Abhimanyu’s fate!

Today makers have accurately shown how a six or seven year old really feel from heart. I’ve already stated earlier during custody battle that Abhir cannot stay happy in that house, he will runaway, no matter how much love his dadda or dida showers on him. For him his world is his mumma papa and kasauli home. Since Abhinav is gonna die on positive note, it’s very difficult for him to accept AbhiM as his papa after Nav’s death. His death may infact create negative impact on his relationship with AbhiM. AbhiM rejected him without knowing that one twin has survived, now he will be put in the same situation where Abhir may reject him as dadda or even friend if he thinks he is behind Nav’s death.

AbhiM never understood his Sir’s love for him. He always was rude and harsh with him. He never treated him as his father. The same thing may happen now. He will taste his own medicine. For this there is no need to blame Abhir for reacting such way. For his age and his dimaag it’s how he understands and see the things, Manjari failed to build father-son relationship and now Ak will do the same, as she believes that Nav died because of him.

For abhirs sake , I don’t want him to fester hate for abhiM. He will already be in trauma after navs death.

plus they didn’t tell a kid what happened seven years ago the whole truth cos he is just a kid, I don’t think they will be careless to tell abhir what “ bade papa” saw , cos we know it won’t be the actual truth. It will be like Anuj-Vanraj cliff fall, abhiM must have tried to help him which was misunderstood

Harsh birla didn’t treat manjiri well. So I get why abhiM called him sir and didn’t support him. But yes after they got divorced when he saw the changes in harsh, hope in those episodes he had called him papa or forgiven him.

Agreed.

I don't say abhim doesn't deserve to be called a father or he doesn't deserve abhir.

The thing is , relations are nurtured which takes time..taking away abhir forcefully, winning him through custody , when he wants to stay wth his mamma papa would never make him love abhimanyu...

With time he will come to abhim , why not ..but his method was totally wrong..and it wasn't just his , as usual he was brainwashed by his great mummy...he couldn't feel abhirs pain, his unsaid words ..just abhirs physical presence won't guarantee any happiness ..the child's heart must be won over but that's not possible if his mother is humiliated and kept away from him .

Reg harsh and manjari , I'm glad he stood up against his father..he had all reasons to despise him ..manjari made it worse by forcing reconciliation between father and son. Some relations are not meant to be ..harsh may have loved abhim ? I don't think so. abhim was useful to him for Birla hospital. After manjari harsh divorce they were cordial right ? For once the writers showed something sensible.

Originally posted by: Krinya

Agreed.

I don't say abhim doesn't deserve to be called a father or he doesn't deserve abhir.

The thing is , relations are nurtured which takes time..taking away abhir forcefully, winning him through custody , when he wants to stay wth his mamma papa would never make him love abhimanyu...

With time he will come to abhim , why not ..but his method was totally wrong..and it wasn't just his , as usual he was brainwashed by his great mummy...he couldn't feel abhirs pain, his unsaid words ..just abhirs physical presence won't guarantee any happiness ..the child's heart must be won over but that's not possible if his mother is humiliated and kept away from him .

Reg harsh and manjari , I'm glad he stood up against his father..he had all reasons to despise him ..manjari made it worse by forcing reconciliation between father and son. Some relations are not meant to be ..harsh may have loved abhim ? I don't think so. abhim was useful to him for Birla hospital. After manjari harsh divorce they were cordial right ? For once the writers showed something sensible.

Originally posted by: Krinya

Agreed.

I don't say abhim doesn't deserve to be called a father or he doesn't deserve abhir.

The thing is , relations are nurtured which takes time..taking away abhir forcefully, winning him through custody , when he wants to stay wth his mamma papa would never make him love abhimanyu...

With time he will come to abhim , why not ..but his method was totally wrong..and it wasn't just his , as usual he was brainwashed by his great mummy...he couldn't feel abhirs pain, his unsaid words ..just abhirs physical presence won't guarantee any happiness ..the child's heart must be won over but that's not possible if his mother is humiliated and kept away from him .

Reg harsh and manjari , I'm glad he stood up against his father..he had all reasons to despise him ..manjari made it worse by forcing reconciliation between father and son. Some relations are not meant to be ..harsh may have loved abhim ? I don't think so. abhim was useful to him for Birla hospital. After manjari harsh divorce they were cordial right ? For once the writers showed something sensible.

Abhim in the first place didnot initiate custody

It was the decision of Goenkas n sharmas

He just wanted to have the right on his son to spend time wirh him and see him whenever he wants.....which was not allowed by Goenkas n sharmas

Abhim always wanted to give his child the best.he took care of Ruhi like his own..

If he knew he had a child ...he wouldnot back out from his responsibility. It was Akshara's fault to hide the truth...she didnot try harder.....like Manish said to Abhim that he didnot give his best ti find Abhir...same way Akshara didnot give her best to tell the truth to Abhim

Originally posted by: reeyacute

Abhim in the first place didnot initiate custody

It was the decision of Goenkas n sharmas

He just wanted to have the right on his son to spend time wirh him and see him whenever he wants.....which was not allowed by Goenkas n sharmas

Abhim always wanted to give his child the best.he took care of Ruhi like his own..

If he knew he had a child ...he wouldnot back out from his responsibility. It was Akshara's fault to hide the truth...she didnot try harder.....like Manish said to Abhim that he didnot give his best ti find Abhir...same way Akshara didnot give her best to tell the truth to Abhim

He initiated the custody case then put it on hold and in kasauli akshara also didn't want it but before she cud say anything, he said " let the court decide the custody " . It wasn't initiated by akshara or abhim but both fought for it...He agreed with his mother that meeting abhir sometimes won't be it...he told arohi mahadev wanted me to win so I'm happy my son is with me. Where was abhirs wish in all this ? And if he wanted one visitation , he cud have given up the custody case , refuse to fight it. This isn't about what akshaea did or abhim did, it's about what abhir wants.

@bold. It's not aksharas fault that she didn't try harder. After what she heard ke mat kaut ke aana kabhi Meri zindagi mei , it was clear that she is not wanted in his life and telling him about abhir would mean separation from abhir....

Aise bhi, why should the universe work to give dr Birla what HE wants ? After what he did to akshara , he didn't deserve it. He was given a chance only if he heard her keeping his anger aside.

Originally posted by: Susi26

Today makers have accurately shown how a six or seven year old really feel from heart. I’ve already stated earlier during custody battle that Abhir cannot stay happy in that house, he will runaway, no matter how much love his dadda or dida showers on him. For him his world is his mumma papa and kasauli home. Since Abhinav is gonna die on positive note, it’s very difficult for him to accept AbhiM as his papa after Nav’s death. His death may infact create negative impact on his relationship with AbhiM. AbhiM rejected him without knowing that one twin has survived, now he will be put in the same situation where Abhir may reject him as dadda or even friend if he thinks he is behind Nav’s death.

AbhiM never understood his Sir’s love for him. He always was rude and harsh with him. He never treated him as his father. The same thing may happen now. He will taste his own medicine. For this there is no need to blame Abhir for reacting such way. For his age and his dimaag it’s how he understands and see the things, Manjari failed to build father-son relationship and now Ak will do the same, as she believes that Nav died because of him.

i think here will be a change...akshu will try to build a bond between abhi and abhir...unlike manjari....once her MU is cleared...and abhi understands repents and apologizes for how wrong he and his mamma had been in blaming akshu for neil's death....

Originally posted by: Susi26

I agree that Manjari and Harsh are never meant to be together, but we cannot deny Harsh and AbhiM’s relationship.. it could’ve been mended.. I think harsh has always loved AbhiM. It’s only because of AbhiM’s cold shoulders towards him and his attitude their relationship has turned sour. After harsh manjari divorce there was a change in harsh, AbhiM was also cordial with him, but he still couldn’t forgive harsh and kept calling him Sir, he didn’t accept him as his father. These makers have abruptly ended his character without showing the bond between them. May be they have kept it such way for AbhiM’s realisation when he faces the same situation from Abhir in future.

There was progress but for abhim his mother is god and he couldn't forgive the person who'd hurt her so much .

It wasn't a marriage which didn't work. Harsh was physically and emotionally abusive . As a child he witnessed harsh abusing manjari , it's very difficult to let go of those memories and accept the very same person..happens may be sometimes but they left it there..may be if harsh stayed , there would be positive growth ..

I wish abhim never faces the same situation from abhir ..its not easy for a kid to process hard realities..it affects their childhood in a big way. If akshara accepts abhim, and forgives him, they must.move on

Originally posted by: reeyacute

Abhim in the first place didnot initiate custody

It was the decision of Goenkas n sharmas

He just wanted to have the right on his son to spend time wirh him and see him whenever he wants.....which was not allowed by Goenkas n sharmas

Abhim always wanted to give his child the best.he took care of Ruhi like his own..

If he knew he had a child ...he wouldnot back out from his responsibility. It was Akshara's fault to hide the truth...she didnot try harder.....like Manish said to Abhim that he didnot give his best ti find Abhir...same way Akshara didnot give her best to tell the truth to Abhim

abhir was with sharmas.....y will they initiate custody? it defo would b started by birlas....

abhi put it on hold...but then barged in the sharmas house in kasauli......😂

anyways abhi winning the sole custody, manjari getting the visitation rights cancelled...looks very sus...

but i like this rejection of abhi... 🤣🤣instead of court rejecting him, abhir rejecting him...sab ke saamne.....

Originally posted by: Krinya

Agreed.

I don't say abhim doesn't deserve to be called a father or he doesn't deserve abhir.

The thing is , relations are nurtured which takes time..taking away abhir forcefully, winning him through custody , when he wants to stay wth his mamma papa would never make him love abhimanyu...

With time he will come to abhim , why not ..but his method was totally wrong..and it wasn't just his , as usual he was brainwashed by his great mummy...he couldn't feel abhirs pain, his unsaid words ..just abhirs physical presence won't guarantee any happiness ..the child's heart must be won over but that's not possible if his mother is humiliated and kept away from him .

Reg harsh and manjari , I'm glad he stood up against his father..he had all reasons to despise him ..manjari made it worse by forcing reconciliation between father and son. Some relations are not meant to be ..harsh may have loved abhim ? I don't think so. abhim was useful to him for Birla hospital. After manjari harsh divorce they were cordial right ? For once the writers showed something sensible.

that’s exactly what I believe. It was done too hastily and harshly. He totally lost the kid there.