Abhimanyu's Journey as a Father: His Struggles..

In my opinion, Abhimanyu is often being perceived as the villain like, he has no rights over his own child or doesn’t deserve to be around Abhir.

I felt, He is trying his best to be a good father and has always given preference for his child’s well being since the moment he got to know about him. Abhimanyu these days is trying to be the best version of himself for his child.

Also in my opinion, not only a mother has the rights on a child and not just she deserves the child..But also a father equally has the right to be around his child and to be acknowledged especially, if he is trying his best and is trying to be a better version of himself.Abhimanyu might have been at times, a flawed husband but is trying to be the best dad he can and truly loves Abhir.

Sharmas always acted like they are doing some sympathetic act by letting Abhimanyu meet his own child. They were never ready to reveal the truth to Abhir of Abhimanyu being his father and kept him as Mausaji and Abhimanyu though hurt was okay with this and accepted this decision with a smile. Abhimanyu never wanted to put any stress on Abhir because he didn’t want Abhir’s health to suffer and Sharmas to be overly stressed. Goenkas and Akshara always questioned him whenever he came over to meet his own son and often looked down upon Abhimanyu.

He deserved to spend more time with Abhir and be acknowledged as the father without being lectured and looked down upon by Goenkas.

Goenkas were the ones who reopened the custody case while Abhimanyu had let go off it.

Yes Akshara’s breakdown was sad but Abhimanyu getting the custody and recognition of a father is not unfair and is not an injustice. 😊 These are my personal opinions.

Fair enuf. His journey as a father is about to begin .

Originally posted by: Krinya

Fair enuf. His journey as a father is about to begin .

Indeed, Abhimanyu's journey as a father is just beginning. It's a new chapter in his life filled with love, challenges, and growth. As he embraces his role, I hope he will navigate the joys and struggles of parenthood. 😊

I will never understand the Goenkas attitude. They're like conveniently letting go the fact that Abhimanyu is the father and whatever thought behind the process may have been Akshara decided to lie I won't say hid coz she loed that hey i have a son and here is a guy who is the father.

Abhimanyu cares a lot about Abhir and Ruhi. I don't know why and how this has been established that he is neglecting Ruhi coz he is not. I really like his parenting style only one out of the lot who cleared the difference between the two child and made them friends.

Now the brother sister duo shares a bond so good that Abhir actually told Ruhi when he got to know the half truth and Ruhi calling Abhi and sharing that shows the level of trust she have on him.

Abhimanyu has every right on Abhir and I am glad that he got it. It's not injustice or anything. It was a court case for the sole custody initiated by Akshnav and like a good civilian he attended the hearings present his side of story and won.

Rest emotionally how they will bond depends. Though I will say it again Akshnav did twist the RWP narrative quite badly in front of Abhir not only that can change the dynamics of Abhir and Abhimanyu but it's having a real bad effect on Abhir at present.

But Legally I am glad that Abhir is Abhir Birla s/o abhimanyu birla. A child of divorce. A child who is loved by both set of parents.

Yes very true well said, the Goenkas were acting as if, Abhimanyu is a random stranger who is getting the custody of Abhir. He is the father too and he indeed is giving his best to his journey of fatherhood. His priority is always Abhir and Ruhi. Yes, loved the bond Abhimanyu encouraged between Ruhi and Abhir. From Being spiteful Ruhi has become Abhir’s sister,confidante and a great friend.Kudos to Abhimanyu the father he deserves some credit in this regard.

I also feel after the leap Abhimanyu is way more transparent and patient whereas Sharmas were very reluctant to reveal about Abhimanyu being the father to Abhir.In my opinion, They especially Akshara kept finding reasons to delay the truth reveal and prioritised Abhinav’s feelings over Abhir’s confusions,frustrations and anxieties regarding his biological father’s identity.

I love my parents and somehow one of them being more important has never occurred to me, ITV is all about mother's love because their Target audience are married women with kids. Someone like me, doesn't connect with this discrimination.

Abhimanyu is an amazing father to Abhir and Ruhi

With everyone against him and the way things are being presented to Abhir that he thinks his rwp is not really good and has snatched him from his parents the road ahead is not going to be easy. And not to mention. Even a small scratch on Abhir everyone will be ready to show how he is a bad father. These are same ppl who want him to be Ru father and these are the same ppl who couldn’t manage a 6 year old and let him slip out of the house under their watch.

Goenkas are the synonym for Hypocrisy

Just going to add that I feel what Akshara do with her happy family jaap is Toxic Positivity it is not going to have a very good impact on Abhir.

P.S: I could have been a mental health advocate too

Originally posted by: NoraSM

I love my parents and somehow one of them being more important has never occurred to me, ITV is all about mother's love because their Target audience are married women with kids. Someone like me, doesn't connect with this discrimination.

Abhimanyu is an amazing father to Abhir and Ruhi

I have seen fathers who have gone out of their ways and given their bests to their children and those father’s struggles shouldn’t go unseen.Fathers who have strived to be an active part of their children’s life.Today in modern times such positive fathers do exist in vast numbers and that deserves recognition.I hope someday Itv will portray such a good and positive shade of fatherhood before ott streaming services completely take over..