Harshad Chopda -farewell [All discussion here] DT Note Pg#53,87 - Page 60

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: KaunIMEMYSELF


So true!!! Abhi deserved better! His admirers deserved better! HC deserved better! His fans deserved so much better!

It hurts when people call Abhi names and describe his traits evilly, when he is the only character who has stron sense of individuality, whose journey in the story had an arc, a growth, who had changed for better, holding on to his dignity and strengths, who was still recognizable(for the most part) and whose core positive traits had been preserved...


People have made his redemption a bottomless pit, kuch bhi karo, kitna bhi karo, kabhi dil bharta hi nahin ... log satiate hi nahin hote.. ab bhi log nahin maante, not even when he has left his maa, ghar chod diya, Ruh ko chod dega, hospital and career ka khayal nahin karta, when all he has become is her yes-man with his zombie-like existence.... still people hesitantly hand out drops of redemption like alms..... but mere liye tho, his so called redemption happened many many many months ago... when he apologized for Sirat maa's comment! HE WAS WRONG, that was a hit below the belt and he apologized for it... and he did it at the first chance he got! Like it had been eating him all those years, that he had said something that MEAN to Akshu, knowing that she had opened her heart and confided in him, her childhood pain... it had been the most sensitive and fragile part of her heart and he knew that his rude comment would hit her there and hurt her the most... and he still said that, in uncontrollable anger, just to hurt her...So he with all sincerity, apologized to her!

And for everything else that had ever happened in his whole life, he cannot be blamed alone... and IMO he shouldn't take the blame alone!! Every single time there was chaos and mess, there were others too who were involved...... either they started it(AK), they added fire to it(Goenkas), they escalated it(Birlas), so they were others too who were guilty... probably more than Abhi.....who were never dehumanized like Abhi was, who never got targeted by the audience, who never regretted, who never had to feel or say sorry, ... they conveniently let themselves slide and slyly the audience let them slide too...


Abhi was always targeted for his traits...I know ab in sab baaton se koi matlab nahin, koi faida nahin hai, kuch nahin badlega, but Abhi remains the most misunderstood character I know... like you said, he needs to be celebrated, not berated!


We are all different and will have different opinions, but this is what I feel about Dr. Abhimanyu Birla! Aur, HC ke alawa koi nahin hai jo itne complex character ko aise play kar saktha hai! Period.

I believe beyond a point, the audience did not let it slide. In fact the backlash is also the reason we are here. 🤪😜🤪😜. I personally was waiting for this accident just because I couldn't see that constant onslaught on his character.😒😒

For Abhi, it all came down to a point of realisation that his mistake set in motion many events which went out of his control. Until then he was reacting to everyone around him which led him to destroy his own life. So why blame others for the mess. He became more inward looking. He tried his best to fight calmly. He stopped trying to explain to others or trying to change them. He only tried to do that with the children because he didn't want them to become like the adults around them. They could have showed he won Atleast in some situations but it was never given importance or was destroyed like what they have done Abhir and Ruhi. The story actually said that being that good is harmful for you. The entire narrative was changed to make others looks better. So his character arc lost its value. All the effort in portraying that character was going waste. Who wants to come in everyday and watch that. If they continued any longer (we already had too much patience) all of us would have tuned out eventually. If I didn't know Abhi was dying, I wouldn't have stayed around this October.

I also don't understand how others can accept that but as you said all have different opinions and tastes, so it is what it is.

Posted: 2 years ago

I like him ..Harshad to Shreyu smiley9 for his witssmiley3614964?s=20


https://x.com/ManishaMaji8/status/1720135628451614964?s=20

Edited by taraka2005 - 2 years ago
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Posted: 2 years ago

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