Originally posted by: Solitudelover
I am trying to figure out audience yardstick also.. During the marriage track Ar was blamed of not doing enough when Ab was facing financial issues related to accommodation or food ( he himself was not aware of it is different matter altogether).. Now even if giving a refence is considered an insult to self respect, any help he could have done at that stage also would have been insulting self respect..
Its about consistency and thoughtfulness.
The fact that he was SO bitter and angry that he forgot insaaniyat and didn't go check from a distance ki accomodation thik hai ya job milgaya - that speaks about how extreme and pendulum his behavior is.
He saw her on the road with homeless people that day and worried she was in dire circumstances but didn't even follow up on it.
So why does he need to jump to help now when its not that urgent. Job and case milne mein dhakka khaana is normal. Let him watch from a distance , offer support and step in only when needed.
This whole - pyaar mein hai toh ab mein uspar sab kuch lutaaonga but gussa hun usi insaan seh toh insaaniyat bhi nahi dikhaoonga is not acceptable. Makes him look bad.
Dont think audience would call it an insult to self respect if he had cared to help then when she was in dire situation. As long as its done in a way that she where shes not made to feel small or insulted.
Theres a way to offer help also without it feeling like an ehsaan. Armaan often falters there.
Edited by Pinecone - 1 years ago
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