MyThoughts- 27 Jul 2023

Not much in the episode. Hence added a small fun section at the end and some random thoughts. Do read it!

As shown in the precap, Abhir escapes the Birla house with help of his sister Ruhi. AK falls extremely sick and AbhiN takes care of her.

Blood relations: This leap was about palanewala versus paida karanewala. But with AK falling sick, AK getting the premonition that Abhir is in danger, they are emphasizing again that to hv that sixth sense you hv to birth the child. With AbhiN saying that with Abhir coming home AK would be perfectly fine as if Abhir's absence does not hv impact on AbhiN. After today's episode (rather after custody track), I am extemely happy that they are ending AbhiN's character. Post custody track (except few school scenes), there is hardly any importance given to AbhiN or Navir bond. AK is mother of Abhir and I understand her condition, but AbhiN's depth of feelings, pain has got ignored in the process. Navir was the foundation of everything that started post-leap, even the AK- AbhiN relationship. AbhiN since entering the show was more concerned about the Baby. He never had feelings for AK in the beginning.But, now AbhiN is mostly been the support system of AK, than papa of Abhir. Idk, if it is meant to be that way or writers are not able to balance the dynamics. AbhiN's exit looks rushed to me, wish it was better executed.

Abhir- Ruhi: The show is creating the the foundation for Generation 4. Abhir could not confide in anyone, not even his dadda, but Ruhi. The bond as of now is very beautiful.

Abhir-MJ- AbhiM: Complete whitewashing of AbhiM is going on. It is only MJ who is getting exposed in the eyes of Abhir as a vile person. Even today, Abhir heard all the good things that were said by AbhiM. Abhir does not know that it was AbhiM who went ahead with custody battle, after the verdict, without thinking about how a 6 year old would live without his MaPa, brought him home, did not take him back even after knowing he never wanted to be with his RWP.

Abhir also does not know how AbhiM yelled at AK, and his Papa had to intervene to stop the verbal abuse.

AbhiM's regret was like 'अब पचताके क्या होगा जब चिडियाँ चुग गयी खेत'. AbhiM's what so ever little regret after his horrendous mistakes (separating mother and child is गुनाह for me), was always too little and too late. He still has nor felt sorry for divorcing AK on white day. Rather, recently asked AK if she did apologize to MJ.

Again I am saying, what MJ did was less evil than what AbhiM has chosen to do. MJ clearly stated today, she being mother just wants her son to be happy at any cost. Hence, her 'haq' is not for herself, it is for her son's happiness. AbhiN had said that AbhiM could move on and be happy with AR and Ruhi. But, AbhiM being the obsessive person that he is, wanted AK- Abhir only which MJ saw in Kasauli. Whatever MJ said then, was just what AbhiM was feeling.

I am happy that inspite of only knowing good side of AbhiM, Abhir is emotionally detached from him. Also, there is posblty that Abhir will never know hw his dadda treated his Mamma, the way AK will never know what AbhiM said to her husband in the hospital.

AK may not remain loyal to AbhiN, with one day running back to AbhiM, becoming Akshara Abhimanyu Birla again, which I am fine with. One deserves to be with the person who she/ he loves. If AK loved only AbhiM, then AK should be with him only, or should hv gone back to him long back. But I so want atleast Nikkeji to remember his papa ara.

Now after AbhiN's death track has been confirmed, I decided to find some comedy in it. AbhiN's exit is not tragedy for me. I am happy that he is dying without becoming negative.

Abhira:

1. Twinflames: If one of the partner falls in love with someone else ( 2nd chances), the soulmatewala concept dies there itself. Reunion or no reunion. One needs to prove that what the partner felt in 2nd chances was not love but something else. Now, AK has said that she loves AbhiN after it came from 'अंदरसे' which meant that she waited till she was sure that it was love and nothing else and that too for many years. It would be so difficult to prove AK, who already has experienced love before, wrong.

2. Moving around: If she moves on again, will mean that she turned back on the promise made to AbhiN where she said ' Waqtke rukane tak apake sath rahungi'. This promise is of eternal love, which spans beyond single lifetime. A partner who makes this promise, and then again falls in love after sometime with someone else or previous love, does the ML deserves such a partner?

3. Pure ship partners: Even if obsessive, I will give full credit to AbhiM for loving no one except AK since he heard her voice. Other person who has remained committed (even if out of compulsion) is AR. She could hv easily found someone at the hospital (just like AK found one in the bus), but she did not. One more person who loved, remained committed and will die committed will be AbhiN. He remained committed inspite of living in an loveless marriage for 6 years. Even if I hv certain POV about AbhiM, he doesn't deserve someone who confessed love for her spouse in front of him.

4. Proxy Sharmaji: AbhiM had become proxy Sharmaji while he was in Kasauli. He became instant bhaiji of MK. Got KV- MK married. All with good intentions. He was doing all the roles of AbhiN. There was a sentence by AbhiN after he regained consciousness after accident, 'भाईजी, मै जब नही था, तब आपने मेरी दुनिया संभाली '. If all this was on purpose, post AbhiN death, AbhiM will become proxy AbhiN, doing what AbhiN left to be done. I know AbhiM is a grey character, and I hv a POV that he is obsessive and has anger issues. But, that is his core trait and beauty of his character. It irked me when he became what he became in Kasauli, serving, frying Samosas with AK. मुझे भले ही सही ना लगे, लेकिन AbhiM चिल्लाता हुआ अच्छा लगता है.. लोरी गाता नही..' I hope they don't make AbhiM namka AbhiN. If they do it, it would be still win for AbhiN's character.

5. Wayout.. Funny ideas: Then what is the wayout for Abhira reunion? (a) AK's memory loss where she remembers only Abhira days. This is easiest one. No memory of white day, only love, love and love (b) AK flips, forgets the timeless promise made to AbhiN, BP convinces AK that AbhiN would be happy to see her and his nikkeji happy with his Dadda. AK- Abhir say thank you to AbhiN's harwali photo, forget about him. Then AK (hushh.. finally with super expensive designer cloths and no wig)-AbhiM dance using the same rope prop that AK used while dancing with AbhiN during Gangaur.

One single shiny star will see them together for ever, feeling happy that those who were destined to be together are finally together.

P.S. Post edited by YRKKH DT to comply with IF COC

AbhiN is gonna die.. what about Ar?? Why she has to hang around BH? I feel bad for her.. she was evil and cunning before, but in the due course through many life experiences makers are showing that she changed. She deserves to be happy and be loved. Ruhi deserves to have a father who loves her mother dearly. Just like how AbhiN is getting mukthi from this toxic environment, I wish she too find someone who loves her and accepts Ruhi wholeheartedly. First I want her to flee from that house., Mj doesn’t care for her anymore, AbhiM doesn’t bother her existence, Ruhi is not that attached to AbhiM like before, I don’t understand why she is still staying there.

Aarohi is staying because she will be the prominent triangle soon.

I feel AR has got attached with AbhiM post engagement, but unfortuantely AbhiM has not. She can keep her hopes as AK is happily married, has told that she loves AbhiN, hence even with no love, her rishta is safe. With AbhiN's death, AbhiM would flip in a second, bringing her world crumbling down.

My theory is, AK, the lawyer will fight for all the Birla kids' mothers' rights in the court, even in absence of AbhiN, before Abhira happenning.

In the current montage, AK and AbhiM are facing opposite sides, hence will be long before they reunite. By that time, people will forget that someone called AbhiN existed in the show.. Ha.. Ha..

I hope you are not saying that if Akshara falls for anyone afterAbhiN dies ut means her love for him was lesser and not deep ? And she cannot fall in love with anyone else if she has said she will love him waqt ke ruins tak..

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another point - Arohi never seemed to really loved Neel atlesst from what was shown before leap , she was more into competing with Akshara and becoming birla Bahu by hook or crook .. she liked N , but I never got the feeling that she was in love with him .. most of the time she was spying on Abhimanyu while she was married to N .. but yes her character has definitely had the best arc .. so I do believe that she deserves someone better .. but to equate not marrying to commitment to her dead husband whom she never really treated well while he was alive feels like a stretch and kind of an unnecessary glorification or poking down on people who take second chances or third chances .. if they were committed and did everything they could while their relationship was alive or when their other half was alive , why look down on them or the strength or genuineness of their bond because they chose to give a chance to live again ?

Originally posted by: MyThoughts

Not much in the episode. Hence added a small fun section at the end and some random thoughts. Do read it!

As shown in the precap, Abhir escapes the Birla house with help of his sister Ruhi. AK falls extremely sick and AbhiN takes care of her.

Blood relations: This leap was about palanewala versus paida karanewala. But with AK falling sick, AK getting the premonition that Abhir is in danger, they are emphasizing again that to hv that sixth sense you hv to birth the child. With AbhiN saying that with Abhir coming home AK would be perfectly fine as if Abhir's absence does not hv impact on AbhiN. After today's episode (rather after custody track), I am extemely happy that they are ending AbhiN's character. Post custody track (except few school scenes), there is hardly any importance given to AbhiN or Navir bond. AK is mother of Abhir and I understand her condition, but AbhiN's depth of feelings, pain has got ignored in the process. Navir was the foundation of everything that started post-leap, even the AK- AbhiN relationship. AbhiN since entering the show was more concerned about the Baby. He never had feelings for AK in the beginning.But, now AbhiN is mostly been the support system of AK, than papa of Abhir. Idk, if it is meant to be that way or writers are not able to balance the dynamics. AbhiN's exit looks rushed to me, wish it was better executed.

Abhir- Ruhi: The show is creating the the foundation for Generation 4. Abhir could not confide in anyone, not even his dadda, but Ruhi. The bond as of now is very beautiful.

Abhir-MJ- AbhiM: Complete whitewashing of AbhiM is going on. It is only MJ who is getting exposed in the eyes of Abhir as a vile person. Even today, Abhir heard all the good things that were said by AbhiM. Abhir does not know that it was AbhiM who went ahead with custody battle, after the verdict, without thinking about how a 6 year old would live without his MaPa, brought him home, did not take him back even after knowing he never wanted to be with his RWP.

Abhir also does not know how AbhiM yelled at AK, and his Papa had to intervene to stop the verbal abuse.

AbhiM's regret was like 'अब पचताके क्या होगा जब चिडियाँ चुग गयी खेत'. AbhiM's what so ever little regret after his horrendous mistakes (separating mother and child is गुनाह for me), was always too little and too late. He still has nor felt sorry for divorcing AK on white day. Rather, recently asked AK if she did apologize to MJ.

Again I am saying, what MJ did was less evil than what AbhiM has chosen to do. MJ clearly stated today, she being mother just wants her son to be happy at any cost. Hence, her 'haq' is not for herself, it is for her son's happiness. AbhiN had said that AbhiM could move on and be happy with AR and Ruhi. But, AbhiM being the obsessive person that he is, wanted AK- Abhir only which MJ saw in Kasauli. Whatever MJ said then, was just what AbhiM was feeling.

I am happy that inspite of only knowing good side of AbhiM, Abhir is emotionally detached from him. Also, there is posblty that Abhir will never know hw his dadda treated his Mamma, the way AK will never know what AbhiM said to her husband in the hospital.

AK may not remain loyal to AbhiN, with one day running back to AbhiM, becoming Akshara Abhimanyu Birla again, which I am fine with. One deserves to be with the person who she/ he loves. If AK loved only AbhiM, then AK should be with him only, or should hv gone back to him long back. But I so want atleast Nikkeji to remember his papa ara.

Now after AbhiN's death track has been confirmed, I decided to find some comedy in it. AbhiN's exit is not tragedy for me. I am happy that he is dying without becoming negative.

Abhira:

1. Twinflames: If one of the partner falls in love with someone else ( 2nd chances), the soulmatewala concept dies there itself. Reunion or no reunion. One needs to prove that what the partner felt in 2nd chances was not love but something else. Now, AK has said that she loves AbhiN after it came from 'अंदरसे' which meant that she waited till she was sure that it was love and nothing else and that too for many years. It would be so difficult to prove AK, who already has experienced love before, wrong.

2. Moving around: If she moves on again, will mean that she turned back on the promise made to AbhiN where she said ' Waqtke rukane tak apake sath rahungi'. This promise is of eternal love, which spans beyond single lifetime. A partner who makes this promise, and then again falls in love after sometime with someone else or previous love, does the ML deserves such a partner?

3. Pure ship partners: Even if obsessive, I will give full credit to AbhiM for loving no one except AK since he heard her voice. Other person who has remained committed (even if out of compulsion) is AR. She could hv easily found someone at the hospital (just like AK found one in the bus), but she did not. One more person who loved, remained committed and will die committed will be AbhiN. He remained committed inspite of living in an loveless marriage for 6 years. Even if I hv certain POV about AbhiM, he doesn't deserve someone who confessed love for her spouse in front of him.

4. Proxy Sharmaji: AbhiM had become proxy Sharmaji while he was in Kasauli. He became instant bhaiji of MK. Got KV- MK married. All with good intentions. He was doing all the roles of AbhiN. There was a sentence by AbhiN after he regained consciousness after accident, 'भाईजी, मै जब नही था, तब आपने मेरी दुनिया संभाली '. If all this was on purpose, post AbhiN death, AbhiM will become proxy AbhiN, doing what AbhiN left to be done. I know AbhiM is a grey character, and I hv a POV that he has narcicistic traits, is obsessive and has anger issues. But, that is his core trait and beauty of his character. It irked me when he became what he became in Kasauli, serving, frying Samosas with AK. मुझे भले ही सही ना लगे, लेकिन AbhiM चिल्लाता हुआ अच्छा लगता है.. लोरी गाता नही..' I hope they don't make AbhiM namka AbhiN. If they do it, it would be still win for AbhiN's character.

5. Wayout.. Funny ideas: Then what is the wayout for Abhira reunion? (a) AK's memory loss where she remembers only Abhira days. This is easiest one. No memory of white day, only love, love and love (b) AK flips, forgets the timeless promise made to AbhiN, BP convinces AK that AbhiN would be happy to see her and his nikkeji happy with his Dadda. AK- Abhir say thank you to AbhiN's harwali photo, forget about him. Then AK (hushh.. finally with super expensive designer cloths and no wig)-AbhiM dance using the same rope prop that AK used while dancing with AbhiN during Gangaur.

One single shiny star will see them together for ever, feeling happy that those who were destined to be together are finally together.

Originally posted by: MyThoughts

Not much in the episode. Hence added a small fun section at the end and some random thoughts. Do read it!

As shown in the precap, Abhir escapes the Birla house with help of his sister Ruhi. AK falls extremely sick and AbhiN takes care of her.

Blood relations: This leap was about palanewala versus paida karanewala. But with AK falling sick, AK getting the premonition that Abhir is in danger, they are emphasizing again that to hv that sixth sense you hv to birth the child. With AbhiN saying that with Abhir coming home AK would be perfectly fine as if Abhir's absence does not hv impact on AbhiN. After today's episode (rather after custody track), I am extemely happy that they are ending AbhiN's character. Post custody track (except few school scenes), there is hardly any importance given to AbhiN or Navir bond. AK is mother of Abhir and I understand her condition, but AbhiN's depth of feelings, pain has got ignored in the process. Navir was the foundation of everything that started post-leap, even the AK- AbhiN relationship. AbhiN since entering the show was more concerned about the Baby. He never had feelings for AK in the beginning.But, now AbhiN is mostly been the support system of AK, than papa of Abhir. Idk, if it is meant to be that way or writers are not able to balance the dynamics. AbhiN's exit looks rushed to me, wish it was better executed.

Abhir- Ruhi: The show is creating the the foundation for Generation 4. Abhir could not confide in anyone, not even his dadda, but Ruhi. The bond as of now is very beautiful.

Abhir-MJ- AbhiM: Complete whitewashing of AbhiM is going on. It is only MJ who is getting exposed in the eyes of Abhir as a vile person. Even today, Abhir heard all the good things that were said by AbhiM. Abhir does not know that it was AbhiM who went ahead with custody battle, after the verdict, without thinking about how a 6 year old would live without his MaPa, brought him home, did not take him back even after knowing he never wanted to be with his RWP.

Abhir also does not know how AbhiM yelled at AK, and his Papa had to intervene to stop the verbal abuse.

AbhiM's regret was like 'अब पचताके क्या होगा जब चिडियाँ चुग गयी खेत'. AbhiM's what so ever little regret after his horrendous mistakes (separating mother and child is गुनाह for me), was always too little and too late. He still has nor felt sorry for divorcing AK on white day. Rather, recently asked AK if she did apologize to MJ.

Again I am saying, what MJ did was less evil than what AbhiM has chosen to do. MJ clearly stated today, she being mother just wants her son to be happy at any cost. Hence, her 'haq' is not for herself, it is for her son's happiness. AbhiN had said that AbhiM could move on and be happy with AR and Ruhi. But, AbhiM being the obsessive person that he is, wanted AK- Abhir only which MJ saw in Kasauli. Whatever MJ said then, was just what AbhiM was feeling.

I am happy that inspite of only knowing good side of AbhiM, Abhir is emotionally detached from him. Also, there is posblty that Abhir will never know hw his dadda treated his Mamma, the way AK will never know what AbhiM said to her husband in the hospital.

AK may not remain loyal to AbhiN, with one day running back to AbhiM, becoming Akshara Abhimanyu Birla again, which I am fine with. One deserves to be with the person who she/ he loves. If AK loved only AbhiM, then AK should be with him only, or should hv gone back to him long back. But I so want atleast Nikkeji to remember his papa ara.

Now after AbhiN's death track has been confirmed, I decided to find some comedy in it. AbhiN's exit is not tragedy for me. I am happy that he is dying without becoming negative.

Abhira:

1. Twinflames: If one of the partner falls in love with someone else ( 2nd chances), the soulmatewala concept dies there itself. Reunion or no reunion. One needs to prove that what the partner felt in 2nd chances was not love but something else. Now, AK has said that she loves AbhiN after it came from 'अंदरसे' which meant that she waited till she was sure that it was love and nothing else and that too for many years. It would be so difficult to prove AK, who already has experienced love before, wrong.

2. Moving around: If she moves on again, will mean that she turned back on the promise made to AbhiN where she said ' Waqtke rukane tak apake sath rahungi'. This promise is of eternal love, which spans beyond single lifetime. A partner who makes this promise, and then again falls in love after sometime with someone else or previous love, does the ML deserves such a partner?

3. Pure ship partners: Even if obsessive, I will give full credit to AbhiM for loving no one except AK since he heard her voice. Other person who has remained committed (even if out of compulsion) is AR. She could hv easily found someone at the hospital (just like AK found one in the bus), but she did not. One more person who loved, remained committed and will die committed will be AbhiN. He remained committed inspite of living in an loveless marriage for 6 years. Even if I hv certain POV about AbhiM, he doesn't deserve someone who confessed love for her spouse in front of him.

4. Proxy Sharmaji: AbhiM had become proxy Sharmaji while he was in Kasauli. He became instant bhaiji of MK. Got KV- MK married. All with good intentions. He was doing all the roles of AbhiN. There was a sentence by AbhiN after he regained consciousness after accident, 'भाईजी, मै जब नही था, तब आपने मेरी दुनिया संभाली '. If all this was on purpose, post AbhiN death, AbhiM will become proxy AbhiN, doing what AbhiN left to be done. I know AbhiM is a grey character, and I hv a POV that he is obsessive and has anger issues. But, that is his core trait and beauty of his character. It irked me when he became what he became in Kasauli, serving, frying Samosas with AK. मुझे भले ही सही ना लगे, लेकिन AbhiM चिल्लाता हुआ अच्छा लगता है.. लोरी गाता नही..' I hope they don't make AbhiM namka AbhiN. If they do it, it would be still win for AbhiN's character.

5. Wayout.. Funny ideas: Then what is the wayout for Abhira reunion? (a) AK's memory loss where she remembers only Abhira days. This is easiest one. No memory of white day, only love, love and love (b) AK flips, forgets the timeless promise made to AbhiN, BP convinces AK that AbhiN would be happy to see her and his nikkeji happy with his Dadda. AK- Abhir say thank you to AbhiN's harwali photo, forget about him. Then AK (hushh.. finally with super expensive designer cloths and no wig)-AbhiM dance using the same rope prop that AK used while dancing with AbhiN during Gangaur.

One single shiny star will see them together for ever, feeling happy that those who were destined to be together are finally together.

Mimi's blessings are too hilarious. If Channel has given DKP ultimatum and that's why this rushed exit of AbhiN, then DKP will patch up Abhira quickly (maybe memory loss). But if DKP is not time constrained then I feel he is planning another round of long drawn enemy to lover trope btw the couple . Because currently Akshara's standings does not show she can go back to AbhiM (and that Birla house) anytime soon.

Btw did anyone notice that AbhiN referred AK as 'Aksharaji' both the times he took her name today. That was funny as if he is not allowed to not call her Akshara as she soon is going to be someone else's .

Originally posted by: Susi26

AbhiN is gonna die.. what about Ar?? Why she has to hang around BH? I feel bad for her.. she was evil and cunning before, but in the due course through many life experiences makers are showing that she changed. She deserves to be happy and be loved. Ruhi deserves to have a father who loves her mother dearly. Just like how AbhiN is getting mukthi from this toxic environment, I wish she too find someone who loves her and accepts Ruhi wholeheartedly. First I want her to flee from that house., Mj doesn’t care for her anymore, AbhiM doesn’t bother her existence, Ruhi is not that attached to AbhiM like before, I don’t understand why she is still staying there.

Originally posted by: Aashiqanafan

Mimi's blessings are too hilarious. If Channel has given DKP ultimatum and that's why this rushed exit of AbhiN, then DKP will patch up Abhira quickly (maybe memory loss). But if DKP is not time constrained then I feel he is planning another round of long drawn enemy to lover trope btw the couple . Because currently Akshara's standings does not show she can go back to AbhiM (and that Birla house) anytime soon.

Btw did anyone notice that AbhiN referred AK as 'Aksharaji' both the times he took her name today. That was funny as if he is not allowed to not call her Akshara as she soon is going to be someone else's .

Yeah with the way it is right now, there is no way Akshara is going to Abhimanyu anytime soon. She hates the man for taking away her son and she will mourn her husband’s sudden demise so feelings for Abhimanyu cannot surface. Maybe the year leap that they were talking about? Or memory loss? Or she just goes back for the sake of Abhir with no feelings and they move from there?

The last part of your post is nice up in the sky so high he was an orphan lived alone made some relationship and left no one behind