Dhokha (ARY) - Affan Waheed, Sanam Jung, Komal, Agha - Page 12

Why komal is not leaving Ahmed , what is she waiting for. And her mother is so delusional and selfish

Originally posted by: NINALOGY

That's possible

But I want Hadi and Komal as end game.

I too like Hadi and Komal better but pak shows rarely show breakdown of marriages and I don't see them getting back together, there is too much bitterness between them and now they are setting up the stage for Hadi and Kaynat as they are getting more screen time.

Originally posted by: NINALOGY

Why komal is not leaving Ahmed , what is she waiting for. And her mother is so delusional and selfish

I think a lot of it has to do with pride. right at the beginning, when kainat came and told them they were married, that was the perfect time to call it off. instead, she listened to her mother and sister. her father and brother-in-law were against it but she didn't take their help. there was a scene where hadi is cautioning her that it is still early and she can walk away. she then says that she will have the tag of a divorcee and she does not want that.

she also said that even if ahmed is bad, he was choosing her unlike hadi who didn't choose her and instead chose family. so those are the two things that are keeping her in this marriage even though she is very unhappy.

if she had left the marriage right from the start, her pride would have taken a hit and she would have to admit that she made a huge mistake.

essentially that is what is keeping hadi and komal apart -- it is her pride and inability to admit that she too is motivated by money just like her mother and sister. the irony is that in this case, they got completely fooled by ahmed and so got cheated of that dream of being a rich pampered housewife. if komal has to divorce ahmed, then she has to stand on her two feet but she is in some ways unprepared. her mother didn't even encourage her to study because she saw it as a waste. so komal does not have type of skills or mental strength to stand on her own.

Originally posted by: moosewithagoose

I too like Hadi and Komal better but pak shows rarely show breakdown of marriages and I don't see them getting back together, there is too much bitterness between them and now they are setting up the stage for Hadi and Kaynat as they are getting more screen time.

I have seen a few daily soaps where the characters got divorced to my surprise.

I don't see hadi and komal back together because I think the show is sending a strong message that you can't build a home by destroying someone else. even hadi said that komal can be angry with him but she does not have the right to destroy someone else unrelated because she is frustrated. so that seems to be underlying theme -- your anger does not give you the right to destroy unrelated people and if you do, you will pay for it.

essentially komal and her family have to pay for ignoring kainat's plight and going ahead with the wedding. so I don't see komal getting together with hadi unless she really suffers like crazy.

I think that is another reason that hadi will end up getting married to kainat -- to basically pay for the sins of his uncle (who he sees as a father figure) and komal. he already feels responsible for kainat and her family's welfare because of what happened. so the way hadi talks, he seems very cognizant of trying to balance out the wrong that has happened in this situation. he is going ahead and playing with fire because it is a matter of conscience.

the stage is also being slowly set for misunderstandings where people are going to think something is going on between hadi and kainat. in the preview, her brother was freaking out after seeing hadi stop by the house to get some files. komal's spidey senses are tingling and she seems to think hadi has someone else in his heart now. hadi will protect kainat and baby and that is going to hurt komal a lot as she will wonder why he didn't fight the same way for her.

I think more than pride why komal isn't leaving Ahmed is because Hadi didn't take a stand for her when she literally left everything just to be with him. As a girl from our region it is very hard to take such a huge step, albeit komal is an emotional and impulsive girl while Hadi is a very morally upright person who cannot think of betraying his uncle by marrying Komal by eloping. And just because of his nature he is now hell bent on helping Kainat which I guess will bring them together somehow through misunderstandings. Komal already feels there is someone in his life and when she finds out he is helping Kainat it would be even more impossible for her to go back to Hadi.

I liked how hadi just cut the call when kami tried to apologize.

komal's mom and sister are really annoying. neither one of them want to admit that the reason komal is so freaking unhappy is that she is married to ahmed and it was their choice to get her married. so they should be blaming themselves. instead, it is hadi's fault? why? because he helped out kainat and so reminded them that ahmed is a liar and cheat?

while kami is way over the top, I liked how he countered that kainat too is someone's daughter. uncle has heart pains because he can't face the truth. this mess is created by his wife and daughter. why not confront them? no, they have to yell at hadi and his family instead.

in this drama, I really love ursula and how she gives it back to this family in such a calm manner without even raising her voice.

I also Ursula how she doesn't take any crap and it is so illogical to see everyone bursting out at Hadi instead of Ahmed who is the real cheater. Like seriously.

Originally posted by: moosewithagoose

I also Ursula how she doesn't take any crap and it is so illogical to see everyone bursting out at Hadi instead of Ahmed who is the real cheater. Like seriously.

the aunty has gotten into the habit of blaming hadi's family for everything and imagining they are always plotting something. you would think the sister would have more sense given she is closer to komal's age. komal is still in love with hadi and is heartbroken at the realization that hadi can also move on. but nobody wants to address that bitter reality - that komal may be married but she is still in love with hadi. so both mom and sister are deflecting. otherwise, they have to really reflect on themselves if they have to accept that ahmed is the real cheater. it is really annoying to watch.

but I love how everyone in hadi's family including his mom push back when possible and don't even resort to tears to do it. they know their rights and have their dignity.

Komal behen dimaagh kahan chod ayi hoo. Everytime her father takes right decision for her and she comes up to destroy her life even more.

And why cant komal hadi talk normally and clear all the differences