Abhimanyu is a better parent - Page 4

Parenting is not about just talking nice, it’s being intuitive to their insecurities, learn to be firm and not just pampering them.

So he just got abhirs custody so him being abhirs parent, we don’t know how it is gonna be. Please him getting some khoon ka connection is not parenting.

He is being a parent to Roohi, we can see he doesn’t school her when she is wrong, he caters to all her whims. When she wanted him to become papa to her by marrying his mother, no one just agrees to the whims of a kid. He didn’t even know how Roohi was feeling until akshara and arohi had to tell him, he then goes does the needful. When akshnav and arohi could see during camp how Roohi was feeling.

Roohi is not his first thought when he encounters a difficult complication in his life, he does things after things are ruined,

Parents have to say NO to their kids when they are throwing tantrums,

AbhiM has to do a lot of learning, no parents is perfect but abhiM is definitely not a perfect parent by any measure.

Without him realising he differentiates between Ruhi and abhir. I am not saying he is doing it on purpose but he does it. It will be the character’s journey.

Why does Abhi need to be compared always to get validation? And no, he is not the better parent. When it comes to parenting each individual can have a different approach to it and still do a good job. While Abhi is the talker (not always, will come to that) who thinks the child deserves to know everything, Akshara does not want the child to know problems faced by the elders. Akshnav have raised Abhir well, that cannot be denied. When Abhim’s journey as a father has not yet begun how can we even say he is better? Sure, with Ruhi we can say he kind of acted like a father figure, but since Abhir came into his life, he has also neglected the child and made her feel she is losing her Poppy. Yes, he mended things between her and Abhir but still the dynamics change every now and then, and we see him lying to her and going to meet Abhir in Kasauli. He wants the kids to know everything as per his own convenience. IMO it’s completely fine for parents to not tell everything to their children out of concern, there is nothing wrong with that, but problem is if he calls out others on the same behavior. No doubt Ak devoiding Abhir of the truth forever would have been really wrong, but not wanting the same now when the child is just 6-7 is quite reasonable. Abhim cared about his rights more than Abhir’s feelings, despite knowing how much Abhir loved his parents. Both the parents also could not stand against their families for the child and wronged the child. So yeah, parents can not always be right. It would be very interesting to see how Abhim deals with the question about why him and Ak were not together? Will he still stay with his ideologies about kids should know everything, or again he changes as per convenience. Will Manjari manipulate him this time to lie? And by any means, I am not saying Akshnav are the best parents either, they have their shortcomings too, like Abhinav’s insecurities led him to overtime and spend less time with family, or Ak’s fears led her to hide so many things; but still does not mean Abhim is the better parent. All of them have handled some situations better than the other, while flunked in other situations.

Originally posted by: verve

Yeh tum sab Rishta ko Sony show kyu banate rehte ho re 😆🤪

Hein sirf Sony?

Jyada tar murder mystery ane revenge stories tl colors par aata hai... Sony par toh masoom shows hote hai😭

Colors ITV se zada Animal Planet lagta hai aajkal, sare tarah ke shapeshifter/animagus whatever bhar diya hai🤣

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

Hein sirf Sony?

Jyada tar murder mystery ane revenge stories tl colors par aata hai... Sony par toh masoom shows hote hai😭

Sony walo ko alag craze hai psycho lover shows banane ka 😁 Mai to mostly vhi dekhti hu unke 🤣

Achha colours wale bhi banate hai kya.. maine sune nhi unke koi shows.

SP ka mujhe 1 hi show yaad hai.. Ek Haseena Thi jo suspense thriller type tha.. baki to inka vhi rehta hai.. ott parivarik drama, bekar ki bhashanbaji n most favorite track 2 behne 1 bande ke peeche

Originally posted by: DevilsHeart

I disagree. The points you have mentioned are less about parenting and more about the differences between a rich and a middle-class/poor household.

Regarding extreme reactions to illness - it can happen to people who have suffered loss - my nanaji lost both his parents early so he would wake up at 2am even if anyone in the house just coughed in their sleep.

Besides Abhimanyu has been very much involved in Ruhi’s life. He is the one who attends PTA meetings, plays with her, helps with her schoolwork, got her ready for school - being rich they could have servants for some of these things too. She calls him to share whatever is happening - even when Abhir told her about half truth - she informed Abhimanyu first. Both sets of parents have their own strengths which are lacking in the other. Just because Ruhi calls him Poppy doesn’t mean he has not been like a father to her!

First point is not about any class. It was about the main responsibility for all parents. For which AkshNav lose the battle.

Sorry I never experienced like that. Not for me or not for other. I never find my mother to run like him even she did loss her mother in small age. Kuch jada hota tabhi wo react karti hai aur bahut zayda ho tab ro deti hai. But for small cut or burn she never give this reaction, ulta toh daant hi pad jaati hai. So everyone have different experience and my experience is not Abhimanyu. So I could not able to relate this extreme reaction of anyone on ITV.

I had already said that what Abhimanyu doing for Ruhi everyone will do the same for family kids. I don't know about others but I did all these things for my niece & nephew. So it's doesn't big deal for me. Khilna, pilana, sulana, padhana, khelna, maarna, daatna, baatein karna all these things. But it doesn't make anyone parent to any kids.

When I said he is not father to her? Ruhi love him as a father he love her as daughter. He is definitely good to Ruhi but do you think a father can ignore his child for the ex. Sorry! I can't. It's good ki he recognised his mistakes but still this behaviour stains his relationship with Ruhi. And he still affect by AK. If AK had accepted his proposal then it must hurt Ruhi. Fir next compromise AK ko karna padta. AK k saath rahkar Ruhi ka father kaise kahlayega wo. So I said if he is individual or not linked with her mother till he will be anything for Ruhi but not parent. Like if AK had not married to Nav then Nav must have been anything for Abhir but not father.

Originally posted by: Priyrabha

First point is not about any class. It was about the main responsibility for all parents. For which AkshNav lose the battle.

Sorry I never experienced like that. Not for me or not for other. I never find my mother to run like him even she did loss her mother in small age. Kuch jada hota tabhi wo react karti hai aur bahut zayda ho tab ro deti hai. But for small cut or burn she never give this reaction, ulta toh daant hi pad jaati hai. So everyone have different experience and my experience is not Abhimanyu. So I could not able to relate this extreme reaction of anyone on ITV.

I had already said that what Abhimanyu doing for Ruhi everyone will do the same for family kids. I don't know about others but I did all these things for my niece & nephew. So it's doesn't big deal for me. Khilna, pilana, sulana, padhana, khelna, maarna, daatna, baatein karna all these things. But it doesn't make anyone parent to any kids.

When I said he is not father to her? Ruhi love him as a father he love her as daughter. He is definitely good to Ruhi but do you think a father can ignore his child for the ex. Sorry! I can't. It's good ki he recognised his mistakes but still this behaviour stains his relationship with Ruhi. And he still affect by AK. If AK had accepted his proposal then it must hurt Ruhi. Fir next compromise AK ko karna padta. AK k saath rahkar Ruhi ka father kaise kahlayega wo. So I said if he is individual or not linked with her mother till he will be anything for Ruhi but not parent. Like if AK had not married to Nav then Nav must have been anything for Abhir but not father.

Well, you did say he is not her parent - isn’t father a parent? Ruhi has other relatives too in the family who would do things for her - it won’t make them all her Poppy or father.

Yes he did make mistakes. But I do not think Akshara-Abhinav are better parents in any way.

There are things that both sides do better and there’s a a lot of room for improvement for all four of them. And I do not think two people need to be married to be parents.. Being married makes them a couple - spouses to each other. It was immature for Abhimanyu to propose Akshara - but hypothetically even if they did get back together- Ruhi would still be important to him.

He has been more concerned with Abhir because when he found out that Abhir’s his son - he had a critical heart condition- if my sibling is unwell obviously my parents would give more attention to them - doesn’t make them bad parents to me. Yeah it didn’t occur to him that Ruhi was getting insecure - but when Akshara pointed it - he genuinely wanted her to explain so he can understand Ruhi better to help her - and this tells that he does care about her feelings and wellbeing like any parent would. He even resolved those issues so Ruhi and Abhir get along and can share a healthy bonding which none of the other 3 parents cared about.

Bro, Sony gave us a masterpiece like Kuch Rang Pyaar Ke too🥹

Originally posted by: verve

Abhimanyu is a better parent...

Kisse!

Akshnav se ya Manju se..?

If former.. NO

If latter.. YES

Please compare it later when he becomes parent. Till now he is not parent of anyone.

Originally posted by: R.G.C

Bro, Sony gave us a masterpiece like Kuch Rang Pyaar Ke too🥹

Sorry bro dint watch that.. but I've heard about it so much on this forum.. kabhi time mila dekhoongi 👍🏼

Sony shows are generally good & fast paced.