The difference - Page 3

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

Yes obviously that akshara who ran away after seeing manjari's outburst without even giving her a explanation what exactly happened to neil. As akshara also had similar outburst post abhinav's death so it is not so hard for her to know people who are grieving may not have stable mind. But still she punished them because nobody recognized her mahaantha.

Akshara used to call her maa. If some one can just leave her maa in that state then she can leave anyone in that state. If she was really had genuine feelings towards those relations how hard for her to give a good news to manjari that she is still pregnant which would have made manjari believe that neil is coming back as abhir.

Uski maa ka dard is more as akshara got a good news within a day that one kid is alive and moved on in 3 months and got married and she claims it was a happy marriage where as everyone else are still living in the past.

She was neither heard , nor anyone intended to hear her side of the story .

@bold. Akshara kisi ko chod ke nai gayi thi , she was divorced and shown the door by Dr Birla, isileyi bus pakdi thi.

Aap decide karlo akshara was supposed to give them space to mourn or she had to console her ma and pati. Space bhi de , unka dard bhi baate, unki condition bhi samjhe, bus bhi na pakde , maayke bhi wapas jaaye . Basically wait for dr Birla to come around so that abhira nasht na ho🕳

Jis baat ke liye ab "maaa" ne bhi aur bete ne bhi bola ka woh galat the,, us baat ke liye toh def akhara ko blame karna galat hai.

Originally posted by: Krinya

She was neither heard , nor anyone intended to hear her side of the story .

@bold. Akshara kisi ko chod ke nai gayi thi , she was divorced and shown the door by Dr Birla, isileyi bus pakdi thi.

Aap decide karlo akshara was supposed to give them space to mourn or she had to console her ma and pati. Space bhi de , unka dard bhi baate, unki condition bhi samjhe, bus bhi na pakde , maayke bhi wapas jaaye . Basically wait for dr Birla to come around so that abhira nasht na ho🕳

Jis baat ke liye ab "maaa" ne bhi aur bete ne bhi bola ka woh galat the,, us baat ke liye toh def akhara ko blame karna galat hai.

abhi asked her to stay in room. But she wanted to poke nose so he lost his cool.still he asked her why she don't listen to him why she took such impulsive decisions. She was just crying thinking why nobody sees she is mahaan. Then abhi lost his cool. This was on the day neil died.

When she found that abhir is still alive she wanted everyone to jump with the joy on the same day when neil died. But others are humans who don't easily forget dead ppl like akshu did but since abhimanyu did not entertained her call in which she was just saying "hamare beech main bacha(remaining) hai abhi" instead of saying our kid is alive.

Divorce toh akshara ne bhi sign kiya. Usne isliye sign kiya coz usko patha tha uski galthi hai. Abhimanyu ke talaq talaq talaq bolne se divorce nahi hua. Mutual agreement main hua hai. Divorce ke baad zaroori nahi hai ki sabhi divorced women bacche naam badhal dethe hai. Akshara ne toh woh bhi kar liya.

Console karne ke liye time dekha jaatha hai. Jaise manjari ne kaha dard dene wala dava nahi ban saktha. But akshu ko toh ussi din dawa banna tha. Agar meri driving se mere dost ki maut hojathi hai even though meri galthi thi nahi aage se truck ne maara hai phir bhi ek basic courtesy hothi hai unke ghar jaake sorry bolne ka. Kyunki main equally involved this usme jisme mere dost ki jaan gayi. Akshara ko kabhi woh samajh ayega na usse patha hai kab kaise barthav karna hai.

Wohi toh maa aur beta apne galti maanthe hai lekin apni akshara sau chuhe khakhe hajj nikalthi hai 😂 kya kar sakthe hai.

Atleast manjari and abhi apna galthi toh maanthe hai akshara ko dekho main insult karungi, humiliate karungi, abuse karungi, jail bhi bhej dungi lekin sorry nahi bolungi

Originally posted by: Krinya

She was neither heard , nor anyone intended to hear her side of the story .

@bold. Akshara kisi ko chod ke nai gayi thi , she was divorced and shown the door by Dr Birla, isileyi bus pakdi thi.

Aap decide karlo akshara was supposed to give them space to mourn or she had to console her ma and pati. Space bhi de , unka dard bhi baate, unki condition bhi samjhe, bus bhi na pakde , maayke bhi wapas jaaye . Basically wait for dr Birla to come around so that abhira nasht na ho🕳

Jis baat ke liye ab "maaa" ne bhi aur bete ne bhi bola ka woh galat the,, us baat ke liye toh def akhara ko blame karna galat hai.

She too had lost her babies , she was physically weak , just gone through a miscarriage !

Thrown out , after humiliation

Love doesn't do that !

What she had to do ... must go back lie down on their door stap and beg for their mercy !

An abuse is an abuse, humiliation is a life time " hurt "

People react diff ways , but forgetting is difficult , Many women with self respect will leave that kind of house and ex husband, that is what she did !

He could have given her divorce, if he wanted to satisfy his crying Mumma or to feed his ego but in a more " civilised " ways

Hanging from the tree up side down and professing love is not enough , real love is that when dome stand by the side of the person , when a trouble and tormenting situation arises, be a piller of support !

Not kicking partner after humiliating @

Originally posted by: Krinya

That he is to abhir . To akshara he IS a nobody for whom she should put her faith in or go out of her way to support him against everyone. 🧏‍♀️

Dr Birla ki jayjaykar bAki sab bekar

Oh... Now I get it!!! Akshara usually takes help from strangers/nobody!!!

Isiliye she took abhi's help during Muskaan's wedding.

Originally posted by: ExpectoPatronu

Wrong difference

One is listening after days of him in prison, us din nahi suni thi isne bhi Abhi ki

White day ke 10-15 days baad to Abhi bhi sun leta lekin ye bus pakad ke bhag gayi thi

Difference hai ki Abhi ne sab face kiya aur Akshu bhagodi hai

Hahahaha exactly the difference is clear between all death blames.

Akshara walked away.

Kairav was like mujhe nikalo and eventually fled from police custody.

Only AbhiM is staying calm and following the procedure of court.

Obviously aj bolega kitne din se jail mein hai koi usse pooch nahi rha sab blame kr rhe hain. Time limit hoti hai meeting ki koi bhi normal insaan apni baat rakhega 😆

Originally posted by: paaraj0

Correction: AbhiM didn't listen to Ak for months when she tried to contact him. In fact the only time he somewhat apologised for his misunderstanding was 7 years later. It hardly took Ak 5-6 days to remove her judgement of AbhiM in contrast. Ak is a far less begrudged human than AbhiM in this case.

Correction: Akshara called him next day and day after and never contacted him afterwards for months. Her BP conveyed that she is fine and happy and doesn't want to come back AbhiM accepted thinking why would BP lie and he must have met her.

Months later Akshara only called BP to inform that she remarried.

Originally posted by: JustaFan13

Haan... Abhi mahaan ho ya na ho, Akshara is inhuman!!!

And that was response to your statement ki abhi is nobody to Akshara!!! He s still her son's father!!! 😂😂😂

Ab makers Akshara ko inhuman dikha rahe hain isme humari kya galati hai

Acknowledging whatever Akshara went through wasn’t easy. She neither intended for situations to go out of hand nor expected the deaths. But. But rest of how she reacts to them was in her hand.

No one questioned Akshara until she stepped down and decided to participate in the funeral meet. Manjari and Arohi would not have been happy to see her. Funeral brawl is quite common and happens everywhere. Ppl are not in control of their emotion and can say so many things. Abhi requested her to stay in room and not come down for this specific reason. He was not rationally thinking but was in control up until that point. Yes he lost is cool, but definitely was concerned abt her life becos he asks ‘tumhe kuch hojatha tho’.. it’s not like the man dint lose anything. Just becos he couldn’t physically get pregnant and miscarry, his pain of losing his children cannot be equated to Akshara? And he was being held responsible for this mess on top of it. Akshara was repeatedly becoming mahaan in her complicated pregnancy situation. Ppl were worried abt her and her recklessness. BP offered to take Akshara home for a few days for this very reason.
she should have definitely taken time off from this mess and spent some days in goenkas house healing both physically and mentally. Come back to birla house and taken care of Manjari and Arohi, becos they had also faced a loss, probably more becos of their closeness to Neil. she needn’t have returned to Abhimanyu if he had been rude to her, but she had a responsibility towards manjari “maa” and Aru Meri behen.. ! She ran away. She ran away becos she considered none of their feelings or pain was more than hers.

Originally posted by: Ambajee

Acknowledging whatever Akshara went through wasn’t easy. She neither intended for situations to go out of hand nor expected the deaths. But. But rest of how she reacts to them was in her hand.

No one questioned Akshara until she stepped down and decided to participate in the funeral meet. Manjari and Arohi would not have been happy to see her. Funeral brawl is quite common and happens everywhere. Ppl are not in control of their emotion and can say so many things. Abhi requested her to stay in room and not come down for this specific reason. He was not rationally thinking but was in control up until that point. Yes he lost is cool, but definitely was concerned abt her life becos he asks ‘tumhe kuch hojatha tho’.. it’s not like the man dint lose anything. Just becos he couldn’t physically get pregnant and miscarry, his pain of losing his children cannot be equated to Akshara? And he was being held responsible for this mess on top of it. Akshara was repeatedly becoming mahaan in her complicated pregnancy situation. Ppl were worried abt her and her recklessness. BP offered to take Akshara home for a few days for this very reason.
she should have definitely taken time off from this mess and spent some days in goenkas house healing both physically and mentally. Come back to birla house and taken care of Manjari and Arohi, becos they had also faced a loss, probably more becos of their closeness to Neil. she needn’t have returned to Abhimanyu if he had been rude to her, but she had a responsibility towards manjari “maa” and Aru Meri behen.. ! She ran away. She ran away becos she considered none of their feelings or pain was more than hers.

We discuss this everyday ..still..

I never claimed what akshara did that day or daYs after that was entirely correct. Everyone wa stuck in a cycle of action and reactions. I just said that since her condition was such , and abhim claimed to love her this much , she deserved " mercy" . Why only akshara understand their pain? It should have been mutual ...he cud also understand her pain and ask her to stay in goenka house till ma feels better. He cud have divorced her after a week or month .

Here , after so many disagreements and episodes of mistrust why expect akshara to stand by abhim when her BP is the witness ? N when it was clear to her that abhim is innocent , she is trying to bail him out ..what's fake about it ? If she wanted revenge , abhim will rot in jail and she wud get full custody of abhir for lifetime. It wasn't a bad deal why didn't she do it if she was seeking revenge ?

Okay we discuss this 1000 times a day in the forum..

1.Akshara chose to go out risking and putting everything in stake. It is impossible to expect sympathy for her condition or loss from a grieving family when she voluntarily chose the loss.

2. Her BP came in search of her and instead of taking her back, decided to talk random shit and leave her at the mercy of a stranger. Even went and informed AbhiM, she moved on and is happy elsewhere.

3.Her BP is a witness and she took his word. I still cannot for the life of me fathom why anyone would call him murderer in literal sense when he goes abt saving lives for a living. It is unreal to call Abhimanyu a murderer and a jealous person a day after calling him a acha human.

if Akshara could call AbhiM as the greatest human alive a day before accusing him of murderer, AbhiM can lose his cool for Akshara’s recklessness after informing her numerous times to put herself first and prioritize her health and their unborn children first befor anything else.
Giving abt that divorce papers was such a stupid execution by makers and has zero value except show her as legally married to Abhinav. In real life, Akshara would have appeared in court a few times to settle this mutually and move on to marry another person. Giving of divorce paper is such an excuse to defame Abhimanyu’s character and just like how a miscarried woman would be treated medically post miscarrying in a hospital with cleaning womb etc, makers did not show details as it is not a documentary.

Originally posted by: Krinya

That happened after 6 yrs..and after 6 yrs also his mummy was getting panic attacks listening to aksharas name and he agreed to all of it 🧏‍♀️ meri ma ka dard dard hai baaki sabka dard sardard hai🤷‍♀️

Akshara ka dard bilkul sardard hai!!!!

Isiliye kairav bhi 6 saal tak dur Raha, none of the Goenka's were in touch with her except for BP. 🤣🤣