Why he always does this? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Criticiser

Why does Abhir always run away? I know he has his MAA and Nani’s genes but still it doesn’t mean that he becomes a bhagoda like them! Especially at his young age! Shows how good Sharma’s parvarish is! Didn’t they teach him about stranger danger and not to run away? What if someone kidnaps him then what will they do!
I would scold my child if they ever ran away like him and would make them promise to never do it again!

Ye ladka bilkul apni Nani pe gaya hai Naira must be proud of him! Now I shudder to think what Nairu Birla will be like! Maybe she’ll be a champion runner and her dream will be to join the olympics!

Originally posted by: Criticiser

Why does Abhir always run away? I know he has his MAA and Nani’s genes but still it doesn’t mean that he becomes a bhagoda like them! Especially at his young age! Shows how good Sharma’s parvarish is! Didn’t they teach him about stranger danger and not to run away? What if someone kidnaps him then what will they do!
I would scold my child if they ever ran away like him and would make them promise to never do it again!

Ye ladka bilkul apni Nani pe gaya hai Naira must be proud of him! Now I shudder to think what Nairu Birla will be like! Maybe she’ll be a champion runner and her dream will be to join the olympics!

Running away is obviously nuts, but you know, most danger actually exists from the people you know and are surrounded by - abuse normally comes from family members and not "stranger danger." Just saying.

Originally posted by: Rosh4rose

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Now Abhir supposed to be with the " best son in the entire round world " still ran away !!!

Akshu is murderer, out spoken and always at fault at the extent people wish one more " white day or night " must happen to her 🤣

He ran away from his biological father's house also, now started blaming the child also ,for Nunnington away from " perfect Birla " house

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Originally posted by: Criticiser

Why does Abhir always run away? I know he has his MAA and Nani’s genes but still it doesn’t mean that he becomes a bhagoda like them! Especially at his young age! Shows how good Sharma’s parvarish is! Didn’t they teach him about stranger danger and not to run away? What if someone kidnaps him then what will they do!
I would scold my child if they ever ran away like him and would make them promise to never do it again!

Ye ladka bilkul apni Nani pe gaya hai Naira must be proud of him! Now I shudder to think what Nairu Birla will be like! Maybe she’ll be a champion runner and her dream will be to join the olympics!

@bold nahi and you know why 🤣

Originally posted by: chaipaani

@bold nahi and you know why 🤣

Lol, there is so much spite in your post. Let's all just remember, that he still even loves Ak despite saying she runs away from her problems. Just cause he knows the issues with Ak, doesn't mean he doesn't love her or their son together.

And I am pretty sure we all talked about how Abhir running away for Abhi was a legacy of Ak constantly running away. Back then Nav and Ak were at fault and now Abhi is. Either way, Abhir is the one running away, lol.

Calling 6 yr old kid as "bhagoda khoon" isn't spite. Ok.

Yeah, I don't actually recall that phrase being used in the show.

Well, I will be saying even for running to abhi or now him running to ak, both are wrong. A kid should behave like kid not adults. He could have cried,did emotional atyachar on abhi to go to her mom like ruhi does(in a sarcastic way I am saying,kids do emotional atyachar on elders for getting their way out but it's kids cute). But he ran .

And the problem is he is running away from literally every problem like ak. Him not telling about his health to his parents,him running away to meet abhi in night,now him running to meet ak.

A child should behave like child but here no one can deny that abhir is much mature for his age( which is not a good thing) because he was forced to get matured earlier.

Like which parents talk about all the financial stuffs in front of kid ( I am not saying that kid should not know about parent financial condition,I am also from middle class family but there is a way to tell them about that. At the age of 6, and this much financial burden. They can only tell them about the value of money and all. But talking in front of their kid that they don't have any money put burden on child that whenever in future he will be in need of money, he will never go to his parents.)

Parents take care of kid but here literally you see abhir saying that mamma papa sambhal nahi payenge khudko. Like he is taking care of them.and not thinking about toys or school but parents worries.

What disturbed me the most was , ak maata forcing abhi to sell jams. Madam he is just a kid. His age is to do study not to sell jams and things.

See, when abhir do good things ,it's Sharma fam good upbringing,so if he will do bad things,it should also be blamed on Sharma family.

Just because abhi was bad and wd happened,it doesn't give you leverage to do anything and get away.

Bold: I have said this earlier and I am saying it again, if wd can give free pass to ak to do whatever coming to her mind and it can be understood by her trauma then manju maata has idk faced how many white days in her life. Infact her whole life was wd. So she can even murder someone and get away saying it was past trauma. No na.

What happened in your past don't give you Lieu to do wrong stuffs in future.

Nice post. They showed abhis anger issues in abhir as traits and abhi understood his kid is like him so behaviour he caught it easily. Whats affecting kid was 2 baap confusion which ak didn't clear till now. The same boy proudly said i have 2 baaps. That confidence gone after knowing real truth. He has to erase one and step into shoes of that father take him as inspiration for next to carry his life. His whole existence is kept in criss cross by ak so he got that imbalance. When ak saw anger issues in abhir she blamed abhi as his environment his parvarish. So now her turn .kid has got both traits of maa and dada in him which any kid has from bio parents. External environment supports the calming nature but traits won't be cut till the soul is alive. This is the natural genes and behaviour throughout the life which can be controlled but not stopped. Abhis anger or ar anger issues are shown solved with them making their soul peaceful Accepting the flaw and dealing with it as they lost everything with the affect of anger. Time and again both ae shown councelling kid who is in starting stage showing his inner traits. Similarly when abhi pointed abhir cant fight situations madam ji said i have my flaws my hubby is with me to fight for it. Whats is he doing simply making her sit there with him instead of dealing situations. When she has to deal with she runs away in the name of peace for others but none gets peace. accepting the flaws is important in life and deal with it. Seeing abhir run away if she gets her traits and if she deals its a proper move by a mother. When she can't fight for herself what she teaches her kid. Seeing a kid run away on roads my heart gets dhak dhak as its very small age. My hubby's cousin ran away same way at the age of 6 so i connect that story. He runs from situations and people till now even though he is 30 plus now. Traits won't go anywhere . Naira is shown run away at younger age and she did it always. Ak too same. Now abhir too. If they can't set how to deal with this flaw in s3 which is carried from s1 end the same saga continues. Communication gap which is in abhira is shown in kid perfectly.let abhira and abhir deal with his flaws as he is their blood own child so they can show changes in his life by becoming good parents setting their flaws first. Its all about parenting we will love to deal those issues instead of naming them.