The New Ruhi - My Opinion - Page 5

Originally posted by: The_Best

I agree with you, but problem is humans are emotional and most are blind and biased when it comes to who they like. That’s how most humans are. Take for example the leads. So many leads have been shown marrying others yet pinning for each other, but they aren’t called characterless, lustful and all because a section of viewers love them. For example even in the recent lost S1 the ML was openly going after FL despite being married and worse was when he would make his wife look the crazy one for being suspicious of his behavior. He wasn’t called out or bashed because many viewers shipped him with the fl. MLs have been shown even worse from cheaters to rapists and criminals in the past, but they were still hailed as heroes. But Ruhi is bashed for the most minor scenes because many online viewers don’t find her character interesting enough

So basically it’s about liking. If some viewers like a character, they will defend anything and make excuses even for crimes and ignore rape. Rape because past MLs have done it and there were excuses even for that. But if a character isn’t liked by a section of audience, they will call the character with all names for even small things even if it doesn’t make sense and the character is largely harmless. Like even here Armaan is liked more than Ruhi, so he’s rarely ever called out for ruining his brother’s life for going ahead with his brother marrying a woman whom he knew never loved his bro and promising to love Ruhi all his life too yet Ruhi is always bashed for ruining Rohit’s life when it’s actually Armaan who’s the bigger culprit. So like I said humans are emotional and biased to the point of blind when it comes to their own. Most don’t make sense is what I have learned. As frustrating it is, I suggest to just ignore and block the problematic ones if it gets too much for your own peace.

Meher correct me if I am wrong.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

Why lost S1. I heard Karthik doubted on Fl's character. He married Vedika. As per the story, Karthik was doing EMA with Naira when he was legally married to Vedika. Irrespective of whether Vedika is a villain or a witch it does not matter. He married her took vows and he had an option not to marry her I guess as I saw some clips where he gets to know Naira is alive before the marriage. He married her and then he was unable to control his feelings. Karthik married almost 3 ladies in Gen 2 but still, Kaira has a fan following not because he is a character with morals but because ppl never judge him using real case scenarios and bashed him. People treated it as a show and ignored logic. But sadly that did not happen for some characters like Ruhi as these characters are heavily scrutinized even for a small mistake.

Meher correct me if I am wrong.

Originally posted by: The_Best

Yes I saw Seera( if that’s her name of the S2 arohi’s mother) being bashed so much saying she trapped poor Kartik when I have read how he was attracted to Seera and wanted her too. I have seen so many MLs openly going after a married FL or going after FL like the most famous couple Sujal going after Kashish despite Kashish being married, but fans never bashed Sujal for it. In fact, Sujal was loved for that portrayal. I also see a bias as MLs are never bashed and routinely shown that way, but Ruhi like characters get bashed fast because they are not many viewers’ fav and also because it’s a woman doing it than a man.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

Why lost S1. I heard Karthik doubted on Fl's character. He married Vedika. As per the story, Karthik was doing EMA with Naira when he was legally married to Vedika. Irrespective of whether Vedika is a villain or a witch it does not matter. He married her took vows and he had an option not to marry her I guess as I saw some clips where he gets to know Naira is alive before the marriage. He married her and then he was unable to control his feelings. Karthik married almost 3 ladies in Gen 2 but still, Kaira has a fan following not because he is a character with morals but because ppl never judge him using real case scenarios and bashed him. People treated it as a show and ignored logic. But sadly that did not happen for some characters like Ruhi as these characters are heavily scrutinized even for a small mistake.

Meher correct me if I am wrong.

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

when its about favourite blame on writers when its about hated ones it's the character. All are written by the same writers. Abhira had a simple life without any blames or baggages on head taken for granted or in gratitude like her mother had in her time. Her mom kept the child free of those blames gave a happy free spirited life which gave her confidence and strength. Being a single mom she gave that security to the kid. What her mom can't take stand against truth she taught the kid. In a way she rectified her mistakes in life giving that teachings to her kid. But only thing she did was she didn't tell about her past life to her kid might be it's not wanted for her or thought not to get back to old relations. Today Manish dialogues shayad kuch thread is left over so if we do this puja it will be good. Ak always wanted manish to excuse and accept her back which was shown in bits in mandir shadi as her dream, her convo with ruhis poppy when abhir got good marks in school. Her version was when they didn't call me why should i talk. When on death bed manish refused to accept her saying you are already dead for us she lost her last chance. Ruhi as child has that feeling of fatherless child a single mom and the kid was taunted badly in function for not having a father. Though her poppy gave her that unconditional love a parent is always a parent either father ir mother . She had to share her poppy with her cousin brother accepting the reality with maturity. She was shown as jealous girl first but slowly with poppys words she understood the value of brother in her life.This girl had Baggage of deaths and abandonment issues with her loved ones. Abhira too has no father but single parent love was there for her though she misses that father love which she feels in madhav. Whereas ruhi lost her own parents and parent figures her poppy her masi which she acknowledged on holi. 90 ,80 yr old great grand parents gave love shelter and security ti kid but will they be equal to parents any day who give confidence, trust and unconditional love correct the kids when they do mistakes . Ruhi has her past journey along with losing loved ones in her life next. Rohit without giving a chance left her easily listening to corner talks and his brothers sacrifice. No brother can atay that way infront easily in the name of ar gratitude on poddars. Ruhi wanted to be near arman its told always and arman knows it. He never pointed her love on him or disrespected her. Definition of love is as per writers any day in story not according to us and our thinking. If they put Ruhi in that place means they want to show her that way only either positive or negative or grey. A fl has many ups and downs in her journey with her mistakes, mus,egos , attitude or misjudge people in her impulsiveness. She is accepted as flawed fl easily. Wheres other characters are highlighted badly as they don't like it. Acceptance of characters is needed to understand them properly.

I don’t understand how can people only blame Ruhi in Rohit fiasco… either they are plain haters and want to prove Abhira is great and get some guilty pleasure trolling Ruhi or haven’t watched the episodes properly…. How can people keep a blind eye for all that Ar did… he asked her to marry Rohit and promised to keep loving her and said he won’t give her place to anyone else… it was Ar who revealed about the deal marriage and 1 year zimmedari rishta…

Characterless and lusty and very strong words to use for a character like Ruhi which people in their hate are not realising. Even while praying to god, Ruhi said that she has already lost everything and now just wants to see Ar and have him in front of her eyes. Not for once have they shown Ruhi wanting to have s*x or any other physical relation with Ar. These people conveniently changed the narrative of beech ka rasta to ema to troll Ruhi when it clearly meant to reveal their relationship truth in front of the family… the amount of sadistic pleasure people get from trolling Ruhi is appalling… also trolling Ruhi won’t do Abhira any good… her mistakes will still be the same..

During the first misunderstanding scene, Madhav was shot and Ar couldn’t pick Ruhi’s call. Abhira picked the call and talked rudely…. Now tell me who does that? Firstly you don’t pick someone’s call and if you have to there is way of speaking…. Abhira could have simply said Ar is in a problem and will call you when things get sorted…. There would have been no misunderstanding… even if ruhaan were dating for a while, trust would have faltered in situations like these… Abhira could have handled the situation way more maturely… but unfortunately Abhira and maturity don’t go hand in hand and people still hail her immaturity as if it’s the cutest thing in the world….

Let me ask a logical question… Abhira knows that she is in a deal marriage and Ar hasn’t moved on from his ex.. she has herself seen him hugging his ex in a secluded place but still sleeps with him on the same bed and is dreaming about him romantically… can we go on to call her dumb for not focusing on her career or characterless, and lusty for a rich man… no right… rules conveniently change according to characters….
Akshara did the dumbest thing by not revealing about abhir just because abhi didn’t pick the call. Funny thing is she was studying law still didn’t realise the Criminal offence she had committed and all her life she payed the price and got her karma…

Now it’s Abhira’s turn… when she will realise she came between Ruhi and Ar she will get the biggest heartbreak of her life….

I don’t care who moves on with whom in the future as at present no character is saint… everyone has done some mistakes…
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Originally posted by: Firefly_shines

perfectly analysed and beautifully explained!!!👍👍… Abhira didn’t have any trauma growing up as she had her mother… situation was different for Ruhi being brought by 3 oldies….

I don’t understand how can people only blame Ruhi in Rohit fiasco… either they are plain haters and want to prove Abhira is great and get some guilty pleasure trolling Ruhi or haven’t watched the episodes properly…. How can people keep a blind eye for all that Ar did… he asked her to marry Rohit and promised to keep loving her and said he won’t give her place to anyone else… it was Ar who revealed about the deal marriage and 1 year zimmedari rishta…

Characterless and lusty and very strong words to use for a character like Ruhi which people in their hate are not realising. Even while praying to god, Ruhi said that she has already lost everything and now just wants to see Ar and have him in front of her eyes. Not for once have they shown Ruhi wanting to have s*x or any other physical relation with Ar. These people conveniently changed the narrative of beech ka rasta to ema to troll Ruhi when it clearly meant to reveal their relationship truth in front of the family… the amount of sadistic pleasure people get from trolling Ruhi is appalling… also trolling Ruhi won’t do Abhira any good… her mistakes will still be the same..

During the first misunderstanding scene, Madhav was shot and Ar couldn’t pick Ruhi’s call. Abhira picked the call and talked rudely…. Now tell me who does that? Firstly you don’t pick someone’s call and if you have to there is way of speaking…. Abhira could have simply said Ar is in a problem and will call you when things get sorted…. There would have been no misunderstanding… even if ruhaan were dating for a while, trust would have faltered in situations like these… Abhira could have handled the situation way more maturely… but unfortunately Abhira and maturity don’t go hand in hand and people still hail her immaturity as if it’s the cutest thing in the world….

Let me ask a logical question… Abhira knows that she is in a deal marriage and Ar hasn’t moved on from his ex.. she has herself seen him hugging his ex in a secluded place but still sleeps with him on the same bed and is dreaming about him romantically… can we go on to call her dumb for not focusing on her career or characterless, and lusty for a rich man… no right… rules conveniently change according to characters….
Akshara did the dumbest thing by not revealing about abhir just because abhi didn’t pick the call. Funny thing is she was studying law still didn’t realise the Criminal offence she had committed and all her life she payed the price and got her karma…

Now it’s Abhira’s turn… when she will realise she came between Ruhi and Ar she will get the biggest heartbreak of her life….

I don’t care who moves on with whom in the future as at present no character is saint… everyone has done some mistakes… it’s just people who keep a blind eye for their favourites and openly bash the others….

Originally posted by: Firefly_shines

perfectly analysed and beautifully explained!!!👍👍… Abhira didn’t have any trauma growing up as she had her mother… situation was different for Ruhi being brought by 3 oldies….

I don’t understand how can people only blame Ruhi in Rohit fiasco… either they are plain haters and want to prove Abhira is great and get some guilty pleasure trolling Ruhi or haven’t watched the episodes properly…. How can people keep a blind eye for all that Ar did… he asked her to marry Rohit and promised to keep loving her and said he won’t give her place to anyone else… it was Ar who revealed about the deal marriage and 1 year zimmedari rishta…

Characterless and lusty and very strong words to use for a character like Ruhi which people in their hate are not realising. Even while praying to god, Ruhi said that she has already lost everything and now just wants to see Ar and have him in front of her eyes. Not for once have they shown Ruhi wanting to have s*x or any other physical relation with Ar. These people conveniently changed the narrative of beech ka rasta to ema to troll Ruhi when it clearly meant to reveal their relationship truth in front of the family… the amount of sadistic pleasure people get from trolling Ruhi is appalling… also trolling Ruhi won’t do Abhira any good… her mistakes will still be the same..

During the first misunderstanding scene, Madhav was shot and Ar couldn’t pick Ruhi’s call. Abhira picked the call and talked rudely…. Now tell me who does that? Firstly you don’t pick someone’s call and if you have to there is way of speaking…. Abhira could have simply said Ar is in a problem and will call you when things get sorted…. There would have been no misunderstanding… even if ruhaan were dating for a while, trust would have faltered in situations like these… Abhira could have handled the situation way more maturely… but unfortunately Abhira and maturity don’t go hand in hand and people still hail her immaturity as if it’s the cutest thing in the world….

Let me ask a logical question… Abhira knows that she is in a deal marriage and Ar hasn’t moved on from his ex.. she has herself seen him hugging his ex in a secluded place but still sleeps with him on the same bed and is dreaming about him romantically… can we go on to call her dumb for not focusing on her career or characterless, and lusty for a rich man… no right… rules conveniently change according to characters….
Akshara did the dumbest thing by not revealing about abhir just because abhi didn’t pick the call. Funny thing is she was studying law still didn’t realise the Criminal offence she had committed and all her life she payed the price and got her karma…

Now it’s Abhira’s turn… when she will realise she came between Ruhi and Ar she will get the biggest heartbreak of her life….

I don’t care who moves on with whom in the future as at present no character is saint… everyone has done some mistakes… it’s just people who keep a blind eye for their favourites and openly bash the others….

Originally posted by: The_Best

@Bold- This!! If Abhira wasn’t the fl and tomorrow in the future Abhimaan separate after their love track, then Armaan get some girl as his wife for protection all and that girl knew knew Armaan loved someone(Abhira) yet still sleeping with Armaan and dreaming about him, she would be bashed so much just for merely sharing the bad and then would be called with all words like lustful, characterless and all for giving romantic looks or dreaming about Armaan. But the same words aren’t being used for Abhira.

Abhira has tried to leave several times to distance herself but she's given mixed signals by Armaan which reels her back in.

She is definitely dumb if she puts Armaan over her career especially if he doesn't come clean about past and confess his feelings for her

She should distance herself but its difficult to do so when she's sharing space with him and is attached to his family too. No one except Armaan and Ruhi know about deal. Deal doesn't make shadi fake though. Shaadi is still real. And in a real shaadi its impossible to not consider a happy life with the man you are with.

Its 2 very different things to

1. Get married without love and start liking the partner

Vs

2. Get married without love but pine over someone else who is married - no matter what the terms of that shaadi are.

When Abhira asked about Armaan's ex he told her it's over and he won't go back to the ex. Even when she said agar pyaar saccha hai etc, he said its not possible. So thats all Abhira knows. So obviously if she sees hin soft on her, she will think they can be together for good.

Ruhi should have distanced herself or left for good.

Infact she should straight up inform Abhira of her past with Armaan. Abhira will automatically leave.

Ruhi is trusting a man who is in front of her eyes not living up to his promises. He won't marry her even if Abhira goes unless Dadi forces him to. So thats the type of man she's dealing with.

Abhira hasn't finished her education and has no family so she's sticking around. But why is Ruhi sticking around. She should let Armaan come to her if he was ever serious about her.

Honestly I dislike Armaans two timing more than Ruhis behavior. At least she's clear what she wants. But she's projecting her frustration on Abhira who doesn't know anything!

Theres absolutely no comparison between Rubi vs Abhira

Ruhi knowingly married her lovers brother to stay near him. What crap is that?! She's beginning a new relationship on such horrible terms. She didn't disclose anything about having a past to Rohit either. Even if she didn't tell him it was Armaan, he should have been informed that she had a past atleast.

Abhira married Armaan because it was her moms dying wish. She knew about him having a past but Armaan has several times told her its over with his ex. He never brings up his ex in front of Abhira, rather makes it seem like he wants nothing to do with the past. Abhira therefore will only see it as a past relationship and if now he's giving his time, effort, commitment to her- she will start to have dreams of this materializing into something.

Abhira has no idea about his past or Ruhis. But she's only seeing it as a situation where her husband had a past but its over.. plain and simple. And if Armaan rejects her- she will leave ( unlike whatRuhi is doing). Thats how she's written.

She's a young girl who lost everything in one day. Married a guy with no idea what to expect and impulsively said- ok lets make it a deal because this was sprung on us suddenly and I don't want to be a bojh. Armaan said-ok but lets not talk of this shaadi as deal in front of family and discuss what to do later once you are actually independent. So shaadi isnt fake.

Abhira is getting attached to her lawfully wedded husband. Everytime their MUs increase, she concretely distances herself or tries to leave. But Armaan brings her back , manaos her, makes her move back into room and gives her signals when he says things like "meri patni hai" etc etc. she even asked him why she took him to his special place where he only takes family but he said she's important to him. So Abhira has tried to keep things in check but Armaan has given her signals that they can be real spouses. Thats why now she has natural progression to feeling upset at Ruhi Armaan proximity. She does not know their past