The one person who trust him - Page 3

Originally posted by: JustaFan13

Nobody is thinking about abhi!!! But abhi should think about everyone in the world sitting in jail!!!

He is getting punished for something he didn't do!!! But hey, who cares!!!

what abhinav was for abhir, abhi is same for ruhi!!!!

Just because he doesn't do ruhi jaap all the time like abhinav, doesn't mean he cares less for her. He dedicated his 6 yrs only for ruhi!!! And back then he didn't know abhir was his son. Now that he knows, he is very well balancing with both kids!!!!

not that he doesn't care for ruhi!!!

And Ak not giving a damn about Ruhi for 6 years is nothing but Abhi not doing Ruhi jaap once and they're all like he doesn't want her and doesn't care for her.

Even when he was in Kasauli and Ruhi visited with other family members his reaction was so adorable looking at her. He was like poppy ki princess and lifted her.

Kuch bhi !

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Originally posted by: JustaFan13

Kudos to shallow thinking!!!!

Nobody is thinking about abhi!!! But abhi should think about everyone in the world sitting in jail!!!

Guess people forget that what abhinav was for abhir, abhi is same for ruhi!!!!

So let's not create false narrative that he doesn't care for ruhi!!!

I need not remind anyone how and to what extent was abhin mocked for caring for abhir ...that he stole abhir , he's not the blood father , he's living a fake life , hes living in denial, he's living abhims life etc etc ..akshara is the reason abhir loves abhin and not abhim bec she didn't tell abhir abt his real father ! And now this very relation is being held onto a standard 🤷‍♀️

Originally posted by: Krinya

Same can be said for akshara . Wait till ruhi becomes a vamp the moment she turns her back on abhim. Anyone who doesn't support him becomes horrible by default .

Originally posted by: Krinya

Same can be said for akshara . Wait till ruhi becomes a vamp the moment she turns her back on abhim. Anyone who doesn't support him becomes horrible by default .

Lol!!!!

People are forgetting everyone hates or dislikes abhi in the show!!!

Except for Manju and ruhi!!

Even before knowing abhir's truth, abhi had a beautiful bond with abhir!!!

Whereas Akshara madam, her own bhanji ko 6 saal tak nahi poocha!!! And even now, there isn't a single scene to show Akshara's bonding with ruhi!!! 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

Originally posted by: Krinya

I need not remind anyone how and to what extent was abhin mocked for caring for abhir ...that he stole abhir , he's not the blood father , he's living a fake life , hes living in denial, he's living abhims life etc etc ..akshara is the reason abhir loves abhin and not abhim bec she didn't tell abhir abt his real father ! And now this very relation is being held onto a standard 🤷‍♀️

There is a difference, isn't it???

Abhi didn't take Neil's position in ruhi's life. But abhinav did, even after knowing that his bio father is still alive.

And even after the truth was revealed, he was floating in front of everyone that abhir is his son!!!

So yes, whatever you have mentioned holds good abhinav!!! Because he snatched someone else's rights!!! To be called a father!!!

Originally posted by: neenzz

It's not love, Ruhi is narcissistic supply for him as was Akshara and now Abhir. He is/was more dependant on their love than they on him as a guardian. He is addicted to their supply and when they refuse to provide him that, he goes into narcissistic withdrawal. Even his withdrawal gaslights his supplies into thinking they have gravely wronged him when all they did was chose their own happiness which is not a crime.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/toxic-relationships/202108/the-concept-narcissistic-supply

https://psychcentral.com/disorders/narcissistic-personality-disorder/narcissistic-collapse

I read these links. Fits apt for Akshara and Goenka Fam. A little bit to Nav too.(ref- if you not call me good man you will see my anger and everything i claim i did in love I will remind you how you should be grateful to me)

Thanks 😊👍🏻

Originally posted by: PhoenixRising

I agree. Also, when he got to know Abhir’s truth - he had a serious heart problem so its natural for him to be more protective towards him. Abhimanyu is also the only person who could bond with both kids - he tried to understand them and created his own place in their hearts. Neither Akshara, Arohi nor Abhinav was able to do that!

Abhimanyu is the one Abhir went to with all his wishes and problems. Ruhi too shares everything first with her Poppy. Why would any kid do that if they are being neglected? If Abhimanyu had ignored her - would she be taking a stand for him so strongly! There’s no merit to this argument in my opinion.

In fact it’s laughable that in today’s episode Akshara seems concerned for Ruhi while she has never bothered about her till now!

Originally posted by: lagjagale

People can have two kids and give both of them attention and love and that does not mean they don't care about one.

The simple fact is that Abhir came into his life after six years and he wanted to make up for lost time. It would be an issue if Ruhi were affected, and when she was and she got jealous he explained things to her and gave her the power to decide - something none of the other parents have done. She understood and accepted Abhir as her brother and also accepted that he can have a unique relationship with her poppy. When Abhi went to Kasauli he talked to Ruhi everyday ( it is shown). When Abhir came in Birla house, nothing on Ruhi's end changed for Abhi. He still put both of them to sleep, took both of them to school, etc.

There is no evidence for Abhi prioritizing Abhir over Ruhi. No indication that even once he has thought about anything like that. Arohi and Ak have, but their selfish thoughts cannot be taken as truth.

Only one time where Abhi might have failed Ruhi was not realizing that she was jealous of Abhir - which he resolved in a mature manner. So where is he caring more for Abhir?

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Originally posted by: JustaFan13

There is a difference, isn't it???

Abhi didn't take Neil's position in ruhi's life. But abhinav did, even after knowing that his bio father is still alive.

And even after the truth was revealed, he was floating in front of everyone that abhir is his son!!!

So yes, whatever you have mentioned holds good abhinav!!! Because he snatched someone else's rights!!! To be called a father!!!

Teeno ko mera ek hi response hai- Yeh sab toh ap log facts state kar rhe ho facts aur is show k narratives are usually not directly proportional.

It was really surprising not even once they show Abhi is asking for Roohi, he clearly prioritise Abhir over her felt kind of bad for her !

Originally posted by: JustaFan13

Lol!!!!

People are forgetting everyone hates or dislikes abhi in the show!!!

Except for Manju and ruhi!!

Even before knowing abhir's truth, abhi had a beautiful bond with abhir!!!

Whereas Akshara madam, her own bhanji ko 6 saal tak nahi poocha!!! And even now, there isn't a single scene to show Akshara's bonding with ruhi!!! 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

Akshara ne kisi ko 6 saal nai poocha why is ruhi singled out? Why should akshara bond with ruhi ?😆 Ruhi has her mom and poppy ...they live in a separate house and whenever they meet for family functions or celebrations ruhi is treated as good as all other kids....zabardasi ghus jaaye kya ruhi ki zindagi mei to assert her role ? Kyun😆 what role does she have in ruhis life 🤔

Originally posted by: Krinya

Akshara ne kisi ko 6 saal nai poocha why is ruhi singled out? Why should akshara bond with ruhi ?😆 Ruhi has her mom and poppy ...they live in a separate house and whenever they meet for family functions or celebrations ruhi is treated as good as all other kids....zabardasi ghus jaaye kya ruhi ki zindagi mei to assert her role ? Kyun😆 what role does she have in ruhis life 🤔

Are you asking what's maasi's role in ruhi's life??? 😂😂😂😂