Originally posted by: naq5
i have read that. what ever his anger & pain the truth is that Adi died while returning from his parents house. they are responsible not katha for the accident. any parents wud already be in deep guilt for causing that accident. + katha wud remember that too.
+ aarav is no one but his sons son. their own blood & he left him to die. a woman had to spend a night with a man to get his treatment money. adi himself wud not forgive his dad for what katha had to do to get the money. How much ever she understands his guilt & attachment for adi for a woman & a mother its difficult to forgive what she had to do & what he told about aarav when he was sick. And here she is all accepting of him as a father, getting married from their house.
Everything what you said took time. She saw proper signs, analyzed it then only made the move. She didn't move into their house. Or accepted any of their lavish gifts. Until much much later which is now. There was a considerable distance between Grewals and Katha.
There is no problem with Katha having mother daughter bond with Kavita.
Initially, she refused to go to Grewal's house for Kavita's birthday but, Neerja Ji forced her. And, Katha herself said about Kailash "Buddha Kharoos toh Hai".
What happened at Kavita's birthday was totally unexpected from Katha's side (she didn't expect any change in Kailash). Kailash, instead of getting angry at Aarav, embraced him. Kavita embraced Katha in front of everyone. This is one event. There are many such events which followed this event in which Kailash embraced Katha and Aarav.
I am surprised audience is OK with Katha forgiving Viaan for his actions but, still so against Grewals. Grewal redemption wasn't instant either. It was a process. Katha trusted Viaan because she saw positive changes in Viaan and his guilt was genuine. She was able to embrace Grewal family because they showed proper repentence through actions and through words as well. That's the end.
Viaan's action will always be wrong. Grewal's action will always be wrong. But, by holding on to them you will be ruining your present experiences with them.