.

However, calling out characters' toxicity as per your convenience is also hypocrisy.

People here are talking about Raman's sacrifice of his presidentship which happened much later in the show and also because Suraj wanted to get even with him using Ishita.

How can that be compared to Rajat's outburst during the auction when Raman himself was pissed off at Ishita?

No one is calling him a saint. He has a long way to go. But in general, he is not as aggressive as Raman and if someone wants to be delusional they can't be helped.

People have issues when they copy scene by scene but these same people can't see how the negativity has been toned down or how the situations are presented in a slightly different manner.

It's an open forum and everyone is entitled to their opinion.

However, people should at least try to be rational and not selectively blind towards what's wrong and what's right.

Originally posted by: Randomlurker

Lmao Itv got these kids acting like they’re 30. Like, 5 or 6 year old aren’t they supposed to be watching Dora the explorer or something? But nah, they’re out here giving full-on life advice, solving their parents' love lives, and lecturing them on ‘grown-up’ problems ,understanding every complicated thing abt life n adult emotions. And then there's these 10-year-olds out here bullying their dads like 'do what I want or else' like tf?! Itv kids are so OTT, especially in some of their special shows. If they’re so wise, might as well make them marriage counselors too lmao, like wtf is this.💀🙄

So true

ITV 's children act like wizards...

They will give relationship advice ...seriously usually when children appear I disconnect because with children comes the lead pair's down fall ..........

If you're enjoying ghum so much, then enjoy it without comparing with yhm na..Yes I've brought up the license track to give an example, and yes the "sacrificing presidentship" happened much later in YHM..But that doesn't nullify the point that I'm trying to make.

You cannot compare the auction track in YHM and Ghum. In YHM, the auction track happened earlier when Raman and Ishita weren't on good terms. Raman was pissed then, but he didn't say anything hurtful to Ishita.Here the auction track happened after molestation track,Rajat here knows that she lost the job because of a false police complaint and yet he is mocking her for it. How is that okay? It's not my problem if people are selectively blind when it comes to something they like.

Also, if you feel Rajat is less toxic than Raman, then great..!!!But I don't feel that way. Actions speak louder than words, both in auction track and Param's track..Rajat was worse than Raman. And that is my opinion. Calling others " delusional" for having a different opinion is not cool..And please don't quote me further on this. I'm really not interested

Wow!

So YHM fans can give examples, that's no way comparison but if we state facts, then we're bringing YHM into discussion.

Chalo sahi hain. Raman being pissed off is okay because they weren't on good terms. But Rajat being angry is not since they inserted the Molestation track here before.

Perfect reasoning!

I'll discuss the episodes and I'll definitely express my opinion here as long as this season interests me. If people have so much time to scrutinize our words and prove what Dharti Pe Kripa YHM was, they are free to do so.

Today's episode was a little meh. I liked their dance, but their outfits clashed. I didn't like either of their dresses. The families were in lovely shades of blue and yellow, even Ashka was looking pretty, but Savi-Rajat were a little pale.

Also not fond of the way Rajat answered Ashka. He didn't need to humiliate her by making her fall. He could have used his words, that would have been enough.

Savi's little smile when Rajat complimented her dance She looked really happy.