How can you say that abhimanyu did nothing wrong to akshara - Page 9

Originally posted by: WhtsinAname

High expectations ?????

Abhimanyu cant fulfill even the basic expectations from a life partner.

Yes sure he had a ryt to angry on Akshara and even blame her ( which I personally dont think she ws responsible fr ) for Neil's death. Yes he also had a ryt to care for his mother first.

But No not the babies. A child belongs to both mother and father. Infact in their case Abhimanyu didnt want Akshara to hv a child. She wanted to risk her life to have a child. So no he doesnt get to blame a mother fr losing a child. Noone does. A mother suffers more pain in a miscarriage than a father can even imagine. Abhimanyu alwys sees his pain as higher and ignored Akshara's pain.

Being angry , blaming her and treating her like shit ws still somewhere understandable but throwing her out , divorcing her ( second time btw) .....how is that right ?? Is marriage a joke ?? Anytime u face a hurdle , you throw your wife out of ur life ? And expecting Abhimanyu to be a decent husband is high expectations ?? How ?

@Bold 👏👏

Wow!!!! It's surprising that people blame Akshara for losing their baby! But such sad is the reality.

Hoenstly, no one responsible for. Anything that happened during first part... It was just a risk and innocent attempt to save lives... But let it be!

Manjari loved Neil so much that she remained silent about his real identity n let him get abused by his own father and this was defended by Abhimanyu saying ke maa ke intentions galat nahi the while same Manjari berated Akshara for hiding about Abhir while forgetting she did same thing n abhi her puppet son defended her so its the hypocrisy both maa beta shows.

Akshara is at fault for changing docs but that doesn't makes Abhi a victim too when all mess he started at 1st 6 yrs back,He was the one who abused his wife who had a miscarriage n was bleeding,throwing divorce papers on her face n blaming her for numerous deaths including her step mother's.He failed as a husband n doctor both.He left his wife on roads to survive and didn't even cared to know whether shed is alive or dead.He only cared for the baby n he confessed that too when he said that he didn't knew the one baby survived otherwise he would have been beside akshara.This means he only cared for his baby n didn't cared that akshara lives or dies.Both mother son only cares for the baby n didn't even cared that akshara almost died while giving birth to abhir n this manjari thinks that her right on abhir is more than Akshara's.She only wants to replace herself as a mother in Abhir's life.

Originally posted by: Chaitu.V

Is Ruhi not in the show? Why r being rude and getting personal ? When u can talk about Akshara I can talk about AbM and his wrong deeds too!if u have a logical argument u can reply or stop quoting me

I will give logical reply since you brought Ru in this debate. Junior himself didn’t know who his real father is so how his real father is going to disclose it to Ru and expect Ru to keep quite? Now both kids will know the truth.

Main argument was AK is wrong or not and yes she is she did paternity fraud and even court recognised that and her losing the custody was not only financial reason but the fraud. And another case will be running for that on her.

This forum really messed up my mind people defending abhimanyu and manjari is the definition of Indian mentality that supports abuse and torcher in the name of love it's a new low for me

Originally posted by: reddit_toe

I will give logical reply since you brought Ru in this debate. Junior himself didn’t know who his real father is so how his real father is going to disclose it to Ru and expect Ru to keep quite? Now both kids will know the truth.

Main argument was AK is wrong or not and yes she is she did paternity fraud and even court recognised that and her losing the custody was not only financial reason but the fraud. And another case will be running for that on her.

If Akshara is wrong hiding the identity ,causing trauma to a miscarried women and kicking her out is is also wrong but court’s illogical judgement of giving custody of a kid who want to live with his parents is based on financial conditions ! I am sure u watched how it’s affecting Abhir the most!

Akahara is expected to to forget everything she went through ( I am not going list them here as everyone already knows) and go back to Abhimanyu and forgive him. She may forgive him eventually but will never forget.

Originally posted by: Chaitu.V

I watched the episode so I heard too! But he always have reasons to hide things but when someone does the same he have a problem ,that’s my point! Everyone have their own reasons to hide things but he is an hypocrite!

If Akshara is wrong hiding the identity ,causing trauma to a miscarried women and kicking her out is is also wrong but court’s illogical judgement of giving custody of a kid who want to live with his parents is based on financial conditions ! I am sure u watched how it’s affecting Abhir the most!

That’s the point court custody was not only based on financial condition and also on paternity fraud which you are ignoring. I’m sure you heard what the judge had to say. All this could have been avoided. Also Abhir only knows half truth which is always dangerous than knowing full truth. This entire situation could have been maturely handled. In the starting of the argument I had mentioned clearly you cannot punish father for the crimes of husband. Both relations are different.

Also about hiding part when he got to know about Abhir he kept it to himself because Abhir’s heart surgery was still pending. So I don’t understand the argument of hiding the truth. After the surgery was done he always wanted his son to know that he is his dad.

What ever state Abhir is in right now is because of AK how she mishandled the situation when Abhir knew half truth and was desperately searching for his father. She said just before leaving from Kasauli that I don’t know where he is. I mean you are complicating things for your son and now also not telling him the whole truth is the cause of the entire breakdown and I’m sure tomorrow also she is not going to convey the truth without manipulating it.

Why was this forum even opened? Hasnt it already been said and done that Abhimanyu did wrong with Akshara on white day. Nobody said Abhimanyu did nothing wrong, Abhimanyu has been blamed already and everyday since the leap for white day. I don’t know which drama the TM was watching but it’s already been said in the drama and fans have agreed that Abhimanyu was wrong for white day and he can’t blame anyone but himself for his reaction and divorcing his wife while she had a miscarriage.

Also, we all agree- every fandom - that Manjiri doesn’t care about anyone but her son, so it’s nothing new that she believes they did nothing wrong. Abhi even told her that they did wrong with Akshara, that everyone was in the wrong and is guilty yet still Manjiri thinks she is right.

White day was very out of character for Abhimanyu- why because before that he was planning on never becoming a father since his wife would have a risk pregnancy. But my biggest reason that white day was very out of character for Abhimanyu is because during the first separation- this guy didn’t even divorce Akshara for a whole year despite that fact that she disappeared for a whole year without any whereabouts after promising him that she would be there after his surgery. He didn’t get a letter, nothing- all he saw was a video of her leaving with her brother- how come he didn’t divorce her? He could have sent divorce papers to her family and say forward it to Akshara but he didn’t. He sent divorce papers after a year after meeting her because he believed that of all the issues that were arising was due to their relationship. Also, I will never understand Akshara believing that Abhimanyu should have trusted her that she left for a reason for a year- no spouse would be okay with their spouse leaving for a year without telling them anything. That’s beyond trust.

After the first leap, the writers should have prolonged Abhi and Akshara getting back together. The writers should have focused on them fixing the issues in their relationship, not making them focus on fixing their family relations. Abhimanyu and Akshara could never only just focus on themselves, there was always something to deal with.

if Akshara and Abhimanyu were to live away from both their families in another state, they would have been happy.

Well it’s too late now, Abhi and Akshara are a mess and they continued being a mess and now involved their mess is their own child. 🤦🏽‍♀️

Originally posted by: reddit_toe

That’s the point court custody was not only based on financial condition and also on paternity fraud which you are ignoring. I’m sure you heard what the judge had to say. All this could have been avoided. Also Abhir only knows half truth which is always dangerous than knowing full truth. This entire situation could have been maturely handled. In the starting of the argument I had mentioned clearly you cannot punish father for the crimes of husband. Both relations are different.

Also about hiding part when he got to know about Abhir he kept it to himself because Abhir’s heart surgery was still pending. So I don’t understand the argument of hiding the truth. After the surgery was done he always wanted his son to know that he is his dad.

What ever state Abhir is in right now is because of AK how she mishandled the situation when Abhir knew half truth and was desperately searching for his father. She said just before leaving from Kasauli that I don’t know where he is. I mean you are complicating things for your son and now also not telling him the whole truth is the cause of the entire breakdown and I’m sure tomorrow also she is not going to convey the truth without manipulating it.

Judgment was not based of birth certificate but purely on financial conditions! That’s what judge clearly said ! In all this why r u ignoring the pain of Abhir ? Why is AbM not feeling or understanding the pain of Abhir when small kid Ruhi can do ?

Originally posted by: Chaitu.V

@ bold Ak is his mother and she risked her life to bring him into the world so she will never ever can cause him any pain! She was only trying to protect him from this pain all the time! Kids can have many questions like he asked is his bio dad bad that he left his mom ?Ak and Abhinav handled the situation very well or else what the kid would have felt ? if they reveal the reason do u think Abhir will love AbM? He will start treating him the same way how he treated Harsh!

Judgment was not based of birth certificate but purely on financial conditions! That’s what judge clearly said ! In all this why r u ignoring the pain of Abhir ? Why is AbM not feeling or understanding the pain of Abhir when small kid Ruhi can do ?

Exactly ...Maa & Beta think only about their rights,act like entire universe wronged them 😆

Manjari & Beta will explain to Abhir

" His biological father threw his Mom out of rhe house, signing divorce paper , never even looked at her or try to answer her calls , "??

Hope some one drops the Bombshell in worse possible way 😆

Abir will instantly start disliking the father !

When wife go through abortion which husband does that !

Manjari says " Abimanyu did nothing wrong to Akshara !!! I am amused "

Best Maa and Beta jodi both of them dwell in self pity and sees each other perfect...

They don't even think about Abir happiness , the child is a property that they must conquer!